Endless troubles. How to get out of the country

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Make your heart strong, make your life full, and make the people around you happy;

    To be a strong person in life, you know that the joy of giving is far greater than demanding.

    When we encounter setbacks, with tears in our eyes, we can also smile;

    Life is full of knowledge, face yourself, find happiness, overcome yourself, and create happiness.

    In this way, we are the strong in life, the wise in life, and the happy in the heart.

    The most important thing is: start getting started and get real started right away!

    Then you will be amazed to find that we need to change;

    It turns out that we are also easy to change;

    It turns out that after the change, the world is more exciting!

    Life needs to change, love needs to be preserved, life needs to constantly ignite sparks, life will inevitably experience big and small twists and turns, mutual dedication is needed, and mutual tolerance is needed.

    The truth is so, cherish and cherish!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Relax your heart, there is nothing that you can't get out, maybe it's a matter of time, maybe it's just that you can't turn a corner for a while, in short, everything will be fine, no one's life is smooth sailing, and after the baptism of wind and waves, life is more meaningful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is normal, and now I feel endless troubles, but there will be a day when the clouds will be cleared, because on a foggy road, if you don't move forward, you will never be able to see the scenery ahead, only continue to move forward, although you can't see far, but the closest scenery to you will see. Keep your head down and keep moving forward, and the target will be behind you. Come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find a place where no one is around, and a yelling can bring out the troubles in your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can feel a lot of troubles at this time, you can be happy at another time, and the key is to have the sensitivity to feel troubles and happiness.

    A heart that has dried up, the appearance of not caring about anything, is an attitude.

    Laughing when you want to laugh and crying when you want to cry is another attitude.

    People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny, and this matter is difficult to complete. "Every day, sorrow and joy alternately on duty; In your big family, people cling to each other and grasping happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find something to do, don't be idle, and you won't be annoyed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because there is nothing you can do, so go with the flow. Because the heart has nothing to fear, it is at peace with the encounter. Just seen from the space.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time is full first, busy and can't take care of worries.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you're busy, you don't have time to think about it, you need to fill up your heart, it's not that you don't want to, but you're still annoyed in your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What did you experience?

    Life is unsatisfactory, but some are really unacceptable, but death requires courage, the fear of death is very terrible, I hope to cherish life, time is the solution to everything, I believe that it will slowly pass.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let go of obsessions, let go of desires, and meditate on the Buddha.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't eat for three days, drink only water.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    ID card must be found, if you can't find it, you have to borrow a relative's ID card to find a job, now what you need is not to be picky about the job, but to choose a job to do first, if you live in peace of mind, just find a job with a working meal first, first employment, then choose a job, there is no money in your hand, so what you have to do is.

    Earn 100 yuan - 1000 yuan - 10000 yuan - 100000 yuan and keep circulating, the goal does not need to be big, but to be a man, you must have a goal, people without a goal are always headless flies, aimlessly waiting for death everywhere.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find a job first and solve the current crisis! It's going to be okay slowly, just don't give up!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The difficulties are only temporary, and they will pass after a while. Find a temporary job first and solve your own food problems!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do small odd jobs, or use those dozens of dollars to get some sought-after toys that are easy to sell.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have friends around you, look for and borrow money first. Send you money. Then plan slowly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When you learn that every day there are so many news reports of deaths, so many people are injured, so many people jump off buildings and can't think about it, so many people commit suicide, so many people fall and fall for love and give up their lives...At this time, I feel that we are happy, because we can still see the sun every morning, heh

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Watch some songs that make you feel happy, and think about some happy things.

    Shift your focus to something else. Maybe you will feel sad at this moment, but after a while, you will feel that in fact, there is no time for these to give you the answer to life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The more you think about it, the more annoying it becomes, just don't think too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're so bored.

    Find something for yourself to do.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Dude, I read your story very carefully, and I can feel that you are a person of great affection, and you and your friends have also loved each other deeply, and they love you very deeply. Appearance.

    Whatever the reason for your separation, here are a few things you need to understand:

    1.What was the root cause of your breakup? What led you to this point? Is there a way to make up for it now?

    2.Can you still be together? Go find her and talk to her well, the relationship for 2 years is really not easy, don't give up easily, you will regret it.

    I also deeply loved my friend, and finally couldn't get together, I am very sad, now we have been separated for a few months, and there is no contact again, but a certain detail in life will always think of her, we will have too many memories, memories can not be erased, love will always be in our hearts for each other, I love her!

    Brother, don't give up even if there is still a glimmer of hope, buddy supports you!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Time will minimize the pain, life is not only love, love does not have to be obtained.

    There is so much to cherish in life, and you will understand later.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What an infatuated child, this.

    It's really rare to see a source in the coming year. Since.

    Bai has no love, divide it. If not.

    can be calm, or zhi to start a new relationship; Either go find a place with mountains and rivers to calm down and tell all the pain to nature; Otherwise, find a dance hall, KTV or something, go crazy for a night, leave the past behind, and come together the next day to tell yourself that a new life is about to begin, and forget everything in the past; It's best to be able to think about it naturally, but seeing that your bounty is so high and you have written so many explanations, you must still not be able to let go, if your psychological quality is high, let yourself see it clearly, laugh at your current cowardice and incompetence, and inspire yourself to be independent.

    By the way, why did you break up? Would you still like to be with her if you had the chance? If it's just that the woman feels that there is no emotion, and you don't want to let it go, then chase it again, you have so many beautiful pasts, just these tickets are enough to move people's hearts, and use your memories to evoke the love of the past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I met the Bai family to help me because I had du

    Help is also needed. zhi

    That's why I took the courage and found a lot of ways to do it.

    After the recommendation of the right netizen to ask for help, it is really good.

    If you want to get back together, you can go here to redeem it, because it works.

    Now I have completely come out of the pain, although it is not as sweet as before, but it is also good.

    I plan to get married next year, and I also want to travel abroad and enjoy the life of the two of them.

    I empathize with you, and I want to tell you when you are also in difficulty.

    If you want to know how others have succeeded in getting back together, you can call me by name.

    In the user profile, there is my blog**.

    See for yourself!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I can understand how you're feeling right now. Because I'm in the same situation as you, it takes the opportunity to afford it, and it takes courage to put it down, it's yours or it.

    The right to yours is not yours to leave sooner or later, and you concentrate your mind on improving your own taste, as a training exercise. Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will flow, and pay attention, what he wants, you don't let him get it easily. (Including***.)

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I handed one in before.

    Bai girlfriend du, broke up with him and the other one.

    Zhi personal interactions, she from.

    After the man returned to his hometown, he also replied to contact me, and once I met, do you think she loves me? Many things have been emptied, and things are wrong! That man should be able to take it and put it down! You should know what I mean!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I feel the same way, brother. Actually, the best thing I can do is work hard! Don't think about the past, as a man, you have to look at the money and answer emotionally.

    No one can say for sure! All you have to do now is work hard and work hard to make money. The girlfriend is gone, but your parents, your siblings, relatives.

    My friends are still there! In order to live a good life for yourself. It's okay to find an iron buddy to drink with and chat together, and tell myself that I am still not lonely without a girlfriend.

    May you come out of the shadows!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it were me, I would leave everything alone and go to a place I had never been to to restart my own life, and slowly let time fade away, and feelings would be reluctant.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Think about this part of your breakup.

    Bai time du you don't zhi when you do something

    Think of him If you find the time of the dao back to do this kind of thing often Time answer for a long time you will forget her Time can not be completely forgotten in time In your mind will slowly fade every memory between you Don't deliberately pursue people or things that don't belong to you Because that doesn't belong to you At the same time, there is more waiting for you Good luck!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, reputation, ......The Buddha said, "The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things."

    Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful. It's hard to do, take your time, and once you do it you'll benefit for life. In addition, you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, whether it is good or bad.

    It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what our floating society lacks todayI'll give you advice, can you see it?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The so-called authorities are like you.

    It's been 2 years, I rejected you for a while, and now I want to be with you because:

    Dumped by her boyfriend. Can you stand it?

    I'm telling you, deep down she won't forget her boyfriend!

    Don't be depressed, if another girl, you don't hate her, then try to go everywhere I personally think that being with her will be many times better than being with that girl you are obsessed with!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all you have been waiting for a long time ...

    Of course, you don't have to think about this... Now it's time to ask yourself, which one do you really like... Which will you choose·· What you love·· Love you...

    If you choose·· Don't regret it, because there is no regret medicine

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Does the girl you love really love you? Maybe it's the throbbing of youth, or the hurdle that you can't get over in your heart, you have to solve this kind of thing quickly, because it is impossible for a girl who loves you not to fall in love with someone else, so you have to figure out the relationship between you, whether you want to be the person before, or the girl who really loves you now. I think it's better for you to accept the present, otherwise it will be embarrassing, embarrassing to everyone, even if the previous person asked you why you are like this, you can confidently tell her that the love back then was not all love, it is a kind of attraction, since you chose your boyfriend and now come to choose me, then I also have the right to like you at the beginning and now find a real lover.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Whatever questions you have.

    I'll give you the universal answer:

    Don't be useless. Let go of the shackles! Improve yourself! Perfect yourself!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I came to you when I was dumped, only when you are a substitute for loneliness, and you should know which one to choose.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Tangled, support the latter, people pay for you, you are also moved by it, and you think she is good, and you have tasted the taste of being hurt, so don't hurt that innocent girl again. Two years have passed, it's time to fade, not to mention that her heart doesn't belong to you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Alas... I can understand your feelings, because for you, the girl who went to school is your love after all, and her breakup means a chance for you, and you are very sincere to her! Now the main thing is to determine that the other party is out of love, and looking for you again is to fill the blank in her heart, or whether she really has feelings for you, and she is moved, this is very important, very important.

    However, I still suggest that you accept it, the relationship is also cultivated, you must be very good to her together, besides, the man is married, accept it! Then treat her well, and you will also get married in two years, hehe·· That's a perfect ending! Come on!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I've had your situation too. I was also very unfortunate to be dumped、、I thought they broke up.。 to be able to gradually forget who they were ...

    Actually, it's just that I think it's too good... And then I was with another girl who loved me. But it didn't take long for me to break up.

    Although that girl is not bad either. But in my heart, I still like the position that is heavier.。。。 If she loved his previous boyfriend deeply.

    I can only tell you. With a slight chance, she won't hesitate to drop you、、、 if you're really going to live a lifetime. Or choose the one who loves you.

    Don't ask me why I don't choose ... I am not yet conscious of getting married... Hey..

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