I haven t been in a relationship for 22 years, so my parents are anxious...

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Oh, it's still early, let me tell you a story: a wise man took three of his apprentices to the wheat field, and he asked his three apprentices to go to the wheat field and pick an ear of wheat each, and only pick it once, and not look back, to see who picked the most. As soon as the first apprentice walked into the wheat field, he thought that the ear in front of him was very large, so he picked it, and when he got to the back, he began to regret it, because there was a bigger ear of wheat behind him.

    The second apprentice thought that there was a bigger ear of wheat behind him when he walked into the wheat field, but when he reached the end he realized that he had missed the largest ear of wheat in front of him, and the third apprentice was not like the first two, he only looked at the first half of the way, and he saw what kind of ear of wheat was the largest; Halfway through the journey, he went in search of the largest ear of wheat, and he found the largest. So I suggest that you observe the boys you can reach at the age of 22-24 to see what kind of boys are good boys in real life, and at 24-26 you should go to find a good boy and start a family. We must not be too idealistic, no one is perfect; Of course, you can't be too casual, marriage is the top priority in life, you must be cautious; You can't run away from it, you can't escape it.

    I'm too tired to type, don't type, explain the truth to your parents, I think they will understand, I'm also a person of the same age as you with the same problem, if you are interested, you can communicate more opinions. Don't get me wrong, I didn't mean that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Emotional matters cannot be forced.

    I'm 25 years old before I started falling in love.

    When you meet a good one, you have to express yourself.

    You can go after him.

    Why do you have to chase you?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm kind of trying to chase you haha. (just kidding).

    I think you blame your parents too much for not being able to find a boyfriend because your parents were too strict with you. In fact, it may be that you have too much personality.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Me too. But I'm a boy and haven't graduated from college yet.

    Friends believe in themselves, and lovers eventually become married. I'm sure I'm going to meet someone else who's got a crush on me...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't worry. Put aside your reading spirit, be lively and cute, and there will naturally be boys who will pay attention to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When a guy is nice to you, you have to try to accept it, and over time you will know what you love.

    When you can't live without that person, you find the person you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you have to get rid of the pressure from your parents first, maybe you grew up in that environment, you can't blame you, you can try to pursue someone you like, or be friends with someone who likes you, which may be exercised, purely personal opinion!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I agree with what the fourth floor said, slowly change yourself, and have your own opinions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is fate!

    In a hurry.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Change your lifestyle, go out and have more contact with friends of the opposite sex, and don't always study alone!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let it be, he doesn't come when you want it, and he comes when you don't. When it comes to later marriages, that's it. Even if you have talked about friends, it is not worth putting them on the table, because the future life will be long, who can guarantee that the future will be white?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why don't I introduce you to a boyfriend! Ha ha.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you, I have received your question, I am sorting out the answer for you, it takes time to type, please be patient for a while, and answer it for you immediately!

    I'm curious how you know that your parents misunderstood you, and then you think you need to clarify and explain this. But either way, it's good to communicate with your parents more. It is recommended to first take the method of explaining clearly at the dinner table, and speak frankly, so that parents don't think too much.

    If it doesn't work, there is no need to talk about it, time will tell. Then put your mind in a better state, communicate in time if you have questions, don't speculate on each other, feel rusty and waste time and thoughts.

    My grades regressed in the midterm exams, and it happened that a girl gave me a gift, and I accepted it, but I really didn't have a good impression of her, and my parents said that I might be in love.

    There is no refusal, but how to make parents not have to say it too much?

    didn't refuse, what is your current state, ambiguous or in love.

    In fact, this kind of thing depends on the attitude of your parents and the family atmosphere.

    Seriously, if it's ambiguous and you're still thinking about whether to agree, then it's recommended not to talk to your parents, you said I didn't talk about it, but I did.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Being intervened by parents when they are in love is really a common phenomenon for wives. There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years. Respect.

    When there is a difference of opinion, you must first respect, not only respect your parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are sure, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person.

    Communicate. The second is to communicate with parents, no matter what the outcome is to achieve, effective communication is always essential! Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship.

    Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing. You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them.

    What should I do if my love is interfered with by my parents?

    Balance. Finally, for parents to interfere in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings to stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, themselves, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration.

    I want to fall in love, but my parents don't want to talk about it when I let me fall in love, and I even want to die.

    Hello, I'm Tutu and I've seen your problem. It takes a little time to type, so please wait.。。

    Being intervened by parents when they are in love is really a common phenomenon for wives. There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years. Respect when there is a difference of opinion, first of all, we must respect the unbridled pure, not only to respect the parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you have to know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are determined, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person.

    Communication is followed by communication with parents, and no matter what the outcome is to be achieved, effective communication is always essential! Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship. Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing.

    You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make a breakthrough in a targeted manner, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them. What should I do if my love is interfered with by my parents? Balance Finally, for parents interfering in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings, we must stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, yourself, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why don't you dare tell your parents.

    First: because of the relationship between parents.

    My relationship with my family is like a friend, that is, I am willing to share many things with my parents, and my parents are the kind of people who respect me very much and are very supportive. I think there is a great need for mutual respect and support between parents and children, so that parents know that you have grown up and that you have to face some things on your own, and that parents can only give you advice, but cannot help you make decisions.

    Second: Parents think that love affects school and life.

    For example, early love in high school, and junior high school too, so I think we need to let our parents see that falling in love will not affect our lives, let alone our studies. It is to prove this to them, sometimes they are overly worried, just because they can't see or touch, and taking the initiative to share your life and the people around you is really a very effective solution.

    Third: Parents worry about whether they will protect themselves.

    In particular, college students will be more free, and they have just been freed from the shackles of high school, if they can't see clearly and can't hold it. I will start to let go of myself, but I want to say that whether it is a boy or a girl, we should be responsible for ourselves, each other, and our families, and we can also spread out this matter and tell our parents about it, so that parents can rest assured. I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of, and we take our parents along and maybe give them more courage to express themselves and their love for you.

    If it is said. You can say that you are willing to share the joy of your love with your parents, or if you feel that your parents' knowledge will affect your relationship too much, you can choose not to say it. But only if you know that your parents know what you're worried about when you're in a relationship, and you're going to take care of everything they worry about.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, I was afraid that they would object.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Dear, Happy New Year, I'm glad to answer for you, parents who have been in love for a long time do not agree, then this situation has to be fundamentally found.

    Dear, Happy New Year, I'm glad to answer for you, parents who have been in love for a long time do not agree, then this situation has to be fundamentally found.

    Be sure to find out why parents are objecting to disagree.

    It's nothing more than family conditions, the boy's own conditions, distance, and the level of respect for you.

    Because his parents also came from a young age, so many things and many problems, he will consider more comprehensively, so when he talks about an object, and his parents disagree, then he must fundamentally solve the problem and communicate with his parents, why they will oppose it.

    After all, all parents must want their children to be good, and they will not oppose their children for no reason, and they have been talking for so long.

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