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A famous master of psychology once said: When psychology changes, so does attitude; Attitudes change, so do behaviors; Behaviour changes, so do habits; Habits change, personality changes; Personality changes, fate changes.
We often hear that thinking determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny.
In fact, man is a fish, society is a tank of water, if we are a tropical fish, then we must lower our body temperature instead of hoping that the water will heat up. Survival is to adapt to society after having a certain quality, and now let you bow your head, you can't go down, you can't get by, so a person with a goal must learn to endure and even endure humiliation while adhering to the inner rules.
According to your state during this time, you should have a new understanding of yourself: Bodhisattvas see everyone as a bodhisattva, and mortals see everyone as a mortal. First of all, see others as bodhisattvas, don't see them as mortals, learn to be tolerant, learn to be kind to others. Don't take the good as small, don't take the evil as small.
For the sake of your own destiny, please be a good person and cultivate a good character, which will not only benefit yourself, but also others! The road is walked by itself, and history is written by itself. What fate you want depends on your own thinking, behavior, habits, and character.
Negative people see only the thorns of roses, and positive people see the beauty of roses. People with ill intentions always want to calculate others, how to get some ill-gotten gains, how to attack others, and exalt themselves. Even if such a person succeeds, it will be temporary, and it will inevitably fail in the end.
Positive people are always working hard for their life goals, we should know what we want, how to get it, how to succeed Some people are prescient, some people are good at knowing, and some people are unconscious, living in a muddy way, except to complain or complain, as if others owe him. What fate will such a person have, isn't it obvious!
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Character changes fate, and the latter sentence is: fate is held tightly in both hands.
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Thought determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny.
This quote is from Jack Hodge's The Power of Habit.
Ovid. Say, "Nothing is more powerful than habit."
Habits are the true leaders of a thought and behavior. Habits allow us to spend less time thinking, simplify the steps of action, and make us more efficient; It will also make us closed, conservative, self-righteous, and conform to the rules.
In our bodies, good habits coexist with bad habits, and the likelihood of success depends on the number of good habits.
Brief introduction. "Nothing is more powerful than the power of habit," Ovid said.
Habits are the true leaders of a thought and behavior. Habits allow us to spend less time thinking, simplify the steps of action, and make us more efficient; It will also make us closed, conservative, self-righteous, and conformist. In our bodies, good habits coexist with bad habits, and the probability of success depends on the number of good habits.
Life seems to be a tug-of-war between good habits and bad habits, and sticking to the high-performance Xi Bukai habit means stepping on the fast train of success. If you want to excel and live a different lifestyle, then you have to understand that your habits determine your future.
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Character determines fate" There is no next sentence, the original sentence: thoughts determine behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny. This quote comes from Jack Hodge's The Power of Habit, which compares "habit" to a speeding train, inertia that makes it impossible to stop rushing forward.
Sentence formation: 1. Habit forms character, and character determines fate.
2. Attitude is decisive or action, behavior cultivates character, character determines fate, rigorous thinking, and strict operation; Strict inspection, serious verification.
3. Be ruthless with yourself and let go of your mother's hand-holding. Be strict with yourself and avoid the temptation of the Internet. Be stingy with yourself and appreciate the hardships of making money. Be gentle with yourself and understand the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Attitude determines everything, character determines destiny.
4. Character determines fate, temperament determines pattern, details determine success or failure, attitude determines everything, thinking determines the way out, and height determines depth.
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I was born in a remote rural area, and my family was built on a single hillside, so I rarely interacted with people. This environment determines most of my personality: withdrawn, introverted, low self-esteem, afraid to socialize, not talkative, and unable to take the initiative.
The long-term absence of parents leads to alienation from family affection; Living in one's own world for a long time leads to extreme sensitivity to external objects, and a word or action from others will cause a strong vibration of the heart.
I have walked through 25 years with these heavy shackles. How many quarrels, conflicts, and hurts with relatives and loved ones over the years are brought about by these personalities and behaviors.
I used to think that I would continue like this, sensitive and introverted, afraid and unable to communicate well with people, unable to achieve anything great, and even maybe die alone.
But only now have I discovered that nothing is impossible in the body of "human", a high-level intelligent being.
People can change. Personality can be changed. Destiny can be changed.
In fact, this can be verified in all aspects of our lives. The TV series I loved to watch when I was a child grew up and then I watched it without taste, and the things I liked when I was a child grew up and felt very naïve when I watched them, have those things changed? No, it's actually us who have changed.
Human beings are inherently changing creatures, so we must first believe that we can change.
The formation of character does not happen overnight, so don't think that change can be achieved overnight, take out 120,000 efforts, start from changing a small thing in life, persist for a few months or even years, and the effect will be shown.
Why am I so sure, because that's how I came.
In the past, there was a miasma of smoke in the house, my father complained to me about my mother, and my mother complained to me about my father, and I didn't know what to say when I heard their words, just silent and depressed.
But now, I can comfort them, comfort them, and influence them with my own actions to make them feel positive and confident.
They also trusted and relied on me more and more.
Believe it, personality can be changed, and fate can also be changed.
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The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. The change of human nature is more difficult than the change of the country. Human nature is very difficult to change, but to change one's own life, one must change one's own character, only by mastering one's own character weaknesses, promoting one's strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and having a purpose, can one change one's destiny.
I have always thought that a person's character cannot be changed, in fact, it is caused by the error of their own cognition, and people who can change their personal personality must have suffered a lot and suffered a lot on the road of their own life, and they will want to change their character from the bottom of their hearts, and create a new self for the detours they have taken before, and create a new self. Of course, it takes perseverance and determination to change one's inherent nature, and only in this way can one change one's original personality.
Time can change everything, including our character and habits, with the passage of time and age, if we are good at learning and summarizing, our personality will also change, become no longer reckless and irritable, and make ourselves more stable and mature.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced a lot, their experience is also rich, and they have seen a lot of people and things. Therefore, we encounter many things, and we can calmly look at setbacks and difficulties, which not only changes our cognition, but also makes our character become introverted and steady, which is the credit of time, and also makes our character change.
A person's life is a process of constantly revising oneself, not so much that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change is an excuse for laziness, but rather that oneself is unwilling to learn and unwilling to accept the change of reality. If you want to change your fate, you must change your original, fixed mindset character.
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