How would you deal with someone close to you leaving you?

It's going to be very sad, because it's my closest person and I've always relied on him, so my heart will hurt and I won't be able to accept it for a while. I allowed myself to be sad for a while, and then I let myself learn to gradually come out and divert my attention, and there will be many other good things and people in life.

Learn to be cold and allow yourself to be sad People are high-level emotional creatures and cannot be as cold-blooded as animals. When a close person left me, because we had a very good relationship, very harmonious, I relied on him very much, so I couldn't accept it at this time, I allowed myself to be sad first. Even if it's crying, it's a normal reaction, and I don't like it when some people suppress their emotions and pretend to be calm.

It's unlikely, unless I'm emotionless, I haven't really loved him, and if I loved him and left me, I'd be very sad. When you first encounter these sudden and sad things, you have to learn to be cold and allow yourself to be sad, even if I cry, there is no shame.

After being sad, you have to learn to come out and not be trapped in that sad atmosphere forever, even if you feel very wronged, you can't live without him, but life has to go on. Life is not enough, we have to live, and to live we have to get ourselves out of that feeling of losing him. It used to be accompanied by this person, but now what if there is no such person?

We must learn to be calm, everyone must cultivate their own sense of crisis, once we lose this person, we must not become ignorant, we must arrange the rest of our lives. Find an emotional sustenance, or cultivate a hobby of yourself, when you are obsessed with a hobby, you will temporarily forget that person, and in difficult times, as long as you want to come, you can come smoothly. Believe in yourself, we can successfully control our emotions, everyone may encounter sad times, and no one can always accompany us to the destination, so be strong.

Life is very helpless, some people walk and walk away, there is no 100 days of red, there is no banquet that does not disperse, when the banquet ends, we have to learn to start again. If you can't get out, then take your time, as long as you don't give up, life will go on.

I think it may be sad and painful for a while, and then I need to continue to work hard because the people who left have already left, and the rest of us cannot survive only by memories.

If a close person leaves me, I will definitely try to save this relationship, if it really doesn't work, I will forget about this relationship as soon as possible, and no longer think about it.

I feel very lost, but I adjust my mood and start a new life slowly.