Why do men have to pay for eating with women now?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, this is also a traditional machismo man that we have been for a long time, they all like to save face, so they like to take the initiative to pay when they go out to eat, which is also to make themselves appear to have face.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is because China has always been a tradition of men inviting them to dinner, and I think that boys should carry forward their gentlemanly demeanor, but in fact, men and women also need to have contacts when they get along with each other, so that they can be more harmonious and friendly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A boy eats with a girl, and the man waits for the girl to pay him without paying? Is the boy embarrassed? So it was right for the boy to take the initiative to pay.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now there are many situations.

    There is an AA system, there are men who invite women, there are women who invite men, and there are those who invite me next time.

    The woman you meet, maybe she thinks that men have a face for her, maybe she is testing whether men are willing to pay for her all the time, maybe she thinks that women are born to be invited by men, and maybe she just wants to take advantage.

    It's up to you what you think. If you like her and feel willing to invest in her, then there is no complaint. If it's just in the process of understanding, you can investigate it a few more times, and you can't accept it every time, then replace it as soon as possible.

    It's all about what kind of person you want before you decide what's next.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now many phenomena are like this, and there are many men who will consciously give money, and others think you are stingy if you don't give money, but you also have to watch what scene, who to eat with, if you go with someone you like, then you must pay yourself to leave a good impression on the girl. There are also some women who feel that they are useless and will take the initiative to AA system, but there are fewer women in this part.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because that's what the social climate is. When eating, the man pays and appears to be generous. If it is a woman who pays, you will think that this man is stingy and reluctant to spend money. In fact, they should invite each other to dinner. That's right!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because there are a lot of people who think that men are the ones who should pay, and if men go to eat and pay the bills, they should pay the bills.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, this is a boy's demeanor problem, sometimes it has formed a habit since ancient times, well, it shows that the man has a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and the boy takes the initiative to pay the bill, which seems to form a natural law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because men want to save face, they are embarrassed to let women pay, and if men are embarrassed, they can also make women pay, and there are many girls who are willing to pay, but they are caring about men's face.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Nowadays, men and women have to pay for meals, and I personally think that it is normal for men to pay, and men and women eat at this time to show that men are more graceful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think this also varies from person to person, in fact, the current AA system is also very good, and it doesn't necessarily have to be paid by men.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some may be paid by men, some may be paid by women, and some may be paid by each other, this is not necessarily, if you think that you pay you quickly, then you don't pay, and no one forces you to pay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Whether it's a boy or a girl eating, in fact, it doesn't matter who pays, the important thing is to have a good relationship, and if well, if the woman wants to, she can go back to bed appropriately.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's always been like this, no matter how much your woman's salary is higher than that of a man, as long as it's a meal, it's usually a man who pays, and we do the same here.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This society is like this, including those countries in Europe, if a boy has a good impression of a girl, the boy pays for the meal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Some men are willing to spend money on women, and it is not a matter of who is capable to gain the favor of women, but that men want to show their ability and strength.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why do men eat with women or do men pay now? This is normal as a man, and this is what should be done.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now men are the mainstay, men must mainly pay, not to be responsible for being manly, what's the point of being in charge?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never have a good result, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you can get along, go on, otherwise you can stay away from such friends!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When women eat with men, most of them are men's clothes, and you just don't let women bloating, and for the sake of face, men also have to go bloating, which is normal.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In itself, most of us have the habit of inviting men to dinner.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    See. What is the relationship between these two people, if it is an ordinary friend, I think AA is also normal.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because the man thinks more generously, if the two go to dinner together and ask the woman to pay, the man proves that he is stingy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Men and women eat together. In most cases, it is the man who pays. Show a man's generosity and sense of responsibility.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think this should be a man's self-esteem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The answer to this question varies from person to person, and there is no standard answer. Normally, when two people go out to eat, who chooses to pay for the bill should be a discussion and decision. Here are some possible scenarios:

    1.AA system: If your economic situation is similar, then it may be fairer and more reasonable to adopt the AA system. This means that both parties will bear a copy when paying the bill, avoiding one of the parties being overburdened.

    2.Men pay: In some cultures and social contexts, it is a tradition and etiquette for men to pay their bills. In such cases, the man may take the initiative to pay the bill as a sign of affection and value for the woman.

    3.Alternate payments: In addition to AA and men's payments, both parties have the option to take turns paying their bills. In this case, each party pays the bill once, which helps to create a more equal relationship.

    Overall, when two people go out to eat, choosing who pays the bill is not the most important issue. It is more important to respect the opinions and envy of both parties, and to build an open, honest, equal and understanding relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Summary. It should be returned in some form, including the return gift.

    And the essence of returning the gift is not to save face, but to take care of each other's feelings, and because everyone is an independent individual, there is no need to pay for others unconditionally.

    Male and female couples who spend their own money to invite the other party, and the other party receives the love, they need to give positive feedback.

    Returning a gift or returning an invitation is one such form of feedback. That's why people who often give gifts to each other gradually become ambiguous. In this process, it reflects respect for the other half, so as to shorten the distance between each other.

    If there is only one way to pay financially, the other person is a moth to the person who pays. For ordinary friends of the opposite sex, it is also a good way to maintain the relationship in return or invitation.

    It's important to give back a lot of value because the most basic thing about getting along with people is respect, treating each other as if they were guests, and it's the same with friends, potential people, and even couples.

    Men invite them to eat, and women want to return them.

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    It should be returned in some form, including the return gift. And the essence of returning the gift is not to save face, but to take care of each other's feelings, and because everyone is an independent individual, there is no need to pay for others unconditionally. Male and female couples who spend their own money to invite the other party, and the other party leads the bureau to pick up the pants, and they need to give positive feedback.

    Returning the gift or returning the invitation is such a way to give back. That's why people who often give gifts to each other gradually become ambiguous. In this process, it reflects the respect for the other half, thus narrowing the distance between each other.

    If there is only one way to pay financially, the other person is a moth to the person who pays. For ordinary friends of the opposite sex, it is also a good way to maintain the relationship in return or invitation. It's important to give back a lot of value because the most basic thing about getting along with people is respect, treating each other as if they were guests, and it's the same with friends, potential people, and even couples.

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  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Summary. I'm glad for your question, you invited a girl to dinner, and the girl paid the money directly, which is his family upbringing is very good and polite, and he doesn't want to eat your heart in vain and accept your kindness, but he doesn't want you to invite this meal.

    The boy invited the girl to dinner, and the girl paid in advance.

    I'm glad you read the question of the pants, you invited a girl to dinner, and the girl paid the money directly, this is his Jane's family upbringing is very good and polite, I don't want to eat your heart in vain Silver received your kindness, but he doesn't want you to invite this meal.

    He thinks he has the ability to invite you to dinner, so he doesn't want to eat you for nothing.

    This kind of girl is very good.,And it's rare to meet this kind of girl.,If you meet someone who likes it, chase it.。

    Before, she said that I would invite him to dinner, and I was ready, and then he paid the <> in advance

    <> felt quite embarrassed.

    I don't think it's good to transfer money directly to him.

    If it were me, I would definitely feel embarrassed by Wu's invitation, inviting a girl to dinner and asking the girl to pay the money, but I can only say that this girl's family is very good at teaching fighting gods.

    That's right, don't transfer money to him directly, next time you invite him to dinner or give him some milk tea, deliver takeaways or something.

    Hearts are more important than money.

    Just like this time he paid the bill directly and transferred money directly to you, which one do you prefer?

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  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do girls have to pay when they go out to eat with boys? There are many different types of situations.

    First of all, the first situation I want to talk about is about the blind date when you meet for the first time, and the girl and the boy are together, whether to pay or not. I think that women nowadays are independent women, and many girls will feel that the AA system is the best when they meet for the first time on a blind date. Because in fact, boys and girls are not even friends.

    Girls will think that the boy is not obliged to invite him to dinner, and the blind date is a matter of your willingness. So, boys don't have to think you have to invite girls to dinner. For this case, I think the girl can pay.

    Unless you think the blind date was very successful and you want to be with this guy, you can ask him to dinner, and then use this as an excuse for you to invite him to dinner next time.

    Secondly, if it is a lover who has been in love for a long time, the boy and the girl don't have to worry too much about this problem when they eat together. After all, at this stage, boys are protective. Girls don't get too entangled and just enjoy the services provided by boys.

    This is the right of a girl in love, and I think that at this stage, when the boy and girl come out to eat, it is better for the girl not to pay.

    Finally, boys and girls are good friends. In this case, I think it's okay to AA or ask the boy to pay. Because you're good friends with guys, you can't just go out for a meal.

    So if he invites you to dinner this time, you can invite him to dinner next time. Some people think that AA hurts feelings, but in fact, the brothers still settle accounts. The AA system is also very good, it depends on your habits with boys, I think it's okay.

    When you're with friends, you should be casual and don't get entangled so much.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    AA, but it's AA in disguise, because many boys will love face, for example, if he invites you to watch a movie, you invite him to eat and drink milk tea, etc., it's very good, don't insist on what he invited you to do today, how much money do you have to ask, and then AA.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think girls go out to eat with guys, and they should pay! You can't blindly let the boy pay, in the long run, the boy will think that you are a special material girl, and the opinion of you will not be good!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Girls and boys will definitely have to pay for going out to eat together, and the AA system is the clearest choice, and it will also leave a very good impression on him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think no matter who you go out to eat with, you should show that you can't always blindly let the boy pay, if you don't want to AA system, you can also do it, he invites you once, this is also fair, without losing face.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Personally, I think it's going to be AA system, after all, it's not easy to earn anyone's money, and if the boy doesn't want the girl to pay, the girl can also buy something else.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Personally, I feel that girls and boys eat and eat, and they still have to spend money, after all, boys earn money with their own hands, but if they are very familiar, it basically doesn't matter.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think you should pay for eating together, after all, it's not particularly familiar, if it's very familiar, it's a different relationship, you may not have to pay, but it stands to reason that you should pay.

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