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Since ancient times, the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law has been as difficult to deal with as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In this case, you must first communicate and communicate with your husband. For divorced relatives, you can sympathize with her, comfort her, and help her, but be principled, not conniving.
The so-called "emergency relief is not poverty relief", you can't help her in everything, otherwise she will become more and more excessive. I believe that your husband is sensible and explains it to his sister.
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It should be fought back, she is divorced, if she lives in your house, it is her fault, the divorced family must be separated, otherwise there will be a lot of, so I don't plan to find a partner before I don't have a house, this kind of thing happens a lot around me, and moving out will be cleaner.
Besides, you should have agreed before you get married.
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This is living independently after getting married, this must fight back, why buy it for him, you have to have a legitimate reason to buy it, there is a legitimate statement, this kind of angry statement is definitely not good. So you should be justified and resolutely opposed. After all, you're the head of the family.
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Whoever has such a sister-in-law is unlucky. His marriage was unhappy. also came to stir up his mother's family.
Such people are too selfish. It's okay to get divorced and go back to your parents' home. But you shouldn't get involved in your mother's affairs.
The younger brother also has his own family. For the sake of his younger brother, he should also get along well with his brother and daughter-in-law. If possible, it is recommended that you go out alone with your husband.
This will be a good mood. Home and everything is prosperous. aqui te amo。
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Of course you're going to have to fight back.
Every penny his brother spends now is your joint property.
You have the right to disagree.
Your sister-in-law is too much of a bully.
I suggest you can talk to your husband.
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After all, it's a sister, and it's divorced, maybe the mentality hasn't been adjusted, and it's okay to help a little bit, but if you ask too much, you will naturally have to fight back or refuse, and you are not obliged to be responsible for her.
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Friend, although it is your lover's sister, but you must know that husband and wife are to work together for a lifetime, do you want to live in such a family? Both sides of a family must be responsible for each other first, and when my sister is really in trouble, even if your husband doesn't help you, you have to do your best to help, but it's not like this now! Let's talk to my husband!
Even if you don't want such a marriage, why not!
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Can you tell me about it? I'm also divorced, as my own family, don't say no, after all, it's my brother and sister, it's nothing if her brother is willing to buy it, you should support, don't be reluctant, if she says bad things about you, I think her brother is more willing to believe his sister, so getting along in harmony is the last word, her divorce is not her fault, it's all a family don't care,
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It may be that the sister-in-law has not yet come out of the shadow of divorce, and she feels that everyone else owes her, and she has to take care of her, and she can earn money to buy what she wants, and it is not good to always mess with your family.
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I can't always accommodate your eldest sister, it looks really hateful, and after the divorce, I asked my brother to buy this and that for her, and I really can't get used to her, and her brother's money is not money, even if the divorce is at home, there is no need to buy anything in the refrigerator.
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It is difficult for a clean official to cut off housework She asked your husband to buy a refrigerator So how much does your husband earn If it's just a small amount of money, there's no need to be angry If it's more expensive for your income, discuss it with your husband Compare you want to live with your husband for the rest of your life.
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If that's the case, don't worry about her, if his brother is capable, he will weigh himself. Her brother is not stupid, and if you get involved, the quarrel will be even worse, (even your sister-in-law is not a fuel-efficient lamp to get divorced).
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There is no divorced sister-in-law in the family, if there is such a divorced sister-in-law, there will be a lot of things in the family, and it is best not to have it.
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It is a duty to help, and it is a duty not to help.
I think it depends on the person, if she's usually a generous, not very selfish person. I think you can consider helping her, but if it's the kind of person who is insatiable, I don't think it's better to help because that kind of person is like a vampire.
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Hearing you say that, I feel that your sister-in-law is a bit excessive.
But I think you still have to think about whether you have a problem first. Then there's the issue of your husband's attitude. After all, it's his sister, let your husband show his attitude.
If you and your husband don't have a problem, then your sister-in-law is too much. Just these are a few general directions. In fact, it goes without saying that they all know.
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There is also a divorced sister-in-law at home, you say a lot of right and wrong. The sister-in-law has a lot of mouths and a lot of things, hurry up and give it to him, let him find another one, and leave quickly.
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When they were young, they were a family, and although they grew up to marry and live separately, they would still be treated as a family.
But won't share your love.
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If your sister-in-law does this, then he is a little too ignorant.
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If there is such a little story at home, there is really no way to do it at home, I really can't stand it, maybe two people will hold them away from them.
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She's all like that, so take pity on her.
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I'm really speechless, and it's not pleasing to anyone to sleep.
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Summary. Hello. The sister-in-law is 18 years old, which means that she is an adult and has her own choice, he chooses to follow his father, his father and mother are with his mother, and his in-laws divorce who the 18-year-old sister-in-law is with.
Hello. The sister-in-law is 18 years old, which means that she is an adult and has her own choice, he chooses to follow her father, and her father and mother are with her mother, and she now has the right to choose. You can also choose to live alone, if you think my answer solves your problem, please click "like" and "comment" thank you.
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The sister-in-law chose to live with her mother, but was it appropriate for her mother to push her to live with her brother who had a family.
This is not suitable, and his mother still has guardianship of her, when she was ignorant and got married and had children early, her in-laws quarreled every now and then, and her mother-in-law ran away from home, and pushed her sister-in-law to me to take care of Gao Zhigu, and later let his family buy a house and we moved out to live in the early days. Later, the mother-in-law took the money to buy a house, if he gave you child support, and after the living expenses, you can help him raise it, so that you have no burden, and you can take you to a young age.
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There may be people who divorce because of the sister-in-law's relationship between the husband and wife, and there is no possibility of reconciliation. There are many reasons for divorce, generally because the relationship between the two parties has indeed broken down, and there is no possibility of reconciliation; Otherwise, there will be no divorce. Other reasons include drug abuse, gambling, domestic violence, and repeated repudiation.
Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.
Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.
People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.
In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;
2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;
3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;
4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;
5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.
Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.
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What kind of man is this, and his own women are not well loved. Family conflicts are tricky, but even if you look at everything else, you should be humble to you for my sake, what does he think, you have to talk to him about it.
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You need to take care of your physical health. You can't cry, your eyes are broken.
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This sister-in-law is your husband's family, so you can't have any thoughts in front of them. Moreover, you are not the only one living in your home, but also your husband. So, a lot of things have to be taken into account about your husband.
Something happened to your husband's family, or divorced, maybe she has nowhere to go at this time, so it is normal for her to live in your house. Your husband doesn't want his relatives to have nowhere to live. And you have to be mentally prepared.
You also have to think about your husband and your sister-in-law.
You think, she is a divorced woman and has no place to go, so she can only come to live in her relatives' house, then this is also reasonable, and there is nothing you can do. What's more, you can't bear to see her have nowhere to live. And your husband, he must be even more unbearable to see his relatives have nowhere to go, or maybe she returns to her parents' house, what will others look like of her?
Therefore, you had better accept this fact from your heart, otherwise it will only be uncomfortable in your heart, even if you really can't accept it, then you don't have to complain often in front of your husband, otherwise, your husband will definitely quarrel with you, which will affect your feelings, why bother.
However, if you really can't stand it, then discuss it with your husband. Don't let him think that you have a lot of dissatisfaction and just want to kick your sister-in-law out. So, you'd better reason with your husband and talk about the inconvenience of your sister-in-law living in your house, and your sister-in-law is also very inconvenient.
In this way, I think your husband should take it to heart, and then, he should solve it.
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Did you buy your own house? I suggest you just have a son! Don't have both children and daughters! When the time comes, your daughter will come back to live and will be disliked by others. The provincial ones are not used to being looked down upon by others.
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What age is it, divorced and still living in my brother-in-law's house, renting a house! What are the obligations of my brother and sister-in-law? It's so unconscious! More than a month to get out.
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First of all, the sister-in-law divorced and had nowhere to live, and lost her marriage and the closest relatives she used to have. At this time, your sister-in-law comes to join you, and she should also have nowhere to go and the situation is more miserable. At this time, even if you yourself may find it inconvenient, can you really bear to push someone out of the house and sit on the straw that crushes the camel when someone else has not yet come out of the current low life situation?
I think even if you don't want to feel uncomfortable in your heart, as a relative, you still have to be more tolerant at this time.
When time slowly calmed her down, her state was better, and she became more cheerful. You can ask your husband what she plans for the future and what she plans for the next step in life. If you can, help when you can, such as helping to introduce blind dates, or helping to find some affordable rental housing.
I think that when others are in a bad mood, we should not show our indifference and desperation. Often these small things that seem to be able to be endured in ordinary times will be infinitely magnified for people at that time. Why do we add fuel to the fire?
Moreover, the other party is still your husband's sister, which is also equivalent to your sister. Even though you may not be close, isn't this a good time for you to draw the distance? Do you want to eat more at your husband's house and have a good relationship with them, or do you want to have a restless life in the future?
My advice is that even if you don't want to, please bear with your temper and get along with your sister-in-law. Compared with the sister-in-law at this time, it may really be in a state of losing her temper as soon as it is ignited. When her mental state has eased, she has gradually become accustomed to the reality of divorce and is concerned about her future plans with your husband.
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I also encountered it, at that time, she didn't wait for the attack to hit me and called me ** and told me that she was going to live for a hundred or two years, saying that Du was to avoid her ex-husband's entanglement. Zhi divorced for the dao, even gave the children to her in-laws, and gave all her assets to her in-laws. When she came, she brought a new object with her.
It turned out that she was worried about her. As for her, she doesn't do anything big or small, she dislikes me for not cooking well, and asks me to take her around the city, and occupies the only computer in my house. At that time, my baby was very young, and his father was busy with work and only came home once a week or two.
The baby leans back first, and she comes first everywhere. The final result was that she lived for less than half a month and left, saying that it was too difficult for me to take care of the children alone, in fact, she was not used to the food in the north. I did my best for her, after all, she was also difficult.
The only dissatisfaction is that when she left, she sent her, she had to open the window on a hot day and said motion sickness, and when she left, my baby was heatstroked.
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