How to make them like me and not hate me.

It is not hypocritical to speak Mandarin, to say a little bit is to follow your own ideas, and a big one is to facilitate communication, corresponding to the party's call (Khan. No one can influence other people's thoughts, just be yourself.

No one can win everyone's affection, since there is a boy who has a good relationship with you, it proves that you are very likable, what's wrong? That doesn't mean you're just a random girl. On the contrary, being envied is a proof of excellence.

Self-censor, are you more open-minded and don't quite understand the careful thinking of girls? If there are no errors in principle, it's fine, if you change for them now, how many people will you change for them later? Continue to go your own way, treat people with your heart, strengthen communication, and talk to them, maybe there is a misunderstanding.

What's more, are they really so important to you that you have to get back? (Maybe I'm serious, sorry) whether their love will take its course, and they can't force it. The road knows the horsepower.

It is recommended to talk to the people around you, maybe someone who understands the situation will give you more satisfaction.

First of all you should continue to speak Mandarin, I also disagree with them, why is it hypocritical to speak Mandarin? Is it hypocritical to speak Mandarin?

I-you: no hypocrisy at all! You have to be yourself, and it's casual to have a better relationship with guys''I couldn't agree more! It's that they're too feudal!

Also, if you want to have a good relationship with them, take the initiative to talk to them, or give them a gadget or something, it should be easy to deceive...

You must continue to speak Mandarin!!

Be yourself, maybe they hate you, but not everyone in the world looks at things from the same angle, maybe they don't like you, but there will always be someone who will agree with you and appreciate you, you will eventually meet someone who has the same view as you and likes to be friends with you, wait slowly, she will definitely appear!

What you describe is a unique experience of adolescence, and I have also experienced it in my memory, and I will feel very entangled at the time, and with the passage of time, everything will pass, and then you will find that those female classmates don't really hate you that much, they just ......

So, continue to speak Mandarin, continue to get along well with male classmates, and take the initiative to approach the female classmates in the class, and study and live happily in the way you think is right and appropriate.

Talk less, do more. Ignore other people's opinions, prove yourself with your grades, and there will always be people who appreciate you, even if it may be just a boy.

In fact, you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, maybe you are doing something bad, but if they blindly reject you, it is their fault. Don't be a friend like that. Of course, I don't mean to isolate you.

You can ask the one of them who hates you the least, and ask him why they hate you. Also, try to stay away from the boys during this time.

Be yourself, others are just a passing guest in your life...

Children, alas, play, don't cry and don't make trouble.

Be humble and talk less.

Little girl, be your own and let others go, envy, jealousy and hate.

I think that whether or not you can be friends after the failure of confession depends on the personality and temper of the two people.

First, don't contact each other anymore and don't be friends.

If the other party rejects you after you express their intentions, and has a very bad attitude towards you, and all kinds of bad words are used against you, then this kind of person can ignore him and her. Because this kind of person is not good at dealing with people, even after being with her, you will be in a lower position than her everywhere, and feel that everything you do for her is what it should be, it is difficult to find your good, let alone how good it will be to you, two people will easily have conflicts, and life will naturally not be happy. There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but you can't like the wrong person.

To love someone is also to love with dignity, no one is inseparable from anyone in a person's life, and there is no stipulation who is to serve whom. Life is neither long nor short, and you must live your own posture to live this life in vain.

The second is to open the knot and continue to be friends.

What kind of person is worth making friends with is someone who should not look at you differently no matter what happens, and still maintain the same relationship. If you express your affection to her, she may reject you, but in a tactful tone, and if he and she regard you as a friend, then whether he has feelings for you or not, he will take into account your feelings and will not hurt you, because she doesn't want to lose a good friend like you.

So when such a person rejects you, you don't have to mind too much, just keep the same way of getting along with each other before. Awkwardness is inevitable when getting along, but if you care too much, it will make both people awkward, which will increase the distance between two people. Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you now, but if you continue to be yourself, maybe one day she will find out what is good about you, and the opportunity will come.

If a person makes you feel annoying, the following points should be considered:

1.Analyze the causes. Find out why you hate this person, whether it's because of their personality, behavior, attitude, etc., or because of your own biases and assumptions. If it's the latter, you need to adjust your mindset and the way you look at things.

2.Assess the impact. Whether this person has a negative impact on your life, work, or social circle.

If the impact is significant, you can choose to ignore it. But if there is a significant negative impact on you, such as affecting your mood, confidence, safety, etc., it is time to take action.

3.Adjust the way you get along. If this person is someone you can't avoid and have to spend time with (e.g., co-workers, family members, etc.), you need to learn to adjust the way you get along, minimize conflicts and conflicts, and adopt appropriate communication methods to resolve differences.

4.Aloof. If the presence of this person has caused you deep pain and distress, or has caused great threats and risks to your life, work, health, etc., then you can consider staying away from this person and protecting your interests and safety.

Therefore, for the person you hate, you need to take corresponding measures according to the actual situation. In all cases, remain calm and rational, respect the rights and dignity of others, and think about your own health and well-being.