How long will it take me to get out of the pain of bereavement

I think that everyone with independent self-esteem does not need sympathy. I don't think you'll be an exception. So, I don't sympathize with your experience, on the contrary, it may make you stronger, but I can understand your feelings very well.

People are resilient, and no matter what they have experienced, they can get themselves out, just for a short period of time. We say that people's pain about something comes from memories and recollections, so I suggest that you find a man who loves you and you also love at the right time, and continue the relationship, even if you use him as a stand-in for your ex-husband, you may say that this is not fair to him. Yes, but when you get used to the presence of this person, you will build a new relationship to replace your memory of your ex-husband, and happiness will come back to you.

No matter what happens, life has to go on. I really hope that you will persistently strive for and meet your next happiness.

Have fun!

I sympathize with your plight, and I can imagine how much pain and helplessness you feel in your heart right now! But since you can't change the facts, try to accept the reality! The reality is that he has left you, it's sad, after crying, cheer up, for your family, for your friends, for the people around you, you're still young, and there's still a long way to go!

I know that no matter what I say now, you won't listen, but as a passerby, it hurts me to see you like this! Be strong! Hope you get better day by day!

May the people around you see your long-lost smile soon!

There are still many people around who silently care about you and love you! If you suffer, they will suffer with you, and if you are happy, they will be happy! It's important to open your heart, time will take away your pain, let time solve all problems!

You can't get it if you marry again. Carry a bag on your back. Buy a bike. Bring some money and go around China. I forgot.

Keep reviewing, forgetting, waiting, forgetting slowly, don't think about how long it will take to get out of the pain, time will help you dilute everything.

You're only 30 years old, and you won't be miserable when you learn to truly love yourself!

Someone can't get out because of a dead husband? Why?? Don't you think that getting promoted and getting rich and dying your husband are the three great joys of life?

This friend! I want to tell you that you want to open up, people are going to die, and it's not your husband who will die alone, there is no way to do it, but you have to continue to live, I hope you can muster up the courage to live well, your husband's spirit in heaven must also hope that you can live happily for a lifetime! Come on!

Some time ago, some relatives around me also suffered such a thing, and when we heard the news, our hearts were "chuckled", and we couldn't accept this fact for a long time, not to mention that she ......

The pain is indescribable, and we will never be able to understand ......The relative I'm talking about, she's very young, only 26 ......

She has been married to her husband for 5 or 6 years, and has a son and a daughter for her, and her husband has a good personality and loves her very much.

The good days are just beginning ......

But no one can help an accident, this sudden accident comes and goes as fast as ......Heaven did not give her any chance to stay, only left her with endless painful ......As time passed, it was almost half a year.

But she also often posts news on Douyin, all about missing her husband, reminiscing and retaining ......We saw it, we felt sorry for her, and we all hoped that she could come out soon!

But we know that this consolation is a pale ......

The most important thing is to rely on yourself! Get out on her own.

Sadness is certain, we ordinary people can't understand the thickness of their feelings, and we can't understand the depth of her painful judgment.... …

The deep wound of love!

But there is no other way but to face it!

There's a long way to go, there's still a lot of time left, and she can't keep being so depressed!

She has to be responsible for herself, be kind to herself, and have the right attitude.

If he has changed his attitude well, he must be very relieved in heaven!

The future is promising, don't let the current situation stop you!

We sincerely hope that she is getting better and better!

I hope she will come out one day sooner, this is also the best explanation for herself!

I hope she: not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of closing the mold, not thinking about the past!

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<> birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of life, although we will be very reluctant to let our relatives die, but in the face of this objective law of Qi Li, we cannot change it.

Since we know that we can't change this law, we should adjust our mood in time. If you're in a lot of pain right now, find a way to vent your emotions in a positive way. When you're sad, you can find something to do to distract yourself and don't always get yourself into sadness.

Although my father is gone, the good memories of my father's beautiful and high school shoots are eternal, and cheering up and living well is the best memory of my father.

This topic is very similar to the story of one of my best friends, who in the end chose to give up the child and chose to remarry.

In this life, the most painful thing is that the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, if the pain can be graded, the most painful is the pain of losing a child, anyone who has experienced it will be torn apart, and the six gods have no master.

Tang Hong is a best friend of mine, she is very beautiful, before she got married, there were many people who pursued her, her husband worked in a private company, he was an only child, the two have been married for almost a year, and Tang Hong has not yet been pregnant.

Tang Hong's mother-in-law is over the age of six, like many old people, she has always been looking forward to having a grandson, the old man is a little confused, for the sake of her grandson's affairs, her mother-in-law has gone to find someone to worship many times, maybe it is the oak of heaven that cares, Tang Hong is really pregnant.

When the fetal beam was two months old in Tang Hong's belly, an unfortunate disaster befell her husband, who died in a car accident, and his husband's departure left Tang Li, who was two months pregnant, and an elderly mother.

Tang Hong's husband's departure hit her mother-in-law very hard, the old man didn't eat for a few days, didn't sleep well, as a wife, Tang Hong was also heartbroken, she was originally pregnant for ten months, she should be held in the palm of her husband's hand, and she welcomed the arrival of a new life with her, but she first ushered in her husband's unexpected death.

A month after Tang Hong's husband died, Tang Hong made a difficult decision, that is, to pray for her mother-in-law to give up the child in her womb and give her freedom, and her mother-in-law's idea is very simple, that is, she hopes that Tang Hong will leave a grandson or granddaughter's child to the old man, which can become the spiritual sustenance of the old man.

For this issue, my mother-in-law and Tang Hong had a big disagreement, but in the end my mother-in-law chose to agree with Tang Hong, in fact, in this kind of thing, I support my mother-in-law to agree with Tang Hong's approach, after all, my son is gone, and it is impossible to ask my daughter-in-law to be widowed in this era, she will have her own new life and family, and she has to move forward.