My boyfriend is graduating and facing some problems, what should I do

Finding a job is indeed a headache for many students who are just out of school, because school and society are two completely different occasions, if you want to help him, you should first let him know two questions, figure out these three questions, and then the next step: what can I do, what am I going to do.

The second is the problem in the process of finding, a lot of very miscellaneous problems, intricate, very headaches, especially for students who have just come out, so it is very important to be: confidence, do not be as said in "Cao Di's Polemics": one go, again and again, decline and exhaustion.

This is a big no-no for students looking for a job. Therefore, you need to help him build confidence at the right time to avoid the above situation.

Again, it is a very important point: attitude, now enterprises do not pay as much attention to the diploma as before, they pay more attention to a person's ability and attitude, there is a very simple question: ability and attitude which is more important?

The answer is obvious, the enterprise is more important to the attitude, because in the cultivation of the two, the ability to improve the speed is far greater than the change of attitude, therefore, looking for a job must have a serious attitude, will be important for each interview, regardless of whether the company meets their own requirements, 10,000 steps back, can be regarded as an interview exercise, if the other party gives you a **, let you re-test or go to work, that proves that the other party has chosen you, which is very important for the establishment of confidence, try to ask, if you interview 10 units, only a few back** Do you still have the confidence to continue? The answer is obvious, faith is bound to waver.

Finally, in the process of looking for a job, the most taboo is to have a low eye, which is a common problem of many college students, and it is best not to commit it, so as not to affect their confidence.

I don't know if your teacher has given you employment guidance, telling you how to write your resume, what kind of resume the company is interested in, if there is, of course, it is the best, if not, you can take a look at the relevant information on the Internet, such as: China Talent Network, there is an interview book, which is very useful and can benefit people a lot.

There are too many ups and downs and sadness about work, and I hope you can help your friends. Let him find his dream job as soon as possible.

You're a freshman now, and there are a lot of exciting life ...... in college

First, do your own thing! It is to do a good job in your own learning. Everything mainly depends on himself, whether he can find a good job, but also mainly depends on his ability, now talent hiring, capable people, there is a big unit!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

？It seems that you all love each other! Your opinion will play a key role in the case of both parents, disagree!

For love. Leave no hidden dangers behind, and when you are about to graduate, it is better to work in one place! (There's no doubt about it!) ）

Because he has a job. You should convince your parents to agree to work with him!

The boyfriend must be sincerely touched, then he will love you doubly and take care of you: you are happy! (At the same time, her boyfriend will be touched by the generosity of your parents, and then, like you salute them!)

Parents where you can put your love, boyfriend's excellent character talent good at the highlights of serious talk listen to them! (He).

You can tell your parents that you and your boyfriend agree: come home for the holidays! I usually say and their screens! Won't let them be lonely!

Next, they will agree! As long as you're not marrying the wrong person (because they want you to be happy, they're relieved!) (Not to mention, they also have two legs, and they can be used to go with you too!) ）

I hope you are happy every day! Happiness forever!

If you really can't let go of this relationship, let's see your parents first, as long as your parents agree, then everything is not a problem, if both parents don't agree, it's a big problem!!

The two of you should discuss it well, it is better to meet your parents for a lifetime, it is recommended to discuss with your boyfriend, and you will meet each other's parents first. It's a bit too early to talk about not being together without even seeing my parents. If the parents see you and think the children are fine, let the parents meet, let the parents meet, let the two families meet and negotiate, this is the solution, otherwise sit still?

If you are close to home, then just stay with your boyfriend, after all, it is you and your boyfriend who live, not your family, as long as you are happy, if your parents want you to be happy, they will not agree, in fact, if you insist, they will definitely let go. Besides, now the traffic is so developed, it is very convenient to go back and forth.

I have personally experienced this problem and the situation is basically similar, I am from Xi'an, my girlfriend is from Zhejiang, she is one level lower than me in one of our universities, we have known each other for five years now, her family is now settled in Shanghai, she has an older brother, and now we are married and ready to have children! At the beginning, my wife and his father didn't want to, not because I didn't think of anything, just one word, far, but my wife looked for a job after graduation here, and started working for 800 a month, which is equivalent to not making money, but she insisted on staying, I didn't have anything at the beginning, only one thing, I knew that this girl was the person I wanted to live my life, and she was willing to be with me, so we have been insisting, because there is only such a person to accompany you in a lifetime, let the other party be rich, beautiful, smart, wise, ......As long as you think that this person is the one who accompanies you, I think you should insist, we now have a stable job, a house and a car, and the next step is to have children, I think we are happy, although not very rich, but very happy, the family is happy! If you are a girl in your family, you have to think about the pension problem of your parents in the future, as long as this can be solved and you can treat you and your family well, you will definitely be happy, what graduation will be out of love theory I don't think is right, as long as you meet the right person, other problems can be solved, I wish you happiness ......School love is beautiful.

If you love, what if you don't love, it's close at hand, and it's hard to be together.

If you are true love, you should be together forever These problems are not a problem at all, long-distance relationships are very commonIf you break up for this little thing, I think you're just playing, and you're not serious about love at allFeelings are not easy to come by, and they must be cherished more.

You have to think about this, your parents' opinions just want you to be closer to them, but in the future, it is a matter of you living with him for the rest of your life, if you give up so easily, then there is no need to continue! If you really want to continue, it's better to meet your parents first and talk to them.

You should each communicate well with your parents, and it is best to meet each other's parents. Then it depends on whether you are willing to change your original intentions for each other, if the relationship is good, it is recommended that you persuade your parents to stay more. I believe there are so many memories of this city.

I don't think young people should stay in small places. Do you think he's good now in five years, ten years, twenty years.

Don't worry about what your parents mean, ask yourself if you want to do it.

You don't have to worry about this, you will slowly break the ...... after graduation

Contradiction is inevitable After all, the material foundation is very important, in fact, I have the same contradiction as you now, and I hope that my method can help you.

1 Think about your relationship together until now, is he real to you?

2 There are two kinds of men, one is a holding stock, and one is a potential stock, does he belong to your potential stock? Is he willing to become a white horse stock for you?

3 The house is the foundation of two people together, but the house is good and bad, big and small, the needs are different, the choices are different, as for the money, it can be paid off at one time, it can be completed with a loan, what are your needs?

4 Marrying such a man may get better and better, and there may be twists and turns, do you have the courage to advance and retreat with him? Are you ready?

5 Thou art the heart of thy father and mother, the treasure of thy palm, but both thy parents love their children, but wilt thou seek the consent of thy father and mother for him?

Think about what he can give you and how much do you want? In the contradictions, you have to have a choice, think it through, and be the one you are willing to say"I don't regret it"I wish you happiness.

I think you should tell your boyfriend that things have to be solved, give him some pressure appropriately, you can't drag it out like this, since you love him, you should encourage him more, don't give up your pursuit of love because you are a good girl. Come on, the house is not a home, there is love that is a home.

Don't think about it here, just tell the people in the family, let's see what their attitude is first, and then think about the rest of the things.

It's okay to tell your family that you have it! Hehe, just kidding,,, there are very few people in this society who really love someone, all of them are rich to speak, you don't want to break up with him if you want to suffer with him, you love him and are willing to live with him to face your love strongly, even if the family opposes it, it's useless.

It's better to face reality. We've felt the same way as you. It may be painful for us to choose to leave, but after Ruogan, you may look back and think that the original choice may be right.

It depends on what you think, if you really love someone, you will love all of him. In terms of economic conditions, I think since you choose him, he will work hard to earn money, and he will definitely let you live a good life. As for the family, you have to discuss it with them...

Think long-term and be realistic.

Time does not stand still ... What should come will come!

If you really love him, you won't have so many worries!

Hey, that man is sad.

Love is great and nothing to be afraid of.