About the shaping of a person s indifferent character in learning

It's about the environment!

When you get a lot of attention during the infant period, you don't have to pay attention to seeking it when you grow up,。。 So you will see calmness on your face, that is, confidence... The word self-confidence has been abused too much, and I always hear that people want to be confident, to be confident, and they believe it at once?

Raise your head and chest, stride and walk Go to the beach and shout Ah, what, but the depressed expression on people's faces doesn't match the form of action?

Speechless. Self-confidence, that's something you get when your peers recognize you.

Moreover, there is proper guidance and restraint in the process of growth.

It is important to have a harmonious family atmosphere. Not happy at home. Or there is something in my heart, my crush has gotten her attention, and it's hard to calm down when I study.

It feels like their momentum has overwhelmed you before it starts, so let's switch to an ordinary class, maybe here, it's hard to be noticed. It's up to you to understand the situation yourself.

Combined with my own experience ... Mouthy.

Personally, I think that doing scholarship is to figure out the questions that puzzle me and explore what I don't know. As the saying goes, "I think, therefore I am", think what you think, think what you think. When we find the answer that puzzles us for a long time, we will have a feeling of excitement, and the sudden openness and calmness will not be a kind of happiness.

Nowadays, people often say that they are calm, and when they really face difficulties, they need a high degree of cultivation to be able to be at peace and face them calmly, which is not only a kind of ability, but also a kind of realm, a manifestation of great wisdom. How can it be said that it is a casual application of knowledge. As the saying goes, the wise are not confused, and the benevolent are not worried, I think it is the highest interpretation of learning.

Of course, to achieve such a state, it is necessary to constantly work hard, constantly improve, and constantly improve. In order to slowly approach peace of mind and deal with it calmly.

It's actually very simple, the question is to have self-confidence no matter what the situation. Even if you don't know how to do it, just think about doing it at your own pace and don't think too much about it.

Try reading prose, playing chess or sticking to a good habit every day. Character needs to be built over time.

You have a different attitude towards learning, you can no longer focus on or imagine the pain of learning, you should pick up your pen and start your task as soon as you should study. Maybe you have a bit of an impatient attitude when you do things, in addition to different personality traits, there may be something that is interfering with your learning, take the time to find out and solve them, and it would be better if you could enjoy the learning process. Study hard.

The easiest way to do this is to take 10 deep breaths when you are impatient :)

It should belong to the relaxation technique in mental training :)

I suggest you take a look at a book written by Lejia about character color.

Right! Calm down the height! Find your goal and work hard! Don't get too caught up in the unexpected world!

Do not stick to the gains and losses of one person and one thing, do not miss the emotions of one day and one year, and do not cling to the unchanging shackles of a lifetime.

Be calm, don't be in a hurry, think calmly.

It's not that serious!!

1.Take the initiative to socialize with people.

2.Cheerful mood.

3.Have a forgiving heart.

4.Able to stand in the shoes of others and understand others5Don't be stingy.

6.Exercise appropriately.

At the age of two or three, people have the rudiments of personality, showing personal interests, attitudes, motivations and self-awareness. When I enter primary school, I learn many new concepts and gradually form the characteristics of my character. This is the formative period of character. Adolescence is a period of character development due to major physiological changes and greater development of personality.

Adolescence is physically mature, but it is faced with practical problems such as graduation, employment, love, marriage, independent work and life, which cause major changes in interest, motivation, emotion, and behavior, so that many original character traits are reshaped, and adolescence is the period of character shaping. By adulthood, the person's personality has stabilized. Therefore, if you want to shape your own good character traits, you should start from a young age, observe and learn more, so that you can have good character traits and go through your life calmly.

Of course important, in high school, because you are young, it is easy to go to extremes, and the relationship with classmates, those can easily affect the development of your character, a friend of mine used to be a very cheerful person, but because in high school, when he encountered many difficulties, people slowly became negative and became very decadent.

Hello, after reading your question, the analysis from a psychological point of view is as follows:

As a social unit, the family plays an irreplaceable role in the growth of young children; A person's personality performance can also vary greatly depending on the family environment. The family environment you are in, because your parents often quarrel, and full of tension and confrontation, so that you tend to block yourself, do not like to communicate with others, lack enough trust in anyone, isolation makes you encounter some clear sense of problems at some times, you will adopt a confrontational psychology, emotional fickleness, unable to yourself, and even have a tendency to attack, which is the result of feeling depressed at a young age. That's how you're doing so far.

At the same time, such people are often more independent, with a stronger sense of independence, they are assertive and not easy to change, which is what we call "stubbornness".

In fact, the impact of family relationships on children's growth is not only in personality, but also in various aspects including cognitive ability and emotional reflection. From a person's behavior, emotion, and personality performance, it is often possible to see how the family relationship and environment are. The first thing you need to do is to put the necessary restraint on your personality and try to improve your noisy emotions, tantrums, and aggressive behavior.

In this way, starting from creating a harmonious family atmosphere, so that children can have a growth environment that can be relied on, and at the same time, children are guided in cognition and emotion, so that family education becomes an important supplement to the social education system. For single-child families, it is also necessary to consult on various issues such as children's precociousness, independence, and social interaction, so as to improve their own awareness and provide useful guidance to their children.

A happy family gives children a sense of security and children will be more confident.

I laughed at my parents who never asked me anything practical every day, as long as I was alive, one day Lao Tzu would really die!

The method of shaping the image of the character is mainly the description of the character, of course, the environment, events can also set off the image of the character.

1 Physical description.

It refers to the description of a certain part or several parts of a person's appearance (face shape, facial features), expression, body shape, clothing, posture, demeanor, etc., in vivid and specific language.

Appearance description, does not require to write the whole picture, it focuses on the character, the person's appearance is also called portrait description, that is, the appearance of the character, the characteristics of the accurate, vivid, vivid depiction, and through the description of the appearance to convey the spirit, to the reader to reveal the character's ideological quality, spiritual outlook and character characteristics. Its function is not only to outline the external appearance of the character, but also to convey the "god" through the "form", that is, to reveal the character of the character through certain external characteristics of the character. It often focuses on the face, figure, and clothing of the characters to express the identity, demeanor, verve, and expression of the characters.

2.Linguistic depictions.

Language description is an important means of shaping the image of a character. Successful language descriptions always clearly show the characters' personalities, vividly express the characters' thoughts and feelings, and deeply reflect the inner world of the characters, so that the reader can "hear his voice and see his person" and gain a deep impression. Linguistic depictions include monologues and dialogues of characters.

Monologue is an important means of reflecting the psychological activities of the characters. A conversation can be a conversation between two people or several people talking to each other. The language of the characters should not only be personalized, but also reflect the artistry of the characters' speech.

First, the language should be able to show the identity, occupation, status, and experience of the character.

Second, the language description should be able to express the thoughts and feelings of the characters and reflect the psychological activities of the characters.

Third, the language description should be personalized and in line with the identity of the character. It is necessary to show the personality characteristics of "this one" in the process of describing the voice and describing the dialogue.

Fourth, language description should also be used to predict and promote the development of the storyline, explain the ins and outs of the story, or introduce the environment or the background of the times through language description, or deepen the theme through the mouth of the characters, so that language description becomes an organic part of the work.

Finally, the language description should be vivid and concise, and avoid the eight-strand tone and student tone.

3.Depiction of the action.

Action depiction is a depiction of a character's mannerisms, movements, and behaviors.

The depiction of the action should also serve the character of the character.

4.Psychological depiction.

Psychological depiction is to describe the inner thoughts and emotional activities of the characters. Describing the thoughts and activities of the characters can reflect the characters' personalities and show the inner world of the characters. Through the description of the character's psychology, it can directly penetrate into the character's heart, reveal the character's inner world, and express the character's rich and complex thoughts and feelings.

There are often the following expressions:

Inner monologue, action suggestion, scenery contrast, psychological overview.

Writing is sometimes there.

Think of acting, the author is sometimes like an actor, and he needs to devote himself to the character and the plot. For example, when Mr. Shi Nai'an wrote about Wu Song's fight against the tiger in the Water Margin, he was not satisfied with several revisions, and finally rode on a bench to experience the actions and psychology of the characters.

Therefore, if you want to make a character's image and character full and successful, you may need to put yourself in it, including the view of things, the way to deal with events, the tone and actions, etc., all of which should be conceived in accordance with the established character building.

In addition, you can also pay attention to some of the personalities, demeanors and images of the people around you, and add them to your works. The characters created in this way are not only plump, but also natural and vivid, which can win the trust of readers to the greatest extent.

Habits are the foundation of a person, and a person's habits can often determine a person's success or failure. Good habits can benefit a person, and bad habits can also make people regret for life. Good study habits will improve learning efficiency, and it is the beginning of success; Good study habits can make us comfortable in learning and get twice the result with half the effort; Good study habits are an essential part of the learning process.

Good habits are not innate, they need to be cultivated gradually, and once formed, they are endlessly beneficial. But students, do you know how to form good study habits? It is formed by repeated practice and perseverance by a person.

Good study habits will make people go to the other side of success, it is the only way to grow, it is an important condition for becoming a talent, it is the embodiment of a person's quality, it is a tenacious and huge force, it can dominate a person's life. Good study habits are the cornerstone of a person's academic performance, good study habits help to improve learning efficiency, reduce the burden of learning, make boring learning full of fun, and make learning a source of happiness for everyone.

Everyone wants to improve their academic performance, sit on the throne of the first, and enjoy the honor of being the first. But how can you improve your grades? I don't know if you have heard such a few words, "Habit is the premise of success, and success is the accumulation of habits".

Success must depend on habits, and what is habit? In fact, habit is not a lofty thing, habit is all around us, with each of us, it's just that someone has hidden him and has not discovered it, while some people have discovered the existence of habit and used good habits to discipline themselves and let themselves escape from the edge of the cliff. Study habits, we can start from the small things around us, such as timely preview of texts after class, abide by the three don'ts when writing, complete homework seriously, etc., it is not difficult to develop study habits, the difficult thing is whether you can stick to it, do you want to do it.

Develop good habits, and your autonomy can be improved, so that habits can lay a good foundation for independent life. Good study habits are the beginning of success and the cornerstone of success.

As the saying goes, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." "Yes, the journey of life is still very long, and the road to learning is even more difficult.

If you want to climb the heights of knowledge, start with a good habit! Let good habits always accompany us peer review: set and clarify learning goals, in order to motivate yourself, improve the learning consciousness and initiative, and activate the fun of learning with interest, good study habits will help you climb the peak of knowledge.