My boyfriend, who has been separated for two years, wants me to return to him, can I be happy?

I'm a boy, and I understand the mood of this kind of man. There is an old Chinese saying: What does it mean that a good horse does not eat back grass? The main thing is that it takes a lot of courage to turn back, and what you do when you turn back is generally successful.

If he can turn back to you, it means that he has gone through a fierce ideological struggle, and if he can turn back, on the one hand, he cherishes you, and on the other hand, he sees you as more important than his face.

To sum up: this kind of man is worth cherishing ......Take me ...... well

Honey, are you sure he will be sincere this time? When a man cheats on a woman, he will say anything nicely, otherwise how can a woman be with him? But people who once didn't know how to cherish it, why should they look back now?

The nature of the country is easy to change, and the things in the bones will not change. If the thread of fate is broken, it will be broken, and it will never be brought back. It's possible that he just came back to you on impulse, or maybe he just broke up with his girlfriend and felt that you used to be better for him.

But women don't say anything else, they must have backbone, and good horses don't eat back grass!

Love is not when you wake up early in the morning and realize that you are in love with someone, but after contact with each other, you gradually fall in love with each other. Because love is sometimes blind and can't see anything else, but after a long time together, everyone's personality can be seen in parallel. So, before you don't foresee your real him, don't get married hastily.

What if he's late after you get married? Divorce? Will he accept you who are divorced?

My dear, calm down and think about it, do you really like to enter the sacred marriage hall with someone you don't like? Even if you can cultivate a relationship after marriage, what if you can't do anything? How many divorced women are willing to accept it?

Yes, he's bored and empty right now, but he doesn't really love you, and since they've all broken up, be resolute.

No, resolutely against!

Feelings can be worn out over time!

No, don't him, he comes back to you now because he knows that you still love him, but he doesn't love you anymore, and he comes back to you because he has no one to ask for it now, and he has to come back to you.

This is my experience.

Hehe, this problem is really difficult, and I haven't solved it myself.

Why? If you can, you can try to be more lenient ,......

No, resolutely can't, the reason why he and you reunited is unknown, don't make the mistake of being soft-hearted.

There must be a crack in the injury, there is nothing to do in a short period of time, once something happens, there will be a problem, whether you want to go back or not, that can only ask your heart, just be happy.

Actually, he's lonely, he's empty!

If you don't know each other, it's still inappropriate, find someone else who loves you well, and women don't feel too sorry for themselves.

My boyfriend and I also broke up for a year and reconciled, during which I broke up with someone else, I broke up with that man in order to reconcile with him, in fact, my boyfriend is good-looking and very rich, he is very easy to find other women, it is easy to find a better than me and I am smaller and better-looking, but he is still willing to reconcile with me, I think so, maybe he has found other women during this year, but I feel that they are not as good as me, so I came back to me, I am now reconciled with him, It feels like I haven't broken up, but it's been a year since I broke up with him, and I feel weird, he's just like that to me anyway.

In fact, it's good to look at this passage you wrote for yourself, you actually don't have confidence in him at all, and you don't really want to be with him anymore, maybe you don't have a candidate to spend your life with now, and the girl may be more nostalgic, and I want to give him another chance to try, in fact, he didn't change it for you two years ago, and the result is the same two years later.

I think this kind of thing still depends on the situation.

The first situation is that when you say that you broke up, he actually liked you, and he has been thinking about you after the breakup, so he may come to you, because there is still love in his heart, and if there is love, people who love will always meet again, but there is also a situation that he still loves you, but when you proposed to break up, he may not be confident in himself, so he will not come to you, he may feel hopeless, and he will feel that he can't give you the days you want, so he won't come to you, don't bother you.

Another situation is that in fact, he doesn't love you for a long time, just waiting for you to propose that breakup, so the moment you propose to break up, he may be secretly refreshed, and finally wait for you to say that sentence, so naturally he will not come to you after the breakup, this situation is that there is no love anymore, so you can't wait for him to come to you.

In addition, I want to say a word, what is the idea of the girl to break up, and then ask what the idea of this question is, if you didn't really want to break up for other reasons, maybe it was just to test him or say to break up for a while, then you regret it now, you must want him to come back, but what I want to say is that some words really need to be carefully considered before they can be said, otherwise it will really cause irreparable consequences, so I think there is a certain risk in redeeming him, maybe he has been relieved, If you really love him, then it is estimated that it will take double the love to influence him and make him turn back, but if you really wanted to break up at the beginning, and now you are unwilling that he didn't come back to you, then I can only say that people like you are really bad. No zuo no die, I advise you to understand the true meaning of love before falling in love.

Why separate? Is it due to school, vacation, or work away from the same place, and I need to be geographically separated for a period of time? If that's the case, I think it's going to come together, after all, the relationship between the two of you is no problem at all, it's just a temporary separation, and they will naturally come together at the appointed time.

There is also the fact that there is no problem with the relationship between the two of you, you just feel that you are irritable and don't want to affect your boyfriend; Or if you have unavoidable hardships and need to adjust yourself for a period of time, this situation can be made clear to your boyfriend, and if there is no need to separate, do not separate, after all, there are some things that need to be shared between couples.

If you feel that you need to reconsider your relationship and separate for a while, in this case I think it is unlikely that you will take the initiative to come back to you, if you think about it, you can go to him, after all, it is you who proposed to separate.

First of all, since you can propose separation, you must have found that the relationship between the two of you is not suitable or there are some reasons why you can't be together before you take the initiative to separate, and it will take a while to adjust your emotions and reconsider the two of you. As for your boyfriend, if he loves you and wants to be with you, he will either ask you why you don't agree when you bring it up; Either he will respect your choice, then since he respects your decision, he will respect it to the end, he will feel that if you think about it and decide to be with him, he will take the initiative to find him, and if you don't look for him, he will definitely think that the two of you are not suitable, he will respect you and not take the initiative to come to you, and you will break up. Or he just doesn't love you anymore, and he won't come back to you.

This kind of thing is really not good, because it is different.

I think this kind of thing still depends on the situation.

The first situation is that when you say that you broke up, he actually liked you, and he has been thinking about you after the breakup, so he may come to you, because there is still love in his heart, and if there is love, people who love will always meet again, but there is also a situation that he still loves you, but when you proposed to break up, he may not be confident in himself, so he will not come to you, he may feel hopeless, and he will feel that he can't give you the days you want, so he won't come to you, don't bother you.

Another situation is that in fact, he doesn't love you for a long time, just waiting for you to propose that breakup, so the moment you propose to break up, he may be secretly refreshed, and finally wait for you to say that sentence, so naturally he will not come to you after the breakup, this situation is that there is no love anymore, so you can't wait for him to come to you.

In addition, I want to say a word, what is the idea of the girl to break up, and then ask what the idea of this question is, if you didn't really want to break up for other reasons, maybe it was just to test him or say to break up for a while, then you regret it now, you must want him to come back, but what I want to say is that some words really need to be carefully considered before they can be said, otherwise it will really cause irreparable consequences, so I think there is a certain risk in redeeming him, maybe he has been relieved, If you really love him, then it is estimated that it will take double the love to influence him and make him turn back, but if you really wanted to break up at the beginning, and now you are unwilling that he didn't come back to you, then I can only say that people like you are really bad. No zuo no die, I advise you to understand the true meaning of love before falling in love.

Dozens of years of feelings have been said to be put away.

Four years just lost the freshness zhi feelings and almost consumed dao, but it didn't turn into family affection.

It's normal to be unstable, how tolerant and less emotional, and how much time and distance can be beaten, I don't have similar experiences, but I've seen a lot.

Let's look away.

Without anyone, the earth will revolve the same Nothing that can't survive Your ex-boyfriend has shown that he will not forget her Can you tolerate a man who will always have someone else in his heart.

No matter what others say, Bai is just a bystander's advice. Only you can help yourself, and only you know what you want.

Jianyi, you better let it go. What happens happens happens and can never be erased. Even if he comes back to you, he will never forget that girl in his heart.

Emotional matters are not common sense. You have said that you have broken up so many times, and even if you don't separate now, it will be a matter of time before you enter the society and have a social circle of different words. Let's face it.

I know that you must be very painful, more uncomfortable than death, but creation makes people, fate is exhausted, even if you fight for it, it is only a bitter fruit. I advise you to free yourself as soon as possible, and it is also for the good of others. If he comes back to you, that girl will be sad.

You should not hurt others because of your own selfish desires. Go with the flow so that you don't get entangled sooner rather than later.

It's already like this, so let's just do it.

It's better to be ruthless than to be ruthless.

I can't forget what about you, it's clear that your ex-boyfriend already has a choice. There is already one of you, and as long as that person doesn't let go, the three of you will be holding each other, and neither of you will be happy.

Men and women are not the same, women are not obsessed with feelings, but men pay more attention to the feeling of things, the feeling will disappear with time, even if you have belonged to the scriptures no matter how sweet it is, but in his opinion it is already in the past, why destroy your most beautiful image in his heart, he now has no you in his heart, your anger he will think you are vexatious, your pleading he will think you are annoying or think you are not attractive. He is someone else's now, the person who once loved you and missed you is unwilling to pay for you anymore, you are sad, you are disappointed, you are desperate, but so what, he doesn't care, don't continue to torture himself, face the reality, even if he turns back, can you ignore the past suspicions, can you not care about his current affairs, your relationship has deteriorated, it is better to let go, it can be a lesson, it can also become a memory, no one can fall in love for a long time, and now social love is more of a fast food, If you want not to be hurt and want to be responsible for yourself, live seriously, enrich yourself to make yourself more attractive, there will be better people to love you, you will slowly let go, no big deal, don't shed tears for him, a very vulgar saying, he is not worthy of your tears.

Hehe, take it easy, women should be kind to themselves, don't be so stupid anymore.

I think you should let go of this relationship, such a man is not worth your sadness...

Although Bai has not experienced such pain, I can deeply understand you

The mood at this time. DAO is in the world, and there are indeed very.

It's hard to choose between too many things, but you can't afford to face them. Now that your boyfriend has dumped you, there's no need to "make amends" anymore. Good horses don't eat back grass, there is no need to give up on such a strange person! May you be able to find true happiness!

There used to be a "seven-year itch", but for you, it is estimated that it will itch in four years!

It's time to let go, and after the pain, it's numb, and then it will scar.