What should I do if my parents are old and I can t achieve anything, and I am depressed every day?

You can study and work at the same time, you can't give up your studies, overcome the current difficulties, don't have too much pressure in your heart, just study hard, and when you succeed in your studies, you will be prosperous, don't look at the difficulties in front of you to overcome, and don't compare with others, since you have worked hard to be admitted to graduate school, why give up halfway, it will be a pity, the gains outweigh the losses, and you will regret it for a lifetime.

Your parents are older and support your graduate school. You don't have that kind of thinking. Have an optimistic attitude towards yourself, the current graduate life.

Because how many people envy. I can't get into graduate school. Your parents are proud of you, and your friends are proud of you.

Three years will soon pass. Your later life. Yes.

Developed and prosperous. Your parents will follow you, too. Happiness.

You come out of graduate school and earn money. It's a thousand times better to be a job now that you're looking for a job. Now all you want is a diploma.

29 years old. It's never too late to get to work. Be able to find a decent job.

I wish you success in your studies. Be happy every day and treat what you choose. Academic.

Friend, I am about the same age as you, and my family situation is similar. My parents are about the same age as yours, so I understand your state of mind. Friend, you have always wanted to go to graduate school, although you have experienced several twists and turns, but now you have been admitted as you wish, and when you look back, you find that our parents are old, because graduate school has brought more financial burden to the family, right?

I don't know how to feel this with you, I can only say that we are too similar and too similar, based on the current corporate recruitment principles, the first point is a university diploma, and the second is to go to graduate school. Although academic qualifications cannot represent everything, but the real society is like this, there are 985 people in other companies who can recruit, why do you have to be a 211 or even an ordinary student with one or two books. It can be said bluntly that a diploma is what you think is a "stepping stone" to enter society.

So friend, since our parents are under so much pressure for us to go to school and for us to go to graduate school, now you have got your wish, friend. If you give up now, you won't feel sorry. This is not only your long-standing wish, but also the sustenance of your parents, and the capital for you to enter the society in the future to get better benefits.

Our parents are very big, but they will eventually leave us, what we can do is that in the case of our fulfillment of our reasonable wishes, we can first be self-reliant, be able to support ourselves, and then think about how to fulfill our filial piety, if we can't even stand on ourselves in this society, what kind of mood will our parents have? Or rejoice? We all know the results.

So friends, we have said a lot of nonsense, and we ourselves understand it, but since we have chosen this path, although this road may not be the best choice, we have arrived at the same place, on the premise of supporting ourselves, to be filial to our aging parents. Thank you friend for reading. I hope to give you a little guidance.

Are your parents okay? If your parents are physically strong, I think you still don't give up your studies, after all, you have put yourself into it, and you have worked hard for three years, you can't give up all your efforts, give up halfway, think of a way, work-study must let yourself go to school, have a long-term goal, work hard in the future, and then honor your parents when you have money, otherwise you will come out now and achieve nothing, and you can't find a job in time to honor your parents, a person and everyone's family conditions are different, don't compare with each other, you are you, You have to be yourself, start according to your actual situation, three years is not too long, if you give up, you will regret it later.

Since you want to go to graduate school, you should study well wholeheartedly, and then find a job after graduating from graduate school, if your parents have a job, there should be no problem in life, if your parents farm the land, it is true that life will be difficult, study hard, don't be half-hearted, get a graduate degree and then work, you can work on vacation.

I think you must persevere, complete your studies, so that you will be worthy of your previous efforts, you have completed your studies, you will have a good diploma, will find a better job, so that you will better repay your parents, your way out now is to work hard, to increase your strength, then you will be more productive in the future, I hope to help you, satisfied!

Don't be discouraged, work hard, parents are selfless, they don't care how much you can contribute to the family, I just hope that my children can be safe, healthy and happy, so do it well, don't think nonsense, your parents will always support you.

You are a very self-motivated child, not everyone can get into the graduate school entrance examination, you can work and study hard. There will be a bright future in the future. At that time, I will honor my parents and repay them for their nurturing kindness.

You are not achieving nothing, but you have achieved success in your studies, and you have been admitted to graduate school through your own efforts, which shows that you have a better future, difficulties will always pass, make unremitting efforts, success is just around the corner, don't think too much, cheer for tomorrow.

In fact, each of us will face such a problem, after all, successful people are in the minority, so we must face the reality, as long as we work hard, can support ourselves, and honor our parents well, there is nothing to suppress, live our own lives, how comfortable and how to live, and put a good mentality.

Of course, you can study hard in graduate school, and you can work and study during graduate school, but if you learn the things of your major solidly, you will not be afraid of not being able to find a job after graduating from graduate school, and even a job will look for you!

It is recommended to look for a job seriously, do any job, and work hard is the last word.

Parents are old, and they can't achieve anything, and they are very depressed every day? If you want to start a little, not everyone in life is a successful person, but as long as you persevere and work hard, you will develop in the future by learning more technology.

Reading is the easiest way out, if you don't study, the future life will be more difficult than now, if you can go back to the time of studying, I will borrow money to study, unlike now doing the lowest job, there is no choice.

You have this responsibility and filial piety is very commendable, but you also have to think about it, take care of your parents at the same time, but also do a serious thing, as the saying goes, as long as you are willing to work hard, you are persistent, I believe you will do well.

The problem is that we think too much, it's better to keep ourselves busy and do what is in front of us, I know it's hard not to think about it, but this is what we need to have the courage to face and solve.

I think if my parents can support themselves, I can go to school if I get in. If your parents are old and can't support themselves and have to take care of them, then don't go to school and just find a job and do it well.

You're not alone, a lot of people are so bland and stressful

Try to relax yourself and adjust your mindset, as long as you are filial to your parents.

I went out to earn money by myself, worked hard to give my parents a very good old age.

This is your fault, why is it not lazy to achieve nothing, if you know that you are depressed, you will go out to find a job, and when you earn money, you will work more and more energetically.

Learn to learn**, relax yourself, read books and play ball.

You can work in school and start doing it now.

Don't think too much, just work hard, and it will get better slowly.

For the sake of parents, we must also rise, at least let our parents have something to rely on.

Even if nothing can be achieved now, don't worry, because everyone has a destiny, but the time has not yet come.

You want me to go and have fun.

There is no selling stuff online.

After becoming an influencer, you have someone to sell whatever you sell.

I haven't been a game anchor yet, and this is also to find something that netizens like to watch, so that someone will give you gifts when you play games live.

Be happy, don't be depressed.

Honor your parents and love yourself.

Being able to take care of yourself and be financially independent during school shows that your work ability is not bad. And you are only 24 years old, the future is infinitely beautiful, youth can be played at will, you must know that late bloomers have been confused and lonely, and the big husband has a career, why bother without a wife? Find the right direction, keep working hard, I believe you will definitely achieve something!

First of all, I give you a thumbs up! People often say that the children of the poor are in charge early, you are only 24 years old, and you are still very young, don't be so anxious, put too much pressure on yourself, it will make you "bad". Life is about planning, then planning, and then choices.

And then there's action. See the results later.

Now, I suggest you do the following:

Relax your body and mind and find a chance to talk to your parents about their "dreams" and expectations;

According to your own major and expertise, make a three-year plan for yourself, and the goal should be clear;

Don't be in too much of a hurry to find a job. Isn't there still 60,000 yuan, don't worry!

Maybe this is the bottleneck period!

Learn to self-regulate Don't think that you can't achieve anything Think more about happy things This age is the season to start struggling Come on Brother I am still in school at the age of 24 I hope you will get through the bottleneck period as soon as possible Read more books Meaningful books Try to put down your phone and feel the life around you.

If you feel like you did a good job in your last job, you can try to find a similar job again so that you can get started quickly. Directly find this kind of company first, and then go to Mao Sui to recommend yourself, explain your own advantages, your work experience, so that you have a much better chance of success.

First of all, you must let go of this depression in your heart, calm down, think carefully about which direction your life should develop, and then start again based on the long-term.

You just haven't found a job, it's just stressful, look for it slowly, you will always find a suitable job, don't be too anxious, the more anxious it is, the more useless it is.

You can't be a good person, why do your colleagues exclude you, your leaders don't like you, you have to find problems from yourself, and you really resign like this, they may laugh at you behind your back. You shouldn't dare to go back, it's better to try to find a job, go out early and return late, run all over the place, you can always find a job, and you are suitable for the kind of work that doesn't deal with people much, either technical or a security guard is not bad, it's better to find something to do than to be idle, take one step at a time, Rome was not built in a day, slowly improve your shortcomings.

Now you have to relax your mentality, adjust first, from your language I feel that you are a strong person, and capable person, but you said that you are excluded by colleagues or something, you have to think about your own reasons, is it too strong at the beginning, when looking for a job, see if you can first restrain your own light, and don't put too much pressure on yourself, there will be opportunities

First of all, you are a person to admire, and secondly, you are not in a bad situation right now! As long as you try hard enough! Try more! It will definitely work! If you have any questions, you can chat privately!

Don't think about how much money you make in a day, find a stable job, take your time, as long as you have an income every day, you will slowly get better!

Adjust your mindset and think about what you're interested in and then what you're going to do.

It will be easier to find a related job, because you are more experienced, if you really can't do it, you can learn a skill, or join as a boss.

If you are not happy, just change your job, go to the Shenzhen factory to find something to do, as long as you want to do things, you are not lazy and idle, and you are afraid that you have nothing to do.

Instead of thinking about these things all day long, you should actually think about what you can learn, what are the reasons for being excluded by your colleagues, why your boss doesn't think it's your ability at work or your personal problem. All of these things have to be reflected, corrected, and re-oriented. What is rare and precious for people is to know themselves.

It's only 24 years old, why are you so pessimistic, it's still early to stand at thirty, as long as you have a dream, everything will be fine.

If the work is not satisfactory, if it doesn't work, start a business

What year was born? I'll take a look at it for you.

If you are excluded, you can find the reason from yourself, maybe it is too unsocial? To be tactful, to be truly successful is not only to do a good job, but also to deal with interpersonal relationships, and at the same time to show yourself in front of the leader. I used to be too, do any work, get up early and be greedy every day, but a few of my colleagues are smoking with the leader every day off, and the leader pretends to be during working hours, two years down, people's salaries and positions are higher than me, I was also convinced to resign, now I think about it or my own problem, will not deal with interpersonal relationships, what is the use of being able to do it, the company is a collective, the lack of a capable point will not lose anything, there is a saying called gregarious, if you are a special one will be excluded.

If, I mean, if, I really feel that I can't change this unsociable problem, then start my own business, although it is difficult to start a business, in fact, the difficulty is that I was not prepared in the early stage, did not find a good project, as long as I can endure the early stage, find the direction I like, and comprehensively evaluate the entrepreneurial project, the probability of failure is still small. Of course, it is better to take advantage of this time to learn a technique by yourself and enrich yourself.