How do you choose between loving and being loved?

Half and half, love is not to say that blindly to love others, or blindly to be loved by others is a good thing, which will lead to one party to pay too much, and the other party does not care, so I feel that love and be loved is half and half better, otherwise whether it is to love others, or to be loved by others, it is not a good ending, the best state of two people is to love each other and be the role, I have love for you, and at the same time you have to pay for me, so it is the best state, The love between the two is like a balance, whoever is a little heavier is not good, often the balance is the best, a buddy in college, when he goes to college, there is a girl who likes him very much.

I just like it.,I don't know why it's the same as the devil.,Crazy pursuit of my buddy.,My buddy is not a very good bird.,It's a flower.,Now there's a girl upside down.,He's even more unscrupulous.,Usually not very good to this girl.,But blindly enjoy this girl's dedication to him.,This girl in the big winter is waiting for him downstairs to eat.,This guy is still unhurried to wash his hair in the dormitory.,Many times I can't stand it and ask my buddy.,Say you're so kind to people.,He's good.,Reply, She is willing to love, I am willing to be loved, "one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer", I was speechless, of course, this relationship ended in a breakup, and in the end this girl couldn't stand his flowers, and she was tired, so she proposed to break up, this guy is usually used to it, and now there is nothing, and he panicked all of a sudden, but begged people not to leave him, it's too late, people's hearts are dead, and they don't love you anymore.

Love and be loved, be comfortable and choose to be loved. But I'd rather love, even if I can't. Because, many people who are loved are not their true love, and they go against their hearts, and they would rather lack than abuse.

I just started working and often went to play with my classmates. My classmate's sister took a liking to me and conveyed it through her grandmother or my relative. I was both sincerely scared and unacceptable.

The classmate's sister is too thin and small, and it is estimated that it will not exceed 1.5 meters, like an undeveloped primary school student. Thinking that he is not tall, and the offspring born in the future will become shorter and shorter, it is entirely possible. So he politely declined.

Now that many years have passed, everyone is old, and the son of the classmate's sister is really small and inherits his mother's genes.

When it comes to love, although it can't be asked, it can stimulate a man's will, move closer to beauty, and move towards perfection. For example, when I was young, I fell in love with a girl, outstanding in all aspects, and felt that I had a lot of shortcomings to make up, so I secretly made up my mind that I must be a better person, whether it is in my studies or in my future work, I must strive to be first-class, and be a person with cultivation, ambition and achievement.

Although it was returned to zero in the end, there were no regrets. After all, in this pursuit of love, the self is perfected. It is the powerful power of love, pushing oneself to move forward, no one has me, and no one has me.

I can't say how good I am, at least I have cultivated a habit of "people go to a high place", even if they reach a certain age, they will not slack off, they will have small goals in the near future, and they will have higher pursuits in the future, and they will never be confused. In this way, you will not go in vain in the next life.

Hard work pays off. With the realization of small goals, I am more confident and more hopeful for the future. Be brave to love, although you can't love, but you have reaped the gift of life: striving to become a habit to be upstream!!

To love and be loved, I choose to be loved. Choosing to be loved, maybe you will be in love after a long time, and choosing to love without getting love will be a very painful thing. It is very happy to be loved, and it is painful to simply give love.

In a relationship, if only one of the parties pays, the person who pays will feel very tired and painful, and the person who gets it will become more and more unscrupulous, and more and more take it for granted, so that the party who gets it will not know how to cherish this feeling, which is a fatal blow to the party who pays. So I'm definitely going to abandon the option of love because I don't want to make myself miserable.

And if you choose to be loved, you will get more happiness, of course, I will not ask for it unscrupulously, in the process of being loved, I will also take the initiative to give, try to give the same love to each other, although this requires a process, but when being loved, these are worth paying.

But I think the real happiness in love is to love and be loved, you are both loved by the other party and love each other. This is what love should look like, and this kind of love will last longer.

At the age of 18, I chose "love".

At the age of 23, I chose to "be loved".

This is a problem that girls often encounter, often do not know how to choose, in fact, everyone has different ideas, and different views on things, so there is no real right or wrong in this kind of problem, and they are just talking about their inner feelings.

At the age of 18, the emotional road is ignorant (and it is now), I don't know how to refuse, I don't know how to express, I don't know how to love, I say that the first love is the most unforgettable, because of that ignorant emotion, it is a seed in our hearts, it is watered, cared for, and then it sends out tender shoots, is touched by the warm sun, and blooms small flowers, is ruthlessly blown by the wind and rain, and finally faces withered death. I don't know if it's called "love". At that time, I called myself brave, desperate for love, hoping to see the rainbow one day.

Later love is like a blind man saying to a deaf man, I see love, so mysterious.

At the age of 23, he has experienced a baptism of love and experienced the scene of things around him. I suddenly felt that the love I agreed with at the beginning was a child's playhouse, I said, I experienced it, and it was over. It's like when you were a kid walking through a shop window, you took a fancy to the rag doll inside, clamored to get it, and fell asleep holding it all night.

Do you still want that rag doll back then? No, you just think about when I will become that rag doll, and I will be brought home by others with joy, cared for and loved.

Time is memory, bringing us joy and accompanying us through heavy rain; Time is good medicine, it brings us sweetness, but also gives us bitterness; Time is a door, accompanied by your growth, and witnessed your changes.

Choose to be loved, because sometimes love is too difficult, and I always feel that I have given a lot, and I am not understood by the other party.

A long time ago I chose to love, and then I chose to be loved, and I think being loved is happiness, what do you think?