I m getting married, I don t want to get married, why don t I want to get married?

In fact, quarreling does not mean that you do not love each other, it can only mean that you lack communication skills or need to run in, on the contrary, many couples or marriages that do not quarrel have hidden crises. A proper fight will enhance the relationship, but too many fights can also make the two people exhausted. Three years is enough time for you to get to know a person, you can calmly recall and think about it, how much do you know him in three years, if you feel that his character is very good, but when two people will have different opinions, you can solve it through communication; If you feel that you don't know much about him, you are a pair of familiar strangers, then you need to make a careful choice, you must be only in your 20s, although you have reached the marriageable age, but compared with him you seem more naïve and simple, of course, age is not an obstacle, but you have to judge whether he is the person you need, you are sure to marry someone, if you decide, don't suffer from gains and losses, two people will not abandon each other, his maturity will give you a lot of help; But if you're still hesitating, you should make a decision early, or the two of you should be separated for a while and think about it calmly.

Hello. Marriage is a major event in life, no matter what, you can't be emotional or not, if you don't think it clearly, it's better to think it seriously and calmly.

Sometimes it's a blessing to have someone to fight with.

Probably you're in the run-in period, but I don't think a man who is 13 years older than you should be so ignorant.

Let's go! Support you, it won't be good even in the future.

Hi, is there still a chance to redeem it

Because we are easily affected by the environment around us, we feel a sense of urgency when we see that the people around us already have good partners. Brother.

2.They will be afraid of being lonely, and their friends will not have time to spend with them once they get married.

3.will face the situation of being urged to marry by his family, and once he is urged to marry, he will be even more anxious.

No matter how anxious you are, the most important thing is not to let others influence your choices, marriage is a "paving stone" for another stage of life.

Writer Bi Shumin once said, don't only envy Tong and covet the luxury of shoes, but wronged your own feet; What others see is the shoes, but what you feel is the feet.

Shoes are not beautiful, they are all for others to see. Whether the relationship is comfortable or not, only you know.

In this life, it is not always smooth sailing, and it is inevitable to stop and go. Who can do it and who can't, outsiders see expressions, and only sincerity can distinguish the truth.

Shoes that do not fit the wheel beam, no matter how beautiful or expensive, are worn out by the feet.

If you are not the right person, no matter how much you like it, no matter how good you are, it is the heart that is burdened.

You must find a person who is in tune, such a person will make your life like a spring breeze in April and a warm sun in winter. Even if you face firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, you can make life sweet.

No wonder you haven't wanted to get married for so long.

1: Experiencing stress.

Now is the economic era, if there is no basis for economic conditions, I believe that not many people will choose to get married. Car loans, housing loans, children's education funds, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are all inseparable from money.

2: Unfortunate family of origin.

The inner trauma of childhood, the discord between parents and the breakdown of marriage, and the lack of loving care lead to low self-esteem, crankiness, social fear, and fear of marriage.

3: The relationship is deeply hurt.

The feelings are old and hurt, and I don't dare to give my feelings easily. once loved you more than himself, and trusted you with all his heart, but later he was covered in bruises. In order to love yourself well, I don't want to let myself be wronged and hurt again.

4: I like the feeling of being single.

I don't want to get married, but I actually like the ease brought by single life, which is both relaxed and free, without too much worry and pressure, and I don't need to accommodate others, and I can choose the most comfortable state for myself as I like.

5: The cost of divorce is too high.

Divorce can be very harmful to children, including disputes over marital property. The people around you are under too much pressure from all kinds of criticism of themselves or their families, so they dare not choose to get married easily in order to avoid the risk of divorce.

6: Not ready to get married at all.

Marriage is not child's play, once you get married, you lose the freedom when you are single, and you have to face complicated family relationships, so you are not ready for any marriage, and you don't even think about getting married.

7: Fear of taking responsibility.

Many people enjoy freedom after being single for a long time, feel that they will not get married, have no children, have no constraints, and are afraid that they will have to take on all kinds of trivial things in life after marriage, so they don't want to let themselves have so many burdens.

8: I feel that the other person does not love me enough.

In the process of getting along, after a long time, you will lose your temper, ignore it, disrespect, and even not disclose this relationship.

9: Too ambitious.

Ambitious is the so-called workaholic, knowing that if you want to be financially independent, you must focus on your career, and the pressure of work leads to no time to think about marriage.

10: Wait for the right person to show up.

The right person is not easy to meet, there are people who talk and laugh and only become confidants in the end, and people who fall in love at first sight later become other people's lovers, and secondly, they have become excellent, there are too many choices, and I don't know how to choose.

How to understand marriage correctly?

Marriage is a cooperative relationship, if you get along, you will find another one.

Marriage requires two people to work together to operate, and it cannot be compared with other people's marriages, after all, it is someone else's marriage, not your own marriage.

You must correct your mentality, look at marriage correctly, of course, you must be cautious in marriage, don't meet the right person, and naturally choose the wedding hall.

As long as the marriage is more tolerant and understanding of each other, more communication, more trust and respect for Lao Xiang, and work together to have what it should have.

Marriage is for love, it is for it.

Growing old with a white head.