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Husbands and wives complain more and communicate less, which means that the relationship will definitely deteriorate, and what could have been done hand in hand has become a drag on each other.
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Husbands and wives should communicate more, some misunderstandings are thought to be a lack of communication, and over time, they will become misunderstandings when they are buried in their hearts, and they feel that they are not worth mentioning when they say it, and if they have more misunderstandings, they will complain to each other, and even quarrel, and the feelings will slowly fade.
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Maybe it's not that the relationship has weakened, but that it feels more and more difficult to communicate, so there is less communication, which will seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife.
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There are more complaints and less communication between husband and wife, which of course means that the relationship has become weaker, and the most important thing between husband and wife is communication.
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No, it can only be said that the two need to reposition themselves and understand each other more.
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If the husband and wife do not quarrel, the relationship between the two people will not become weaker and weaker, everyone has a different way of getting along, and some people may not quarrel for the rest of their lives, so don't always think that others do not quarrel is able to bring like water, in fact, the way people get along is very good Harmonious couples will go farther and farther, better and better.
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If husband and wife do not quarrel with each other, then pity has already looked down on each other. Or that the relationship between two people will become weaker and weaker, which is also possible, or rather. Alas, both of you usually have a relatively peaceful temper.
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It's not a pro, in real life, many couples have quarreled all their lives, this completely depends on how the problem is solved after the quarrel, whether there is effective communication, don't keep your mouth shut after the quarrel, and there will be no suspicion after the knot is untied, and the relationship is fine
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If they don't quarrel, it's not that these two people have no feelings, and it's not that the relationship between the whole two people is getting weaker and weaker, it's just that they can't solve this contradiction, so they quarrel, their positions are different, and there is no way to plan their positions into one.
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If you don't quarrel, it's normal for your feelings to fade, because life is originally a dull life, and occasionally a little bit of waste, he will become good in his feelings, but he can't quarrel often.
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A quarrel shows that two people still care about each other's shortcomings, and it may have come to the point where it doesn't matter if they don't quarrel. Generally speaking, quarrels are the catalyst for me, and there is a certain amount of truth.
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That's fine, if husband and wife don't quarrel, how can they be emotional? Sometimes it's good to have a fight every once in a while, so life is fun and fulfilling, isn't it?
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No. I think that some couples can maintain their relationship without quarreling, and there will be no estrangement in such a relationship, and the development is also very good, and it can last longer.
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No. If two people really love each other and are connected in heart, then even if they don't quarrel all the time, the relationship will not deteriorate.
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No. Quarreling too much will hurt feelings, and if both parties can communicate in time, the relationship can be maintained.
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Yes, sometimes it is necessary to quarrel appropriately, and quarreling can enhance the relationship between two people.
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The longer the husband and wife get along, the shortcomings of both parties will be exposed, if the two people do not communicate often, or if the communication method is not right, they will quarrel, and quarrels are the easiest to make the relationship weak.
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The main reason is that two people will have no feelings after getting along for a long time, and after getting along for a long time, two people will not have a sense of freshness, and they will also find some shortcomings of each other, so it will lead to more and more weak feelings.
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Because two people have been together for a long time, then the relationship will slowly fade, and they are used to this kind of life and feel that it is meaningless, so they will slowly become bigger.
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is because two people don't maintain this relationship between them, they don't know how to tolerate each other's bad temper, and both people see each other's shortcomings.
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Often cold wars, often contradictions, often quarrels, never care about each other, see each other is particularly bored, especially indifferent, so that the relationship between husband and wife will become weaker.
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often has conflicts in the Cold War, will not explain to each other, will do things after quarrels, and often say cruel things to each other, so that the relationship between the husband and wife will become weaker.
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often deceive each other, belittle each other, look down on each other, and often quarrel, if you do these few things, the relationship between husband and wife will fade.
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The occurrence of these phenomena shows that the relationship between husband and wife has weakened: two people have nothing to say, they are unwilling to let each other look at their mobile phones, and they will feel very bored when they see each other.
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The two people do not have a common language, do not communicate and communicate often, often quarrel, and there are already signs of sleeping in separate rooms.
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Husbands and wives do not communicate with each other, have a very cold attitude towards each other, and do not care about each other's affairs.
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If both husband and wife complain, will it be difficult for the relationship to be maintained? Yes. Yi Shu once wrote in "The Metamorphosis":
To live a good life, you have to be extremely patient. If you don't complain and explain, you must be very talented. However, there are very few people who can go in marriage without complaining.
Li Nan and her husband have been married for twenty years. They are all aggressive people. They can always argue over small things.
When Li Nan was young, he felt that it was also a kind of happiness for the couple to struggle together.
She can control my temper and I can refute her point of view. I know the bottom line, I know each other. As the children's slippery sheds grow up, the daily needs and daily needs are filled with marriage.
Gradually, the dispute between Li Nan and her husband began to become qualitative, from a fighting battle to a nagging complaint. To put it bluntly, the system of anonymous drinking between wives is such that neither person can trust each other or even believe that their marriage will last. At an age suitable for marriage, I just met him, and he also needs to get married, two people who don't trust each other will make rules for each other at the beginning of the relationship and will not "take advantage of each other".
<> the marriage of an anonymous alcoholic can only be said to be alive, and it is difficult to have a high-quality married life, such as the aunt who drove a camper tour that was very popular some time ago, and she endured it all her life. Marriage makes me look the worst. This is a post from my best friend a day ago.
They don't know each other at all. I just feel that these two contrasting dynamics reflect the state of mind of two people and allow them to see what life is like in both families. Marriage and love are completely different things.
Many lovers get married, and their lives are very different from the original. Their relationship patterns are different compared to marriage and love. When in love, most people learn to live, and after getting married, most people think about how to survive.
In marriage, if there is some friction between the parties that cannot be resolved effectively, the conflict will snowball.
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When lovers just get married, the relationship is very sweet, so that the happy love life will last until 2 to 3 years, but often many people feel that the relationship between the husband and wife has weakened in the fourth or fifth year of married life, so what is the reason for this situation?
One or two people are too familiar and have no freshness.
Two people have lived for too long, if the husband and wife do not know how to be romantic, then it will lead to two people too familiar, and there is no freshness, at this time the relationship between husband and wife, just like the left hand touching the right hand, so plain, although there is also family affection, but love will be farther and farther away, which requires two people to regain love, two people to know some opportunities to travel, you can go to the place of the previous date, the old place to revisit, to find back the good times before. And in life, you should also know the sense of ritual, on the most important day, give each other a surprise, and you can also create some small romance that makes each other happy on ordinary days, these are all okay.
Second, two people are burdened by the trivial things of life, and they are no longer like when they are in love, and there is nothing to be tied by.
Life is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, when two people are dating, they don't think that these trivial things of life are very sweet, but after they really get married, with the normal time of marriage, the two will also face more and more trivial things in life, therefore, many people will feel that the other party has become nagging, has become unrefined, and has become different from before, and they will think that this is a weakening relationship.
3. Generally, if they have been married for many years and have children, two people will devote more energy to their children, resulting in a weaker relationship between husband and wife
Two people generally have their own children after a few years of marriage, and it is a very happy thing to have children, but children will experience a lot when they grow up, feeding children milk powder, changing diapers, helping children buy clothes, and finding good educational institutions, these things will waste the energy of two people, and have no time to take care of the feelings between husband and wife. Two people will feel that the relationship will not be as hard as before.
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I think it may be because the two people have not communicated for too long, so it will make the relationship between the husband and wife weaken, so we must communicate more.
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It may be because when two people encounter something, they don't understand each other at all. It may also be because two people often quarrel after marriage, or it may be because two people don't know each other at all, and it may also be because two people don't love each other very much when they get married, so this also warns us that we must look at these things rationally after marriage.
There is no communication and communication between husband and wife, but they will not have any conflicts and quarrels in this marriage, and everyone wants to have a stable life. So it can go on.
I think that if you really love each other, there is no barrier, it is enough to have a common language and preferences, education is not a problem, you can improve each other, it is not enough to become an obstacle between husband and wife.
Quarrels between the couple are normal, and it is important to make it clear that the two people who are fighting have quarreled and that the final solution is resolved. If it's caused by some small things or the willfulness of a female (boyfriend) friend, in fact, don't mind too much, you can use it as the spice of life. But if this happens too often, I think there is still a need to consider the future fate of the two people. >>>More
Yes, you still have to go through the normal procedure.
Have you ever sat down calmly and communicated? When you communicate, can you agree with the other person's point of view? In fact, the communication between husband and wife requires more skills, but it is a pity that many people now think that they are all a family, and they still pay attention to communication skills, so many things are said bluntly, and they are not said in harmony, and even sometimes they are angry outside, bring the anger back, and vent inward; Have you ever thought that the wife or husband is innocent? At first, I didn't think it was good, but after a long time, there was an emotional rift between the husband and wife, but maybe both parties didn't pay attention to the emotional rift, and finally it became a rift; Treat some previous discord as a topic of quarrel. >>>More