I don t have a dream, what should I do? What should I do if I don t have a goal or an ideal?

Combine your current life situation and your own preferences, calm down and think about what you will develop in the next five years, ten years, or beyond, or what are your strengths. Don't rush to conclusions, give yourself some time, or you can discuss with family and friends before making conclusions and setting ideals and goals for yourself.

Just because you have your own ideals and goals doesn't mean you'll be able to achieve them right away. Because if you want to achieve an ideal and goal, you need your own perseverance and time, as well as some other factors, but the main subjective aspect also depends on perseverance, to persevere.

After having perseverance, I should also set a timetable for my ideal according to the size of the goal and the length of time, such as how much work I will complete every day in a month, how much knowledge I will learn in a quarter, how many English levels I will get in a year, and so on. Don't eat a fat person in one bite, everything should start small, one step at a time.

It is inevitable that you will encounter difficulties on the way to realize your ideals and goals, so you must be mentally prepared and always do self-psychological adjustment. Don't give up halfway because of some difficulties.

This is the most basic for everyone, if there is no it, then life will be meaningless, so sooner or later everyone has to discover and establish a goal and an ideal, and to approach it with heart to achieve it, only in this way, can we better base ourselves on society.

Set a goal and an ideal and work hard.

Goals and ideals are serious topics, and hasty decisions are unreasonable and very harmful to one's own life. This is especially true of the ideals of a person's life. But we must not slow down our search for our ideals and pursue our ideals.

I suggest that you first set some short-term goals, which are related to your study and life, and strive to achieve them, and at the same time use various resources to analyze your interests and find out what your and the public think is the value of life, see if you can find intersections, and then launch your own goals.

Life is indeed beautiful and severe, everyone has confusion and confusion, but it will definitely cross the dark clouds to see the rainbow, there are still many happy things in life, there is no need to feel that life is bitter, the heart is sour, and life is bitter for this problem. Because it's so small, you haven't experienced any major changes.

You should exercise more self-regulation ability, what should you do if you encounter a big event in the future? If you have a problem, you should look for the root cause of the problem or ask for help, and you will not be able to solve the problem by blindly worrying about it. I think you get the idea.

A few days ago, I saw a sentence that roughly reads "Stand outside the painting and look at the painting", and you must understand the realm!

I don't think there is such a person, boring, empty, boring, no goal, no ideal, it can also be said that they are pursuing a spiritual realm: freedom. But that freedom can feel hollow.

Boredom has been there for everyone, and not everyone is born with ideals. Slowly, as you age, your ideals will be different.

If every ideal is a reality, what else do you want to do!! So don't be afraid that you can't finish it, it's just a momentum, a direction.

If you really don't have an ideal, he won't find that he is bored, since you said that you were bored and empty at the beginning, it means that you want to change and don't want to live like this!! You don't want to do anything because you don't know what else you can do, so why can't you change your life! I don't think it's for you, you can go out and see, take a walk, maybe your ideal is right in front of your eyes!

I think your situation is because the social pressure is too great, and you feel that you have nothing to do when you go out, so you must first recognize the current situation, what you will do, what you can survive in society, and make more friends, when you find that people need you very much and care about you, then you will also have a sense of accomplishment, find the goal you want, set a goal, and complete it. I hope this passage of mine can help you get out of the confused path. It might be better to talk to friends and release some stress.

Good luck

Everyone has an unattainable dream, and they all have the most beautiful dream that belongs only to themselves.

In fact, not everyone has a goal, and then strives to achieve it. In fact, too many people are going with the flow right now!

On the contrary, those who have their own goals, they have their own strong beliefs, so most of them succeed.

This is a materialistic society, without material things and desires, it is almost impossible for people to survive.

I have also had days without goals and directions, and every day is to get by, to lose myself, and to live in my own fantasies. At this time, I have been constantly searching, constantly pursuing, after all, let me come out, even if I still don't know where my goal is, I don't know where my direction is, but I am no longer confused, I am constantly correcting the road I am taking, and constantly improving myself, because now I firmly believe that as long as this continues, my direction, my own road will be shown under my feet, although this road is difficult to walk, although it may be a road of no return, but I am still walking.

You also have your own way to go, although you are still confused, but I believe that when the clouds are clear, it is the time when you will understand! ~

You have such a state of mind at the age of 20, which really makes me feel ashamed.

If you want to have a goal, you must first figure out what you are interested in. If a person finds something that interests him, he will be indomitable and energetic. And I feel that life is very fulfilling.

I won't talk about the big reason.

Have fun! ~~

Surf the Internet less, live a regular life, exercise more, make more friends who are willing to help you, and maintain such a regular life for half a year, after which you will feel that you want to do everything and can do anything.

You have to learn to really take care of yourself!

No, you can try.

You'll find your goal.

Find your way!

Find a job that you feel you like, or find someone you like. The problem is solved.

If you don't have it, you can't do it, just live happily.

If you don't have a goal, you don't have an ideal, but you live happily, then you live like this, on the contrary, if you have a goal and an ideal, you will feel that it's very stressful and painful to live, and it's better not to have it at all.

Life is short, and how to live a happy, wonderful and meaningful life is a difficult problem that most people think about and pursue.

If you don't want to stumble, you have to find your true self, cherish every inconspicuous experience in your life, live in the moment, and enjoy and create more real moments with your heart. Because many times, happiness is hidden in the inconspicuous real moment, waiting to sprout in our hearts.

Fate is impermanent, cherish the moment, cherish everything we have!