Why are modern people unhappy when they eat and drink?

In order to fill the emptiness in their hearts, they go to see the mobile phone to relieve boredom, corrode the spirit, and get vulgar and polluted short-term happiness, over time, they can't do without the mobile phone, and become a slave of the mobile phone, but they are unable to extricate themselves, and some are willing to fall. This will inevitably lead to emptiness in the heart, the correct way is to put away the mobile phone, establish the correct three views, fill the spiritual emptiness with hard study, and replace the vulgar happiness with a healthy and nutritious lifestyle to get the real happiness of the soul.

In the world, material is the foundation, and money is the necessary place to meet the material. No money will cause too much unhappiness, want to buy a car, no money, want to buy a house, no money, all kinds of cosmetics, brand-name bags, in short, all hope to get, but do not have the economic strength to achieve, this situation will cause a large number of people to be unhappy.

Work pressure: In your daily work, the competition between colleagues, whether you get along well, the leader's attitude towards you, etc., these invisible troubles are enough for you to worry for a while; Life pressure: As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, as for how difficult it is to read, only the person concerned knows, and outsiders can only watch the excitement at most, but they can't see what is going on.

To be honest, none of the people living in the current society can escape the pressure or tribulation that life gives them. More or less everyone has unsatisfactory and untruthful places, if someone says, it is impossible, you see who is wealthy, eats and has fun all day long, and lives a lot of depression. In fact, the real situation is not just what you see, maybe he suffers no less than you.

Unless there are only immortals who do not eat the fireworks of the world, they will live a carefree life, without pressure and tribulation.

Who is making a lot in what industry, who is losing a lot of money in what business, and who is doing in the company, these topics should be one of the indispensable topics for gatherings between family and friends. When saying these words, there are some elements of envy and pity, plus some people love to drill the horns, thinking about themselves when they think about it, in a word, don't think about anything so much, there is not so much pressure, in fact, sometimes it's good to be a heartless person.

This problem is simpler, the economy is developing too fast, and most people's income has not kept up with the pace of economic development, the gap between the rich and the poor is too large, the employment pressure is great, because of the marital problems and social problems caused by economic reasons, that is to say, the income is not enough to cope with the soaring prices, which is the reason why some people live a difficult life and are difficult to be happy.

Because the communication between people has become no longer pure, the interpersonal communication with false feelings is better than not making friends, wasting time and energy but not getting good desired results, and the interaction without real feelings makes people tired, and it is very tiring to maintain, and it is not tiring if it is not maintained? The correct attitude is sincerity, this kind of friendship can be called friendship, and getting along with it is a happy and pleasant feeling.

Whether you are happy or not, only the heart knows. The source of happiness is always contentment. The root of unhappiness is caused by excessive desire, people in the past, because of material poverty, in order to eat and eat hard, people are simple-minded, not much selfish desires, people seem to be more satisfied in a simple life, easier to be happy, modern people, with social progress, people's food and clothing is no longer a problem, cultural life is also rich and colorful, people have the foundation to pursue a higher quality of material life, higher quality of cultural life.

In this pursuit, there will inevitably be ups and downs, and some people will fail, so they think that they are stressed and unhappy.

People are like that, not satisfied, especially young people who have never been hungry. Before the opening up, rural people ate pork three times a year, but now most people can eat meat three times a day

Social (technologically advanced) progress, a product of the post-era!! With the development of science and technology, people's requirements are of course different from before! The times are progressing, and mobile phone ** SMS computer qqemail has replaced the human greeting to be busy with their own work but ignore the relaxation of the bad body and mind

Because the conditions were poor before, now the conditions are good, and I have a desire.

One: excessive pursuit of unproductive pleasures.

Confucius said that there are three kinds of beneficial happiness and three kinds of harmful happiness. Pleasure in pride, pleasure in playing around, loitering around, pleasure in feasting big and small, are all harmful pleasures.

The more this happiness is pursued, it will not last long, and it will cause greater unhappiness to oneself. That's why philosophers say: Man should not pursue worldly pleasures, but noble pleasures. Second: not moved by good things.

The east wind has nothing to do, and the makeup is ten thousand flowers. "We may not have the ability to create beauty, but do we appreciate the beauty created by nature, the beauty created by others? We often turn a blind eye to the beauty of nature, art, spirituality, life, and creation.

Third: living too idle or too busy.

If you live too idlely, your value will not be reflected, and you will be unhappy;

If you are too busy, although you create value, you will be unhappy if you lack the leisure to enjoy it Fourth: From the wrong comparison Western proverb says: Whether a person is happy or unhappy does not depend on how much he has achieved, but from the eyes of his neighbors who look at him.

When people are not pursuing happiness, but being happier than others, happiness will be far away from us.

Fifth: Don't dare to insist on being yourself.

A person becomes a good son of his parents, a good husband to his wife, a good father to his son, a good partner to his friends, and a good partner to his colleagues, but if a person cannot become the self he wants, and he always fights with himself, this person is not coordinated, and it is naturally difficult to be truly happy.

Seventh: Lack of faith.

Most people don't know what they want in this life, but simply put, you have to know what you really want in this life. Confucius ate brown rice, drank boiled water, and when he slept, he didn't even have a pillow, so he bent his arms as a pillow, but Confucius said "enjoy it"; Yan Hui "has a spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alley", others feel that this kind of life is impossible to live, but Yan Hui can do it "without changing his happiness". Why?

Because they know what they're pursuing in this life. No. 8: Being happy and not knowing it A light that is always on, you will not pay attention to it, but if it is flickering on and off, or it is on and off, you will notice.

In the same way, sometimes we become the object of envy of others, and we ourselves are at a loss, and only when one day we lose it, we will be surprised.

No. 9: I don't know how to give.

Zhang Shangying of the Song Dynasty said that "Le Mo is happy to be kind", and a person who knows how to give rather than just ask will be happy. Alms are not the preserve of the rich. Donating hundreds of millions to disaster areas is charity, and giving a smile to strangers is also charity.

No. 10: Discontentment.

How much does a person have to get to be satisfied? It's hard to fill the craze!

When you are unhappy that you don't have shoes, do you pay attention to those who don't have feet? Be content!

In fact, in this era of abundant materials but lack of spirit, we have been able to enjoy the material, but neglect personal emotions, people always feel that they are full of food and clothing, but they always lack a sense of security and self-balance of the heart, lose the original innocence and freedom, let their hearts lack of calm.

If you are spiritually happy, then it is happy, if you experience it in the inner world, if you experience joy, then it is peace, if you experience joy physically, then it is health, if you keep joy in these three aspects, no matter what, then it means that you have succeeded, so the fundamental reason for saying that you are unhappy is that if you divide the word Xu Shuo generally, he may be healthy, it may be happiness, it may be happiness, it may be peace, To be precise, it's too much influenced by Westernization, and that's the bottom line, it's that you're going to experience everything, you're going to feel that everything is happening within you, and the only thing I need to emphasize, or the only thing you need to believe, is that happiness is spontaneous, joy is spontaneous.

Because you haven't tried to play Yasuo.

Don't rush to adopt, Xiaobi is revising the answer.

That's a really good question, so I can't help but chat with you.

You've heard that when a person has more than he has, the more he will want to have! When a person is poor and can't even afford to eat, a steamed bun can bring him great happiness.

So what really makes people unhappy is the heart that is filled with desires and cannot be satisfied.

There are two kinds of happiness in this world, one is to satisfy one's own desires and realize one's desires. This kind of happiness is usually accompanied by greater pain or makes more people unhappy, because satisfying you means that more people cannot be satisfied, because the resources on the earth are limited, and the more you get, the less others naturally get.

The other is to reduce one's desires, in the past, it was to get a house and a car, so that he could be happy. Now let yourself stop thinking about that, your desire will be lowered, and you will naturally be happy. And this method of achieving happiness is often only done by cultivators, and Xiaobi thinks that he is not good enough.

In the end, Xiaobi thinks that helping others is the foundation of happiness, so I like to know how to help everyone who is troubled.

You can ask this question, it shows that you also have unhappiness, in fact, life is short, there is no need to hurt yourself for what you can't get, or get all kinds of distress that you don't want, unhappiness is a punishment for yourself, modern people often like to punish themselves like this, so why bother?

The above is the reason why the days are getting better and better, but people are becoming more and more unhappy. Although it is relatively brief, the general meaning is still expressed, and I hope it will be helpful to you.

Xiaobi sincerely wishes that you can also lower your desires, do more good deeds, and become a happy person! If you are good to others, others will be good to you, and if the world is full of love, how can people not be happy?

The pen is affectionate to answer.

[Why Chinese are becoming more and more unhappy] 1. The rich and the poor are unequal, and there is a hatred of the rich. 2. Do only three things in your life: raise children, provide for a house, save money for retirement, and neglect yourself.

3. Long working hours and high pressure. 4. Fortify each other and lack a sense of trust. 5. Poor security and no sense of security.

6. Personal rights and property are not guaranteed. 7. Worried about the future. 8. Have a lot of entertainment and a good face.

9. Hypocrisy, doing things against your will.

1.Because people have intentions. There is desire. There is a comparative. There is also a personality that does not admit defeat.

Just as people eat better than people in the past, but they are more likely to get sick and more squeamish, it is a truth, and now that life is better, people tend to think more, to be precise, they want more, so they are not as simple as before, and they are not as ......fast as before

Because people want a better life.

Life is better, there are more troubles, and the pressure is getting greater, so how can there be happiness?

The hustle and bustle of life and the disconnection from nature.

Anxiety is the anxiety of the mood, every time there is always anxiety, it does not mean that it is a common problem of people now, it is a time when individuals will always have anxiety.

Anxiety is a personal physical and mental experience, single and marriage anxiety is really very different, after getting married and having children, all kinds of irritability and trivial things, gradually their own mentality has changed, sometimes it is time to self-regulate and adjust! It would be better not to transition through this period.

In a materialistic society, even if you don't take the initiative to compare yourself with others, the people around you will compare you with others, and there will be a gap in comparison, and of course you will be anxious! Some people, thinking about the efforts made behind others, do not put in the effort themselves, and the anxiety will naturally disappear! This is the type of person with a good mentality.

Other people can imagine that they are really anxious, they can't eat well, they can't sleep well, and they can't calm down when they work and study!

Having anxiety has different meanings for pessimistic and negative people and positive people. It is important to know that no one is smooth sailing, and it is precisely when there are difficulties that the difficulties are solved that society will progress and mankind will have a sense of achievement.

Don't know why you're so confused! But there must be a reason for you! I would like to talk about my own perception from my own point of view:

I am a counselor and a teacher, and I am most exposed to the anxiety of parents! Many parents are faced with the pressure of their own work and life, and then turn to transfer these pressures to their children. The more anxious, the more controlled!

Therefore, I think that anxiety is an emotion, emotions are a signal, and the right level of anxiety can help us improve our concentration.

Objectively recognize the cause behind anxiety and work hard to solve it, even if it is only a little bit, and the anxiety will be reduced a lot. Why? That's because things are going in a good direction, and anxiety is naturally reduced.

Jumping out of the latitude of anxiety, looking at the current anxiety from a different time, a different space, and a different perspective, will come to a completely different judgment. Even if it's just a good night's sleep, it's completely different.