What did you do when you got married? 20

Prepare things, entertain friends, get married, run errands, have children, fight, divorce, and find ,......

Confused and ignorant.

Before marriage, it was all family members who helped.

The wedding day is at the mercy of others.

After getting married, the two lived together.

Men and women what you say will do.

Find a supervisor and he'll tell you all.

Get the certificate first! This is the most important thing!

After getting married, you can't distrust each other, you can't yell at each other, you can't argue over some trivial things, you can't betray your marriage, and you can't be too selfish.

After marriage, you can't be too harsh on each other, you can't be particularly demanding of each other, and you can't blame each other's family and family at will, these things can't be done, they will cause conflicts between the two, and you can't have an ambiguous relationship with other people of the opposite sex, and don't hide anything in marriage.

After getting married, don't have too close contact with other members of the opposite sex, don't stay home at night, don't hide anything from your other half, don't blame the other half's family at will, and don't be lazy at home after getting married, just waiting for each other to raise.

You can't quarrel often, you can't guess each other, you shouldn't have some conflicts because of some trivial things, it's best not to have a cold war, and don't let the families on both sides join the quarrel, which will affect the relationship.

Before getting married, the man should give the woman a dowry gift, which must include a goose and half a pig, and the "goose" means that the woman is as beautiful as a swan; The pig, one and a half of the two families, means that the two of them want to be harmonious and beautiful, and never separate from the source. Of course, the woman also has to give the man a gift in return. There must be a keg and two quilts in this ceremony.

"Keg" means eternal union. There must be two mandarin ducks on the quilt, which symbolizes the good union of men and women for a hundred years.

Before the bride gets married, there must be a brother who rots and carries the car. If there is no brother, then the bride has to step on the osmanthus cake, because the bride cannot let her feet get on the soil of her mother's family and take away her mother's wealth. After the daughter walks more than ten meters, she will pour a basin of water outside, which is called "the water splashed by the married daughter", "I wish the daughter will always be pure as a pool of clear water".

On the wedding day, peanuts, longan, dates, and lotus seeds must be placed on the table. People who come to drink the wedding wine usually bring these things, which means that they wish the bride an early birth of a noble son and a prosperous offspring.

On the third day after marriage, men and women return to visit their parents. When eating, if the elders bring food to the new aunt, they must finish eating, otherwise they will be disrespectful to the elders. If the new aunt really can't eat, he has to pour the hail calendar into the new aunt's pocket according to the saying "can't eat, go around", this purpose is to see the new aunt's gaffe and amuse.

In addition, rouge, lipstick, etc. should be forcibly smeared on the face of the new aunt, and it is not allowed to be washed off, this kind of joke does not distinguish between young and old, and the new aunt is not allowed to be angry.

This is the marriage custom in our hometown!

Before getting married, these three things we must do, the first is to understand each other's original family, understand the original family don't listen, you want to listen to the part, listen to some details, especially your other half, how his parents deal with conflicts. There are always young couples who say that we just need to get married, and get married quickly, so that they don't know why they got married. Two young people who decided to get married, what did you do with each other?

If his parents are more rational and restrained in dealing with conflicts, and can face problems, if not, you have to think carefully, because his father's attitude towards his mother often affects her children to deal with his attitude towards him and his partner, if his original family is relatively bad, in this detail, you have to be sober in the world, don't be carried away by love. The second must be very objective to look at your other half's attitude towards money, his attitude towards money is the attitude towards you, if a man treats money and takes money very seriously, then one day if you touch his money, he can turn his face with you at any time for money, and even fight hard with you for money.

The third, premarital examination, to see that the other party has some hereditary diseases, including mental illness, these are very critical, do not let go of any detail before marriage, this is the most basic responsibility for yourself, if you are not even responsible for yourself, then the other party will not be responsible at all. Marriage is a turning point for everyone, meaning that we will transition from two people to one family, and we all want her (he) to be the right person and spend the rest of our lives with her (him). Then we need to make a foreshadowing for marriage before getting married.

Marriage is something to think about well, there are many things to prepare for before marriage, and there are many things to know, after all, marriage is not child's play, and you must think carefully about it when you are about to enter marriage.

The other party's family must be assessed, property must be communicated, and his personality must be understood. Don't be stupid and don't pull a few, just entrust it for life for no reason.

Although there is a requirement for a necessary premarital medical examination before marriage, this provision is not mandatory. It is recommended that you must go for a premarital physical examination before getting married, such as some family genetic history parties may not be clear, or those infectious diseases that are not suitable for marriage, it is recommended that both parties can exchange physical examination reports, like some people say that the physical examination report belongs to personal privacy and cannot be read at will, so you have to pay more attention.

Before getting married, you must read the other party's credit report, credit black household, do you dare to marry? You can check each other's credit status through two channels, the first is through the Supreme People's Court's **, and through the ID number to check the list of untrustworthy people. Second, you can go to the local People's Bank of China to print the credit report.

The relationship between husband and wife is difficult to maintain, there will be a lot of trivial things, women will deviate from the original trajectory, and the marriage relationship is very difficult to manage.

Getting married would have been a beautiful event, and it was also the formation of a new family. When I was ignorant before, I felt that marriage was a necessary stage in my life, and it was also a happy development. Now for the matter of marriage, how many post-90s generations are afraid of marriage.

Yesterday, I heard my mother urging me to get married quickly in WeChat. I understand my parents' worries, and I understand that my parents are planning for me, but I don't want to accept that I have to open a blind box like I did when I got married in ancient times. When I think about living with someone I don't know and am familiar with in the future, I feel that the whole person is not good.

Can a marriage without an emotional foundation go to the **? Shouldn't there be a process in the relationship, shouldn't the two parties have a certain understanding and run-in period? Why are there still arranged marriages?

I can't understand the development of this, and I can't understand people's thinking. Therefore, in the face of such a marriage, I have a fear, and I no longer have a longing and yearning for marriage.

Subsequently, my mother said that the little boy of the relatives was going to get married, but the high bride price shocked my heart, and the relatives wanted to give a loan to the bride price for the marriage of the children, I didn't understand too much that the bride price should not be to support the formation of a new family, why it has now become a way to obtain wealth by relying on "children's marriage"! This incident attacked me too much, and made me see that it would be a burden for ordinary families to marry a bride.

May all marriages be beautiful, and may everyone end up marrying love.