Is an unfruitful love worth fighting for?

What are you asking? If you love her, then work hard, don't be affected by the external environment, work hard to love her, if she really loves you, then it doesn't matter if you are poor or uneducated. will be with you for a lifetime, if to the back, feel that there is no flower with you, to break up, then you just let go, the first condition is there, this is no way, the second girl's character or not very good, a boyfriend who is in love because of some reasons outside the guest and does not want him, such a girl don't want it!

So there are a couple of things you have to do now. First, understand yourself, and then work hard to improve yourself, whether it is wealth or culture, at least you still have three years (if you get married, you must wait for your girlfriend to graduate from college), work hard in these three years, and second, mentally prepare for this, because some things are so realistic in this society. Third, cheer yourself up, happiness is earned by yourself.

Come on, you don't have much time, but it's still promising, come on, let your girlfriend or her family know that after three years, you're a potential stock. You are someone you can trust for a lifetime. Come on, if you succeed in three years, remember to come back and report the good news!! Come on.

Of course, strive for, although many times reality and material defeat love, but there are also many love beyond material, look at the Korean goddess who married an ugly man can't afford to hurt.

As long as the two people are sincere. Nothing is going to hold you both back from being together. This is a sign that you are not confident in yourself, and this kind of relationship will never last long. As long as you love her. Believe in yourself.

It's stupid to find a question, isn't the young man confident in himself?

Wage earners are also divided into senior and junior, how much can they earn, and whether they dare to improve their knowledge and insight.

Of course, that's another story, but talk about what you're worried about.

If you fight for it, you will definitely pay more than you pay in school, you have to earn money, to exercise your skills, to enrich your brain, and take the route of a high-level worker. I dare say that in the next few years, mechanics will be paid much more than university students.

If you feel like you're a good fit, so be it, why not fight for it.

It's okay if you fail.

The key depends on you and her, will she change?

It is advisable to give up and be good to each other.

It's much worse, let it go, unless you have a good family or are very handsome.

Love and marriage are two completely different things, love is dominated by love, while marriage is dominated by interests. Love is a subjective feeling, but marriage is an objective existence.

If you are young enough, then you should not put this kind of shackle on yourself, love well, and feel this kind of feeling that can only be pure enough when you are young enough; If you don't love it, it's good to get together and disperse, don't force yourself for a result, it's disrespectful to yourself, but also disrespectful to others, the long road of life, you really shouldn't draw your life as a prison for a love.

Those inconclusive loves, as long as they have really loved, are not in vain. As long as you have paid sincerely, whether you have paid by mistake or not, it is a valuable experience in your life.

The good times you spent together, the days you cried and laughed together, will become a light in your memories on the long road of life;

Those who suffer because of love, because of the things that are not good enough in love, will make you grow, know what is good love and what is bad love, and will know who is suitable for you and who is not suitable for you.

Those inconclusive love are to make you better, in order to let you meet more suitable people, what does it matter if there is no result, if you only seek one result in life, it will be so boring.

Although there is no result in life experience, it can make you understand some truths, and sometimes you can better understand the importance of self-love. Waiting for a period of time after a breakup to calm down and review is a valuable life lesson, and it will also help you be more clear about what you want to be with the other half of your life.

Those relationships that don't have results are counted as past, and this society is like this, and the vast majority of relationships can't have results.

A love affair without results can only be regarded as an impulse in the heart. No matter what the result is, there used to be a good one, and the person you like may not be suitable for marriage.

Those inconclusive relationships can be regarded as an experience in a relationship, and everyone will experience several inconclusive relationships in their lives. There's a lot of it, so there's nothing to be done.

Undisclosed love is called underground romance, and in our real life, there are still many underground romances. For example, idol stars' love in the metropolis underground romance, because their work needs, to maintain their image at all times, if their love affair is exposed, then it will definitely affect their number of fans, so most of the stars' love is not public.

In addition, the love between colleagues is often afraid to be public, because many companies are now against office romances, and if the company leader finds out, then it is very likely that one of the parties will have to leave the company.

Momentary happiness, if everyone knows that this love will not come to fruition, but I just want someone to match it during this time. When I was studying for graduate school in other provinces, everyone was transferred, and basically became several small couples as soon as I came over, all of them were from different provinces, and secretly gossiped and asked a girl, if your parents are allowed to go back to your hometown, the girl said that it is not allowed, first fall in love, practice hands, and want to eat and go out with someone on weekends. And everyone understands that many campus relationships end endlessly, but after work, everyone has a clear purpose, and they are basically in love with marriage.

Even if it's a love experience, maybe it can bring growth. Even if it doesn't bring you any benefits, you may be able to summarize why you didn't get any results from this experience. whether you need to change something; What each of you is after; What do you want the person to be in the next experience? If you can't do it, will you be able to tolerate continuing to be together? Summing up these questions will help you move into your next relationship.

It can't be said that every love will have results, how do you know if it's suitable if you're not in love? If it is not suitable, it will definitely end halfway, and if it is suitable, it will enter the marriage hall.

Count the companions in the journey of life as not ending up as partners.

It means that I once loved, and it is also a memory.

When the love affair of the people around us is going and the marriage has a perfect ending, we will all feel happy and blessed. However, once we see that the original beautiful relationship is coming to an end, we can't help but sigh. Obviously, two people who were very good before, but they didn't get together in the end, but it is the norm for romance to be separated and combined.

Of course, in love, it is also necessary to manage it carefully, some people's relationships are well developed, it must be that the two people in love are very tacit, then the end of the relationship must be because the two people have a lot of contradictions that cannot be resolved. We can also analyze from the following two aspects, why do some relationships end up with no good ending?

First, when two people in love have different goals, when two people have the same goal, working in one direction is the easiest to get a satisfactory ending for everyone. But if the plans of two people in love for the future of Lunqiao are different, or even opposite, then it will be difficult for love to have a good ending. This is because two people who fall in love also hope to be able to be together for a lifetime, but everyone will have a vision of the life they want to live in the future, some people hope that their future is through struggle, and they are recognized by the society, and some people like to eat and dress in a quiet time, and then enjoy life.

Such a different concept is put on lovers. In the end, they will break up as their end.

Second, two people can't communicate when they encounter contradictions, of course, we said in the previous point, two people, because the goal of the target life is different, and break up, this is a more principled problem There are also some couples, love does not have a good ending, because the details defeat love. Of course, it's normal for people to have conflicts with each other. But how two people resolve the conflict is what matters.

First of all, there must be a good communication channel, and everyone can understand each other through communication.

On the contrary, if every time two people have some contradictions, they use quarrels to solve them, and in the end, they don't talk about the main problem, but they just feel that time has passed, and both people can endure it, then it is difficult for this kind of love to have a good ending in the end.

This is not necessarily, it depends on how we do it, as long as it is a normal relationship, both parties are sincere, and there will be a good result in general.

If they don't even have the most basic "trust" anymore. How is it possible to continue to be together?! Or, it's because of other external factors that are leaving the other party's eyes.

Whether it is the other party or the self-cong said to break up, it is because the emotional foundation of each other is not strong enough and there is not enough trust in each other! If the external factors are separated, maybe you are forced to be helpless, or maybe you don't think about the way to solve it! Falling in love can't be said to end up with no good results.

Because, whether it is a man or a woman, they all treat each other very sincerely at the beginning, but after being injured, people have changed! Some will want to retaliate, and some will continue to pay stupidly, so there are two kinds of emotional ** and emotional fools. Emotional scum will always be much more than emotional fools.

Friends, if you fall in love again in the future, think clearly, and then give all your feelings, because it is possible that the other party is emotional, or it may be a fool of feelings. There is no regret medicine in the world, remember.

Do you know the 3 major cognitions of love and love? Falling in love is not simply with someone but in the process of gaining something If you get along completely by instinct, you will only get nothing in the end Emotional problems remember to come to the consultation to consult Lao Bai Mo Da

I know that I won't start a relationship without results, so I will give up as soon as possible when I know that there is no result of love.

Love without results is like water falling in love with fire, after all, there is no result, everything is in vain. Water gradually fell in love with fire. Shui's greatest wish is to have a hug from the fire one day, and to look forward to this day every day.

Shui looked at the fire every day and hugged the wood that loved him into his arms one by one every day.

The water is jealous, envious, and there is also a sad ......How the water wished that he was also a piece of wood, and that he could embrace himself in his arms, even if it was reduced to ashes. But she's not wood. The water silently loves the fire ...... on the sideOne day the fire noticed the strangeness of the water, and the fire took the initiative to ask the water:

Can I hug you? ”

The water was ecstatic, she couldn't imagine that this was a wish she had been waiting for for so long, and the fire actually took the initiative to ask for it, and it was about to come true. But in an instant, Shui replied coldly: "No."

He also shouted in the most stinging words: "You love wood, not my ......."You're tired of love, so let me extinguish you? Why?

The fire was lost and left the cavity to congratulate. The water cried ......Because she is water, no one sees her cry!

How the water wished that she could throw herself into the arms of fire without any scruples like wood, and use only her own life to fulfill her love. However, she is a water ......She is a water ......How could she destroy her lover with her love. The fire was so badly hurt by the water that it no longer took care of the water.

The water didn't feel sad, because that's what she was trying to do.

The water still silently watched the fire every day, embracing the wood that loved him into his arms. Water is no longer jealous. For she saw the sorrow of fire in the rising flame.

The water knew that her words, which were colder than winter ice, really stabbed the fire. The sorrow of the fire and the moon saw the more and more pain in the heart of the water. Finally the water finally decides to fulfill his wish.

Water and fire are destined to be a pair that God does not allow. But they still used their last effort to prove their love. But I hope that the love in the world will not be as miserable as water and fire!

What love always needs is courage and perseverance. If you truly love someone, learn to be brave.

Please believe forever. If you can't, leave early, because that's not love. Persistent ignorance will only hurt the innocent in the end.

And the deepest is always yourself. Love requires reason. A story is always a story, and it only tells a truth.

Or the most fragile secret in my heart.