Why do people always say that I am a child and ignorant?

It should be that your personality is more cute and simple, so there is nothing wrong with it, everyone says that you mean that they like you. I'm like this, in the eyes of others I'll always be a child, not only small, even the personality is like a child, once depressed, but also tried to change themselves, but the results all ended in failure, and then I thought about it, in fact, this is not bad, the reasonable use of this feature may have unexpected gains! Don't be sad, this is your strength, it means that you are approachable and everyone wants to take care of you!

You may speak, dress cutely, it's better to dress maturely, be more silent, others won't be bold enough to say about you.

Because you are younger than them, you will think a lot less when you are a year younger, and you will experience things a year earlier than you when you were born, not that you are not good enough, but you are not old enough to make people think of you as an adult.

Judging whether people are small or not is not judged from the good or bad of the person and your relationship with others.

Judging from the person's conversation, mannerisms, temperament, way of doing things, etc., maybe you are lacking in these3

20 years old at work, it's not too big, you're also a woman, they feel that you are young and ignorant, in fact, they treat you as a sister You should feel happy Why care so much If you don't take you seriously, no one is too lazy to care about you

The old man doesn't say that you are young and that you are not old, and if you don't say that you are young, there is nothing else to say, which means that you have no major problems in other aspects, which is very good.

They care about you, so you just pretend to be confused.

Ignore them and talk to you when I talk to them!

It's because I'm young

Isn't that bad? Why do you want to be mature? ~~

1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.

When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's in the lower row, you'll throw the lost teeth on the roof!

It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this, in fact, the intention of comfort is greater, and I hope that the child will not be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first

For example, bleeding does not stop, there is a foreign body in the tooth, and so on. The second is that usually the brother prepares the stove in the morning and brushes his teeth late, and he should brush it clean to ensure that there is no food residue between his teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!

2) Nibble on the fish bones and draw a fish pattern in the cup.

When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.

When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!

3) Do not eat eggs before the test.

I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because both eggs and zero eggs have a relationship with the word "egg".

In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.

When you take the exam, relax and envy, and usually prepare for your homework, so you won't be afraid of doing too badly!

4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains on the plate.

When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.

In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."

From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.

Children are not sensible, it must be caused by acquired education, because every child is born with a clean blank sheet of paper, and the acquired becomes ignorant, mainly because of the factors of environmental emotion personal + original family.

Education is the process of making people become people, the growth process of living life, the educated, as the main body of this process, should be concerned and awe-inspired, the true meaning of personalized education lies in the return of educational value and the demonstration education of students' personalities, not only to transmit culture, but also to meet the requirements of the culture itself to extend and renew, and improve the potential labor ability of the educated, To form views, attitudes and behaviors that adapt to modern economic life, and to better create a better future for mankind, people can better understand the world and transform the world.

Children are not sensible, not born of course, it is not excluded that there are children who are born sensible and have the vision of Yulu, but more Zen is the cultivation of parents, acquired factors are more important than congenital factors, many parents do not pay attention to the cultivation of children, so that children are neither sensible, nor eyesight, resulting in such a result can not blame the children are the responsibility of the parents themselves.

Therefore, as a parent, you must educate your children well, and only by educating your children well can your children grow up better in the future society.

There are always some children around us who are good at learning and sensible. This may be what parents call "someone else's child". Look at your own children, they don't study well and don't understand.

Neither of the two advantages is accounted for, which is also the trouble of many Punzen parents. Even if the child's education is not very bad, but the academic performance is not good and not sensible, if these two things can be the same, parents and friends will not be so annoying. So how are such children educated?

Let me tell you what I think!

Children's education is very important, and parents should also educate from an early age. There is also a lot to do with the child's personality, academic performance, and whether he is sensible or not. If the family is harmonious, the parents lead by example, and there is a strong learning atmosphere, then the children of such a family will definitely not have bad grades.

If parents can teach their children some Taoist banquets in normal times, they will definitely be very sensible.

Let's take a look at some families now, the father holds the mobile phone every day, and the mother swipes Douyin all day long. I don't care about my child's academic performance, so can my child in such a family have good grades? Of course, we can't generalize, many children know how to learn, and their comprehension ability is a little better than their peers, so their grades will be better.

However, there is no need for us to envy other people's children, and parents should also discover the advantages of their own children. Maybe they're standing out in a certain area? For example, running, basketball, socializing with people, and so on.

These are all advantages, and parents may not be so annoyed if they can find out!

Children's education should be grasped from an early age, the family atmosphere is a very important factor, and whether parents can lead by example is also a factor. But parents should not put too much pressure on their children, don't always compare them, so that children may not listen, and over time there will even be a rebellious mentality!

Every parent wants their children to be excellent, but this kind of thing is difficult to force, and don't deliberately ask for children, just let it be! Every family has a difficult scripture, and the parents of children who are sensible and have good grades may also have their own troubles! The above is the view, in the final analysis, the problem of children's education still has a long way to go, can not be rushed, let it be the best!

Absolutely. It may also be that the child is too young, and when he goes to someone else's house, he goes to Sassen to bounce on his blind hair, and the parents don't stop it, and the host doesn't say anything. Another example is a child who went to military training, her father said that when she was at home, she drank a glass of water and her father poured it and delivered it to her hand, and she couldn't stand it when she went to military training.

During the stay, everyone ate in the restaurant, and some people couldn't do it, so they asked their families to cook a meal at noon every day and send it to the school to come in through the gate post with a key Chunheng. There are also children who are not sensible, and the parents are more partial to her because she is a small child, causing her to be disrespectful to her brother, yelling at her, and when her family criticizes her brother, she also criticizes, and her family does not stop her. . .

First, it is caused by the social atmosphere, and today's children have grown up with thousands of favors, do not worry about food and clothing, and experience fewer setbacks and blows, so they are psychologically fragile.

Second, it is caused by the parental environment, everyone's perspective is different, the conclusion is naturally different, parents can never stand in the perspective of the child's cheating, because it has passed that stage, the chain will be relatively mature, but the child has not experienced it, and naturally can not understand, so there will be contradictions, and the parents' fierce words have also become a weapon to hurt the child's psychology.

Third, it is the education problem of the general environment, the older generation does not pay attention to ideological education, a kind of tempering of psychological resistance, so the current parents will not educate their children from the psychological perspective of their children, so in the end it will cause a failure experience.

Fourth, it is a kind of refraction of material abundance, in the past, it was a problem to eat and clothe, how could there be energy and spirit to talk about thoughts, but now that the material conditions are abundant, there is more energy to do other things, and natural thinking will have a different path, if it is not reasonably guided, then the consequences will be different.