When your horizons are bigger, are the things you care about smaller?

As far as the eye can see. To put it bluntly, horizons are the breadth of a person's knowledge, and when your horizons are broadened to a certain extent, your mood will also change greatly. In life, we will encounter a lot of good and evil people, right and wrong, and some things that we are particularly concerned about at the beginning, under the precipitation of time and the accumulation of self-experience, we may only smile when we look back.

In most cases, the matter of concern is a choice or an unfortunate encounter that is being struggled with.

Most people with a broad vision can do things without being surprised, and they can think about a thing in multiple dimensions without being too limited. When faced with a choice, such a person can judge the most suitable path for him based on his past observations and experiences, and will not be afraid of the result, so he will naturally not be too entangled.

Such a person will see and hear a lot of joys and sorrows, and when facing misfortune, it will be easier to accept it and find a way to solve it, instead of letting it become a needle and a thorn in his sleepless night.

The things we care about will not become smaller, and we can't rewrite the objective occurrence of many things, but the weight of this thing in our hearts is subjectively controlled by ourselves. It's like when we were children, we could hug our heads and cry because of the teacher's three or two heavy words, and we had to remember it for a long time when we looked back and complained to our parents, but when we grew up, we saw and heard countless harsh remarks, and maybe we would put it down after eating a delicious meal.

Although the size of the matter will not change, the main law will follow our three views, that is, the outlook on life, world view, and values, and the vision will invisibly help you gradually form your own three views, with the broadening of your horizons, your thinking will be more mature and comprehensive, and you will no longer be so sharp about things.

Wait, things get smaller? What is this talking about?

If we talk about the interests of things: when the situation and solution of the matter itself have not changed, it can become smaller just by broadening our horizons, how to become smaller? But if the horizon is bigger and it gets a better solution, then the matter should be considered smaller; Or if the horizon is wider and the seriousness of the matter is more deeply understood, then the matter should be considered to have become bigger.

Although it is so small, I always feel that I can't generalize like this.

Or to talk about feelings: to ask is that the horizon has become larger, and the weight of things in the heart has decreased, is this what you are talking about? What is the scope of things and the scope of the horizon compared?

I felt heavy before, but then I felt lighter. Does it make things feel smaller? But I feel that I am not the one who asks the question, and I can't grasp what the person asking the question thinks.

I hope that the person asking the question will be able to talk about the matter and the change in their vision, and they will make mistakes if they do not understand it in a realistic way.

Of course not, depending on the degree of delicacy of the individual's heart.

My horizons have become larger, my thoughts and attitudes towards the world have changed, and the things I care about have become different.

I think so. When you have a bigger horizon and more things to see, many things that others think are big things will become small things in your eyes, and you won't care so much. There are always things in this world that are more important than you, more tortuous than you, and more bizarre than you, so sometimes the things we encounter in life seem insignificant.

This is also the reason why when we are young, we should go to other places to see more and broaden our horizons.

Generally, people with a big vision are relatively calm and handle things in an orderly manner. After all, I have seen a lot of things, so I will not be as flustered and helpless as I met for the first time, and I know how to deal with this kind of problem because I have dealt with similar things.

People with a big vision are generally more mature and steady. Generally, they are relatively calm, not arrogant or impatient, and can deal with them calmly. Generally, such a person can handle everything calmly, and he will definitely not care too much.

This kind of person generally has a good temper, is more gentle, and will make people feel very comfortable getting along.

I have a friend who is like that, he loves to travel and goes everywhere a lot. His family is doing business in other places, so he has been following his family everywhere since he was a child, and he is a fun-loving character, but he gives people a very stable feeling. Because chatting with him, you can always hear all kinds of big truths, but it is different from what you hear from the elders, and there will be a convincing feeling.

Therefore, everyone likes him very much, and he can play freely, but he is not ostentatious. He also has a wide circle of friends, from 50-year-old business friends to high school juniors, and seems to be able to talk to everyone. According to his words, when you see more people, you naturally know what they like, so you can talk about it.

Therefore, when we are young, we should go out to see more, broaden our horizons, make our minds broad-minded, and integrate well into this society, and be a mature and stable person.

Many people are still busy with their little things every day, worrying about some small things, and affecting their mood for some unworthy things. In hindsight, I really thought it was ridiculous, but at the time, I just couldn't figure it out, I just had to compete with myself. Some people say that it is because our eyes are too small, and we care too much about and pay attention to some things, so it will make our mood not good.

In my opinion, there is some truth to it. When you were a child, you would cry because your friends snatched your lollipops, but now, you will casually invite your classmates to eat lollipops. Because for you after the idea, the lollipop is no longer your favorite thing.

If your monthly salary is a few thousand dollars, and your friend borrows a few hundred dollars from you, you will worry about whether he will return the money to you, but if your monthly salary is more than 10,000 yuan, you will not take him to heart when your friend and you borrow a few hundred dollars. Therefore, when your horizons are wide and your horizons are broadened, you will no longer worry about the trivial things in front of you, because you know that there are too many beautiful things in this world, and you can't appreciate them, so how can you have time to worry about some things.

A generation of master Feng Zikai once said, if you love, life is lovely, if you hate, life is hateful, if you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere, if you grow, everything can grow. When the heart is big, things will naturally be small, and when the heart is small, things will naturally become bigger, so we must broaden our horizons, so that we will not destroy our mood for something unworthy.

That's true. The prime minister can hold a boat in his belly, and the general can run a horse on his forehead. It's true. As great as a man's measure is, so is his tolerance. The smaller the person, the more likely they are to be offended. So a person's pattern is important.

I remember the first time I watched One Piece. When I saw the first level, I was deeply intrigued. Because he played a very great pirate in the opening scene, he was bullied by a bandit. was sprinkled with wine, and was scolded by the murderer. I thought, these bandits must be finished.

But to my surprise, the captain did not get angry, but laughed. None of his companions were angry, and they were all laughing at their captain for being bullied. I thought this was something different. And the protagonist is also very angry because they don't fight back.

Later, because the bandit bullied his friend. It only took two of them to defeat all the bandits. And then said the most classic sentence.

That's that I can tolerate you spilling wine on me, it doesn't matter. But I will never allow others to bully my friends. If you want to fight against us, at least drive a **.

That's when I understood. Those bandits were just small people in front of the captain. There is no need to meet them in general. That's what a person is measured by. How can a person who can tolerate the sea in his heart not tolerate a few little thieves.

Again, how we go is really determines what we care about. When I came home, listening to them chatting, all I cared about every day was firewood, rice, oil, salt, and trivial things. When I came to the unit, I found that everyone cared about buying a car and a house.

People in different patterns care about different things.

People with a small layout may think that they can save a lot of money by taking the bus. People with big patterns feel that taking the bus is a waste of time. That's the difference between people who care about things. Because everyone's vision is different, the things they care about are naturally different.

Of course not, depending on the degree of delicacy of the individual's heart.