My boyfriend said such things, I said these things to my boyfriend, what should I do..?

1. It feels like you're not doing enough for something.

2. My ex-girlfriend and I have separated, but now, I can think of him from time to time.

3. He has explained as you understand, the difference between you and his ex-girlfriend, it seems that you are not as good as before in his heart.

What he probably means is that he misses his ex-girlfriend a lot, but you don't do enough, and if you do enough, he won't think too much about other women.

What you women need to do, we men can't point fingers, but I can help you with a man's mind.

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To be honest, he loves you.

He explains to you that he has completely disowned his ex-girlfriend, and even thinking about her is not a sign of attachment to her.

He needs the love you give him.

His ex-girlfriend seems better than you to him, or that you are inferior to his ex-girlfriend in some way. But he seems to be accepting you now, but he doesn't really fall in love with you. If she loves, she will let go of all of hers.

1.He wants you to take him to a happy life;

2.Although she is good, I will give her another chance behind my back;

3.She's better than you.

4.You are not as beautiful as her, you have a figure.

5.I won't take the initiative to work hard for our love, you can work on your own.

6.There are many other people who love me too. You're not good enough, but I just miss you.

Are you crazy looking for such a man? These words are like he is pitiful to you, you tell you that he is giving you charity, you have to be grateful to him, telling you that you have to thank him for choosing you, and at the same time you have to thank him for a thousand kindnesses, oh my God, I have never seen such a narcissistic man, garbage, if you don't share it with him, you will have your bitter fruit to eat in the future.

Obviously, he is a man who just wants to enjoy your love to the fullest and is unwilling to give his feelings, stop, love is a matter of two people, it is impossible to pay unilaterally and there will be a happy ending, back to hurt!!

Hawk Self-righteous, but there is unconquerable, I think there is literary talent, but there is a lot of lack of confidence and arrogance in it.

Feeling emotional? But they are dependent, and some people don't like this kind of people, and they are hesitant and indecisive. Feel like good poetry? But it also shows the spirit of a boy.

It's a little sad ...

Explain that you are his only one.

Only you can make him live happily and more colorfully.

Show that he loves you.

But if it's true, you'll have to ask him.

He loves you and is very honest!

...It's also love???

The guys upstairs are crazy.

What a logic!

I'm so excited!

Who said this love! This kind of man. It's me who can't kick him when I meet him!

Are you dazed!! Is this kind of man worth your care about?

People tend to be mean when they are tired or depressed. So, don't discuss it in this state. Wait until your anger has calmed down and you are calm enough to stop being mean.

This strategy doesn't work every time, as it's hard to stay calm when you're angry. If this doesn't work, there are other ways to prevent anger from escalating.

Let him know that you understand his annoyance. Active or responsive listening is the key to effective communication, and acknowledging the anger of the other person can extinguish the anger of the other person. If you can understand the reason for his anger, he may feel closer to you and calm his anger.

You can reassure the other person by repeating what they are saying and expressing your understanding. Be as specific as possible and avoid clichés like "I understand." This kind of talk does not mean that you really understand the other person, but it will make him feel that you are not thinking deeply.

Instead, you can try to say, "I know I didn't give you a reply** to make you angry." ”

Focus the conversation on your boyfriend's anger. Don't deflect the subject with words like "I can understand because I feel this way too."

Ask him what he wants. Speaking or acting mean is often due to a feeling of grievance or injustice. By asking the other person exactly what they want in an appropriate way, you can turn an argument into a proactive question.

You can say, "Is there anything you need me to do?" Or, "What do you think I should do?"

Offer to help if you can. If the other person clearly states what they want, you need to judge whether you can do it, or whether you are willing to do it. Offering help can reduce the anger of the other person, make him stop being mean, and effectively move the situation forward.

Everyone needs different help. Sometimes all the other person needs is an apology. More often than not, an apology helps resolve the issue because it means that you admit that part of the cause of the argument was you.

I understand that you're angry that you've been fired, and I'd love to do something for you, but that's not something I can do. ”

You can say, "I'm sorry, I want to be with you too, but I can't shirk my duties". Try not to say "I don't want to" directly.

Try to use humorous language. Humor can ease tensions and temporarily change the mood, thus providing a buffer of time for the other person to calm down. Of course, you can't make fun of your boyfriend, that will only make him angrier.

It's best to make jokes of your own, which will be more helpful to your relationship if you're usually a fan of jokes.

Everyone has a different sense of humor, you can try to say something funny, like: "This is beyond my ability, let me ask my other personality if there is a way"; Or "I'm sorry, I forgot to give you a **, I patronized and played with my other personality, and you caught me right." ”

It is better for you to communicate well with your boyfriend as soon as possible, so that the life of the two of you can be happier.

It's nothing, two people have been together for a long time, so it's not a hurtful word.

He genuinely likes your words and won't care about these details. If you think he's going to be angry, just coax him

There are a lot of stumbles on the road to love and marriage, which is nothing at all, if you really break up because of this little thing, that is, if you don't say these words, you will break up sooner or later.

It sounds more like a joke between two people, so it shouldn't be a big problem. If the tone is not good, you can also apologize and communicate in time.

Couples are joking and joking, don't take it seriously, you can tell him it's a joke and it's fine.

I don't think you have a problem, it's your boyfriend who has a problem, how do you know that I'm waiting for you to go to him and give him a New Year's greeting, and I don't love you at all.

I also think you should not continue to talk about it, because he doesn't love you at all, and even treats you as an accessory in his heart.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do at the moment when I face you. Lovers that.

What should I do when I say this? I think that in this case, I will choose one without explanation and continue to be silent.

It can be eased by other caring words, but it is not appropriate to explain the current matter directly.

The breakup is just a boyfriend, and there are a lot of them on the street.

Summary. In this case, find a day with him to have fun and let him forget.

Hello, what did he say, can you elaborate on that?

I've been with my boyfriend for half a year, and he and I are rushing to get married. The last time I talked about whether he wanted to give up at any point, he said that when he first knew that I had a boyfriend of three years before, he wanted to give up, and I asked him why, and the following are his original words: Because I am afraid, afraid that you will not forget him in your heart, and afraid that I will not be the 100% in your heart in the future, just like if the future time sung in that song always reminds me of the starlight of that day whenever I sigh.

Two people together must first have a liking and then see if it is suitable, suitability is based on like, if there is no like, then it is useless. And the last time you told me that I looked average, and said that you talked about it before, although I didn't say anything at the time, but I cried on the way home, and when I went home and told you about my feelings, you also said that I was unreasonable, saying that you can't talk nonsense and lie to me that I am handsome. I just talked about this today, so I'll ask you, do you really like me in your heart, or is it just appropriate, I'm really afraid that although I got someone, I couldn't get her heart.

Later, I said good things, but apparently my boyfriend was still very sad and sad, what should I do?

In this case, find a day with him to have fun and let him forget.