What are your local wedding customs?

The man gives the bride price - and then the woman sends the dowry - the marriage, the wedding car picks up the bride - the wedding banquet - the cave room - the door, which is the more common wedding customs and processes in most regions at present, and the difference between the north and the south may be different in the wedding banquet time.

When the man's family proposes marriage, he has to give a four-color gift, which must have a pound of meat, so as soon as I opened the door, his family came in with meat, and I felt like the second girl of the village head who married the son of the butcher's family.

There is a car and a house, both parents are dead, and thousands of purples and thousands of reds are green. (10,000 for 5 pieces, 1,000 for 100, 50 for hundred.) There are also three catties and three taels (a hundred coins in the name of the person) before the bride gets married, and the groom must cry when he comes to pick him up...

The bride and groom's bed must be rolled over by a virgin boy (I rolled, and now I am eligible to roll. Implication of having children early?? Anyway, all the people I've rolled over are divorced.

The man has to compete to see who can stuff the most beef balls in his mouth, and the woman has to compete in skinning the shrimp. If the beef balls are doubled, it means that a boy will be born in the coming year, and the number of shrimp peeled by the woman in 30 seconds is equal to how many boys she can have.

Zibo, Shandong, speaking of which is a habit that has only become popular in recent years, is to make trouble with the groom. It is not clear exactly how it started and why it started, but some people explained that some of the brides are already pregnant when they get married, and the bride is prone to accidents. Now the groom's marriage is like peeling a layer of skin.

The old custom of our Li people was that the future son-in-law would pick up a load of fresh betel nut and a whole pig's head for the first time.

Quanzhou, Xiamen, some areas marry daughters, and the bride price given by the man must be doubled! Most of the dowry for wives in southern Fujian will become the dowry of wives, and it is only a lot more. For example, my wife is married to a house and a car!

Prepare a bamboo basket and put sugar, salt, tea and other things wrapped in red paper and a bundle of cash, and the groom will carry it to the woman's house, which is a ceremony.

In my village, we seem to have different customs in each village) Three days before the wedding, the villagers and some relatives would go to the bride's house and sit until eleven or twelve o'clock.

Limited to our small range, the bride price is not accepted for marrying a daughter, and talking about the bride price will be despised, and I am embarrassed to mention it. Of course, there are a few very few who will ask for it in other names, but very few, most of them don't want it, and it basically costs a lot of money to marry a daughter.

I think this is a good thing, after all, many wedding banquets that count on receiving gifts are more like buying and selling marriage. There is also a return of gifts, probably people who don't understand the customs give 1000, and then the host returns the gift of 980. The red envelope is mainly meaningful, but unfortunately there is only Shunde.

Wedding customs are:

1. Door-to-door gift After the couple formally determines their intention to get married, they will definitely visit their parents according to the usual practice. At this time, prepare a carefully selected gift, which is both a matter of face and a sign of sincerity. Skin care products, jewelry, wine, ......They are all good choices, and the most appropriate choice is to buy according to the preferences of parents.

2. Elder salute During the wedding, the couple often invites the elders of relatives and friends as witnesses or guests of the wedding. If it is only a verbal invitation, it will inevitably be rude, invite the elders to a small gathering outside, and give carefully prepared gifts, on the one hand, it reflects sincerity, and on the other hand, it can also let the other party know more about your "two people".

3. Friends return gifts I believe that the friends you invite to do the wedding support group should be dead friends, and the previous friendship with each other is not something that can be measured by money, and the careful couple will definitely give gifts from the position of friends. It's a good idea to give away some of the day's outfits to match your own dress and save your friends from unnecessary costs.

4. The gift of receiving gifts When accepting the gift money of the guests, we must pay attention to the etiquette, generally received by the bride's hands, and after thanking the bridesmaids, they will be kept by the bridesmaids next to them, and then take a polite group photo with the guests as a commemoration. Don't have an embarrassing picture of holding a red envelope and a guest entering the camera, and the handbag used by the bridesmaids to hold the red envelopes should also be generous and decent.

5. Wedding ceremony On the morning of the wedding, the groom should take the groomsmen to the bride's house to pick up the relatives, at this time it is inevitable to be "tortured and difficult" by the bride's sisters.

6. Treat people with gifts Photographers, videographers, makeup artists, emcees ......There are many wedding professionals on site to serve the couple on the wedding day, so it's a good idea to arrange a table for them in advance, or buy good food for them to dine in advance, show respect for their service, and you will get a better reward.

7. Thanksgiving On the wedding day, the groom goes to the bride's house to greet his relatives and needs to pay a thank-you gift to the bride's parents; Then the bride and groom go to the bridegroom's house together and also pay tribute to the groom's parents. The general process is that the newlyweds offer tea to their parents, bow and thank them, and then the newlyweds will eat some sweet soup with peanuts, lotus seeds, dates and other foods with good meanings.

8. Greetings If you don't rush to your honeymoon immediately after the wedding, you must pay attention to thanking some important people the day after the wedding: call both parents or come to the door to say goodbye, thank the best men and bridesmaids for the hard work of the previous day, and thank the elders who came to witness the marriage.

9. Honeymoon return gift The honeymoon trip is not only a sweet travelogue, but also needs to buy some local special gifts to give to parents and close friends, in order to show the sweetness of the honeymoon and their special status in your hearts.

Our local customs:

1. When getting married, the five sisters-in-law in the clan comb the hair of the married woman, and the hair is divided into two halves, one side is the woman's bun, and the other side is the braid of the unmarried woman, mainly so that the new daughter-in-law will comb the hair on the other side after the marriage of the in-law's family;

2. When engaged, the elders of the two families should eat together, including uncles and other relatives to attend this engagement banquet;

3. One month before the wedding, the man should buy the wedding dress, jewelry, shoes and socks that the woman will wear when she gets married.

4. Before the wedding, the families of the two parties should discuss the process and details of the wedding, as well as the gift money;

5. On the wedding day, the groom should pick up the bride early;

6. The bride's younger brother should carry the groom into the head car to pick up the bride, the bride's feet can not touch the ground, and the groom should prepare red envelopes for the person holding the bride.

7. After the bride and groom's three prostrations, after the bride calls the groom's parents, the groom's parents should each wrap a red envelope for the bride, which is the 'change of mouth fee';

8. When entering the cave room, the groom's sister will bring a basin of water to the bride to clean her face, and the bride will also give her a red envelope.

9. Henan wedding cave room is more fun, usually the people in the cave room will smear coal ash on the faces of the newlyweds, smearing their faces black;

10. The wedding banquet of Henan wedding pays attention to pomp, generally eight hot dishes, eight cold dishes, and eight soups; eight hot dishes, six cold dishes, six soups; The lowest banquet had only eight hot dishes and four cold dishes;

11. Three days later, the bride returns to the door, and at this time the bride's family will have a banquet.

Marriage customs in various parts of the country.

Ningbo: The newlyweds have to wait for the guests at the door of the hotel, and when the newlyweds pour the wine, someone will make a show, someone will knock on the bamboo bar, and each person will have sugar and cigarettes after the banquet.

Wenzhou: Newcomers don't have to wait at the door, they can show at the banquet, they can't knock on the bamboo bar, and they will be 100 yuan per person after the banquet.

Yiwu: The newlyweds have to wait at the door of the hotel, the banquet is not allowed to show the show, can not knock on the bamboo bar, and there is no sugar and no smoke after the banquet.

Hangzhou: The newlyweds have to wait at the door of the hotel, the banquet can be shown, not the bamboo bar, two packs of sugar for one person after the banquet without smoke.

The rest of the country in the south is basically more traditional. The elaborate six-rite ceremonies, including Nacai, Najib, Najib, Nazheng, Invitation and Greeting, are also done in accordance with the tradition. If the marriage proposal, the engagement and even the wedding period are facilitated by the matchmaker, then the matchmaker should be given a matchmaker after the marriage as a thank you.

Nowadays, more and more young men and women are getting married in this way, and it is fashionable to get married in tourism or wedding balls.

Shanghai: Before the bride goes out, she should eat a bowl of sweet soup (sweet soup) made of lotus seeds and lilies at her mother's house, representing the woman's wish for her daughter's happiness after marriage. At the time of the wedding, a female elder of the female family who is a blessed person (i.e., a person who has both parents and has children in harmony with her husband), or the female master of ceremonies holds up a red umbrella and accompanies the bride.

The female master of ceremonies should bring a pair of new shoes and change them for the bride immediately after getting on the sedan chair, indicating that the bride does not bring anything belonging to the woman's family to her husband's house, which means that she will entrust her future life to her husband. If the woman's family does not hold a banquet to entertain relatives and friends, or if the invitation is omitted, the relatives and friends should be given candy afterwards to formally inform each person that their daughter has been married.

Xiamen: Generally, the best date is still selected according to the old custom, and the elders of both parties host the marriage. The day before the best date, the woman delivers the "dowry" to the man and decorates the cave room; In the early morning of the best day, the groom goes to the bride's house to get married, and then holds a banquet in the evening.

After the banquet is dispersed, guests and friends, regardless of their age, can go to the "haunted cave room". Three days after the wedding, the groom will accompany the bride back to her parents' home, and the mother's family will prepare a wine feast to receive her, and the woman's relatives and friends are invited to accompany her.

Taiwan: A few days before and after the wedding, relatives and friends came to congratulate them, drink wine and eat candy to answer four sentences. At present, there are still 4 etiquettes for young people to get married, namely:

Asking for a name, that is, proposing marriage; Send Ding, or called Ding, Xiaohi, Wending, for the engagement custom, by the man to bring the dowry to the woman's home, the woman will put the dowry on the public hall case, and then invite the man's guests to the table, by the lady to be married to hold the "sweet tea" on the hall to entertain, after the tea, the man will give a "pressed tea Ou" red envelope; Completion of employment, or big employment, is to send the bride price completely; Marry, the bride's sedan chair hangs a side of the colored rice sieve, on which is written "a hundred sons and thousands of grandchildren", the bride sets off on the way, needs to throw away the paper fan in her hand, commonly known as "send the fan not to meet". When the bridal sedan chair is parked in front of the man's house, the groom is to "sedan chair door" 3 times with his feet to show the dignity of the husband, and then the man orders a boy to hold a tea tray, and the citrus is placed on the plate to welcome the bride out of the sedan chair, and the bride sees the answer with a red envelope, which is called "please get out of the sedan chair". When the bride leaves the sedan chair door, the "good fortune person" or groom assists the bride through the rice sieve, which is said to ward off evil spirits, or can be said to be a safe pregnancy.

Special customs of local weddings.

1. What are the customs of marriage (1-5).

1. Before going to the bride's house to pick up relatives, the aunt needs to worship his ancestors.

2. The number of people in the man's welcoming team is an odd number when it starts, and it is an even number when it comes back from the bride's house.

3. On the way to welcome relatives, it is necessary to arrange a gong and drum team and a special person to set off firecrackers, and beat and set off firecrackers all the way to celebrate.

4. The bride's family prepares a boy, holding a tea tray and waiting for the groom to come to greet him, and after the groom gets off the car, he must first reward the boy with a red envelope before entering the woman's house.

5. The groom prepares a bouquet of flowers for the bride, and the bridesmaid group sets up many tests, and the groom can only see the bride after passing the test.

6. The bride's family prepares to offer incense to the ancestors, the bride bows to her parents and parents to say goodbye, her father helps her cover her veil, and the groom bows.

7. On the day of the wedding, the status of the bride is higher than anyone else, and she has to compete with the sky, so when she goes out, the blessed female elders hold a black umbrella to escort her to the wedding car.

8. Waiting for the bride to get on the wedding car, not long after the car starts, the woman's parents (usually the father) sprinkle a bowl of water and white rice on the back of the car, which means that the daughter is spilled out of the water, and the husband will take care of it in the future, and wish the daughter plenty of food and clothing.

9. After the wedding car starts, the bride throws the fan out of the window, which means that the bad character of the mother's family will not be brought to the mother-in-law's house, and the fan is picked up by the mother's brother, and the bride will cry for a period of time during the fan throwing, and the fan should be covered with a "bamboo sieve" after it lands.

10. The wedding convoy set off from the bride's house to the man's house, with the sound of gongs and drums and the roar of salutes on the way.

11. After the convoy returns to the man's house, a boy with an orange or apple should be arranged to greet him, and the bride should gently touch the orange after getting off the car, and give a red envelope to the boy. The oranges are kept until the evening, peeled by the bride herself, and both husband and wife come to eat, symbolizing "longevity".

12. When the bride gets off the wedding car, a female elder who is also arranged by Fu Fu will hold a bamboo sieve on top of the bride to protect the bride into the door, and the bride can not step on the threshold when she enters the door.

13. The newlyweds need to invite guests to watch the wedding ceremony, and after the ceremony, the newlyweds will toast the guests from table to table.

14. After the wedding banquet, the newlyweds will respectfully see off the guests at the door.

15. At about 9 o'clock in the evening, the cave room began to make trouble, and the game in the cave room was not big, it depended on the usual character of the uncle.

Actually, I don't know much about the concept of marriage, but since one of my classmates got married, I have understood a little bit. Actually, I'm still in school, and everyone is already covering their limbs and getting married. In recent days, looking at some strange customs in the countryside on Weibo because of marriage, the newlyweds are a little unhappy, not only that, but there are also some unsmiling **, which is circulating everywhere, what pot bottom is black and the bride has a ...... faceSo let's talk about the customs of our hometown!

My hometown is in a rural area in Shanxi Province, we must choose the day together before we get married, this day is also particular, generally called half immortal, anyway, it is a person who knows how to tell the hexagram to choose, and finally the parents of both sides set an auspicious day of the zodiac, because the people there are more people believe in these, after all, the countryside is more particular, and these are left by the predecessors, everyone has passed on for many years. After talking about choosing a date, let's talk about pre-wedding preparations. The marriage on our side is set up by the man's family, and the woman also sets up the banquet.

After lunch, the newlyweds will send relatives and friends, and finally when all the things are packed up, the newlyweds can play in the cave room in the evening.

This hasn't been played yet, the next day called back to the door, and then the woman's side has to set up a banquet, the same process as the man, the following will not be narrated, the most important thing is that the bride and groom should rush home before the sun sets. After all, it's a marriage

Go daughter, spill out the water, you have to go back to your own house. Anyway, I just think that the countryside has to pay a lot of attention to it.