How can I feel good about my university?

We study and live in our own university, here are our favorite teachers and classmates, and the good times of our youth will leave footprints and traces here, these are not enough to make you like your university? Don't always stare at its imperfections and imperfections and make all the decisions.

Going to college is everyone's dream, you should grasp the good opportunity now, have a good impression of the university, learn your favorite major, and have classmates from all over the world, maybe you meet the ideal person in your mind, talk about a vigorous love, this is the reason why you have a good impression of the university.

You must be kind to your university and treat your university correctly, because this is what you can get into with your own test scores, and you also applied for your own ambition when you first applied for it, so when you come to this university, you must feel that this university is better than all universities.

Anyone who gets along with anyone anywhere for a long time will have feelings, and when I first came to college, I felt that my university was very bad, and I had the idea of dropping out at one point. But after four years of staying, I have feelings, and I am still reluctant to leave when I leave. Therefore, it is recommended that you familiarize yourself with the campus environment as quickly as possible.

After graduating, I entered a company, and my colleagues get along in general, but I am very busy, and you have problems, most of the bosses and leaders will not pay attention to you, and you will only quarrel with you if you make mistakes.

People in the school, to discover the beauty of the teachers, classmates, seniors in the school, and discover their kind side, will make you feel warm.

The view from inside the school, take a walk around the school and see the view of the fourth level, you can be fascinated.

Equipment in the school.

Have an eye for beauty.

In fact, there is never a shortage of beautiful things in life, the only thing missing is a pair of eyes to find beauty.

Change the way you look at things.

If you look at your university from a positive and optimistic perspective, you'll naturally find a lot to love about her.

Some great memories can be constructed.

In your university life, you can do some things that interest you, participate in more extracurricular activities, and make more friends......These will be the best memories of your life, and the university is the carrier of these memories.

Let go of prejudice, many students have their own goals in high school, but they may fail to enter their favorite university because they failed the college entrance examination or did not fill in the volunteers, so the university where they are located is biased and has no good feelings, in fact, it doesn't have to be like this, the university is just a platform, not belonging, no matter in that university, as long as you work hard, pay, have goals, you have a better future, and so let go of your prejudice, look at the flowers and plants of the school, look at your classmates and teachers, You'll find out that your university is actually pretty good.

You think about it the other way around:

If you are the boy in junior high school, like a girl, and pursue her for several years, but she always avoids you, and she is so stiff, and then finally has a pleasant chat, but no chance, do you regret it?

If you are the boy who likes the girl very much and the girl knows it, but the girl explicitly rejects you from the beginning and often rejects the kindness of other boys, will you think that the girl is cold and arrogant and unlovable?

You should be like those girls and not explicitly say no, it will be good for you.

That senior likes to help you, obviously has a good impression of you, but you don't have to refuse, just let it naturally become friends with him, multiple friends have multiple paths, and friends of the opposite sex are the same, how you treat the same sex, how you treat the opposite sex.

So if you think the opposite sex is good to you, you like you, maybe he just wants to make you a friend, and sometimes it doesn't matter whether he likes it or not.

College is all about making more friends, and maybe someone will pull you up at work, so the seniors may also help you in the future.

Hehehe, it's very hurtful to explicitly refuse! Kiss! Learn to think for others in the future! Like you can't be mistaken!

Also, don't think of us sophomores as obscene! We only think you are younger brothers and sisters, and we also know the sad story from our freshman year to sophomore year, so as someone who has come over, I just really want to help you!

When I go to college, this kind of thing is relatively normal.

To be honest, I don't rule out using other people's favors to achieve my own ends, because this is also a perfect use of my own strengths. But if you compare your heart to your heart, you have a good impression of others, but others just take advantage of you, then of course you will not feel good.

So it's up to you, you can first see if he has other purposes, and don't provoke people with bad intentions.

If the other person is good, then you can try to find him clearly, if you can't bear it, just refuse, if not, you can explain the situation to him clearly, see if he is willing to be your friend, and still willing to help you.

In this case, it is better not to talk about utilization, but to help friendship between friends.

If you have a lighter personality. It's normal to refuse, for example, when I encountered this situation, sometimes I was a little unbearable, so I dragged my feet, but this will not end well, so I still have to solve it quickly and don't be indecisive.

I hope it helps you, if you don't understand, you can ask me.

Actually, your title says something wrong. First of all, your favor of others is not a kind of use, he is a kind of business card to communicate with others, which shows that your impression in the hearts of others is still good. In addition, you can reject others very clearly, but you can also be friends, just so that you don't feel too embarrassed to meet each other, after all, society is a big family.

As long as it means that you and that person can't be possible, there's no need to be so stiff, right? I'm also a freshman. Haha

Either way, you still have to love yourself well and live bravely. It is recommended to read a book called Meet the Unknown Self, you will gain a lot, good luck

Lonely boat, fishing alone in the cold river and snow. x