The father is no longer there, and the child wants to take the mother s surname, what should I do?

You should first go to the police station where your household registration is located, explain the situation, ask whether you can change your father's surname back to your father's surname, and what supporting materials are needed, and then go to the neighborhood committee or village committee in your original ancestral hometown A to issue a certificate according to the requirements of the police station.

If you don't ask the police station where your hukou is located if you can do it and how to do it in advance, it will be difficult to say after you have issued a certificate from your original place of residence.

2. In general, it is difficult to change your surname in this situation. Because it may involve not just you, but other family members; It may be better if you are in aland, with your father's family, or if your father is alive. The police station may not readily agree to change your surname.

3. However, citizens enjoy the right to name and have the right to change their name according to the "Household Registration Regulations", if you really want to change it, you can go to it several times, if the police station does not change, you can find the competent leader of the public security bureau at the higher level to reflect, if you still do not change, you can file an administrative reconsideration or administrative lawsuit to sue them for administrative inaction.

4. If you are allowed to change your name, the materials you may need include: proof of your relationship with your parents, your own application for name change, ID card, household registration booklet, etc.

This shouldn't be impossible, the main thing is that my father's hometown shouldn't agree! In this way, if you are taken away by your mother, you will almost not be able to tell that it is your own family at all.

Legal analysis: children can take their father's surname or their mother's surname.

Legal basis: Article 1015 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Natural persons shall take their father's or mother's surname, but in any of the following circumstances, they may choose a surname other than the father's surname and the mother's surname: (1) selecting the surname of other lineal elders' blood relatives; (2) The surname of the person who chooses the person who is supported by a person other than the legal person who is the person who is the person who supports them; (3) There are other legitimate reasons why they do not violate public order and good customs.

The surnames of natural persons belonging to ethnic minorities may be in accordance with their own cultural traditions, customs, and customs.

1. And the father's surname is the influence of traditional concepts

China is a very traditional country that values filial piety, with a history of thousands of years of civilization, women follow their fathers at home and husbands when they go out. A woman is a person with a foreign surname in her mother's family, and she will go out in the future, so the mother's family's view of the girl is that the girl who marries out spills water. When a daughter marries into her in-law's family, she follows her mother-in-law's surname, and when she gives birth to a child, she naturally follows her in-law's surname.

This is thousands of years of history, inherited, in the past, after a woman married to her in-law's family, she would put her in-law's surname in the front, and her own surname in the back, becoming a certain family, which is enough to see the status of a woman in her in-law's family. Naturally, after giving birth to a child, it has nothing to do with the woman's maiden family.

2. The times are different, and many family concepts have also changed

Times are evolving at a rapid pace. People's ideas are also undergoing different changes. In particular, many young people do not want to follow traditional ideas and start to reform their families.

The most obvious manifestation is to let the child follow his mother's surname, feeling that this is a kind of love for his wife and a kind of respect.

In fact, this problem is also very easy to understand, even if the child has the mother's surname, it is also a child shared by two people, and in the dark, this child is still a child in the man's family. Therefore, no one's surname can change his blood relationship, this child has the common blood of two families in his body, so the relatives of the two families are equally important to the love of this child.

Because China has been a patriarchal society for thousands of years, until now, children are fixed with their father's surname, but if the husband and wife discuss well, the child can also have the mother's surname.

Because in ancient times, the patriarchal man was the head of the family, so children generally followed the tradition of following their father's surname.

The father is greater than the mother, they represent the king, the head of the family, and take on the responsibility of the whole family, and the mother will only take care of the children, and there is nothing to do.

In our country, the father's surname is the child's marriage name, so it is relatively normal for the father's surname and the child's surname to follow the father's surname. However, in some special cases, such as when the mother does not want the child to take the father's surname, or in an international marriage, the mother has the right to claim the right to take the surname.

According to the provisions of the General Provisions of the Civil Law on the establishment of wills, husband and wife can bind the surnames of their common children, and in the absence of divorce, the right to take the surname can be determined by the mother, constituting the following consensus: the two parties agree to give the child the father's surname, or one party requests to have the surname of the mother or two surnames.

In addition, mothers should also pay attention to the following aspects when deciding on the right to take the surname:

1. Family traditions and cultural values: Guess what is the reason for wanting to change the child's surname, whether it is an objective cultural value and family tradition, or other reasons.

2. Whether the family is feasible: If the child's surname is changed, will the child feel the instability of the family, as well as the family's worries and uneasiness about themselves.

In short, the right to take the surname belongs to both husband and wife, as well as to the child himself, and a rational choice should be made by comprehensively considering various factors such as family traditions, cultural values, and family forms, so as to respect the rights and feelings of the child.

Legal analysis: children can take their father's surname or their mother's surname. Spring dress.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1015 A natural person shall take the father's or mother's surname, but in any of the following circumstances, a surname may be chosen outside of the paternal and maternal surnames: (1) the surname of another lineal elder blood relative; (2) Choosing the surname of a dependant because he or she is being supported by a person other than the legal dependent; (3) There are other legitimate reasons that do not violate public order and good customs.

The surnames of natural persons belonging to ethnic minorities may be subject to the cultural traditions and customs of their own ethnic groups.

In the belief of the vast majority of people, children should take their father's surname. But this matter is not taken for granted, and the child can take his mother's surname. Mothers also have the right to give their children a surname.

The reason for this is that according to the relevant regulations, the child can take both the father's and mother's surnames, and the father's surname is only a custom and not a rule, and in addition to the father's and mother's surnames, the child can also take other people's surnames.

1. According to the relevant regulations, the child can take the father's surname or the mother's surname.

According to the relevant regulations, the child's surname can follow the father's surname or the mother's surname. In either case, the requirements of the relevant regulations are met. ......Therefore, from the perspective of the relevant regulations, there is no situation where the child can only take the father's surname, and the mother can ask the child to take her own surname, which is in accordance with the regulations and there is no problem at all.

2. It is only a custom for children to take their father's surname, not a rule.

In most people's minds, the idea that children should take their father's surname is a custom, not a rule. ......In other words, from the perspective of the relevant regulations, there is no provision that the child must only take the father's surname and not the mother's surname. ......Therefore, despite the custom, mothers can ask their children to take their surnames in accordance with the relevant regulations.

3. In addition to taking the father's surname and the mother's surname, the child can also take the surname of other people.

As for the child's surname, in fact, there are not only two kinds of surnames: the father's surname and the mother's surname. ......The child can even take someone else's last name. ......Specifically, the child can choose the surname of another direct elder blood relative, and the child can also choose the surname of the guardian because he or she is being raised by someone other than the legal guardian.

Therefore, it is not natural for the child to take the father's surname, and the child's mother can ask the child to take her own surname, or even someone else's surname, if the relevant regulations are met.

In fact, the child's surname is stipulated in the Marriage Law, and the original text of the Marriage Law is "The child can take the father's surname and the mother's surname." Originally, the law was like this: "A child may take either his father's or his mother's surname." Later, scholars discussed that the use of the word "also" had a feeling of inequality between men and women, so even the word "also" was removed, which showed that the child's surname was equal to everyone.

Although the law is so, the deep-rooted concept of the father's surname still makes people speculate about the age of those children who take the mother's surname.

1. Deposit. Since ancient times, when there was no marriage law, not only would the children follow their father's surname, but the married woman would also add her husband's surname in front of the surname. However, at that time, there were also cases of taking the mother's surname, that is, the situation that the powerful family had no sons but only daughters, and such families would recruit sons-in-law, so that the children would follow the mother's surname after birth, so that the woman's huge family business would not fall into the hands of people with foreign surnames.

Nowadays, there are also cases of marriage, so even if it is a normal marriage, because the child follows the mother's surname, it will make outsiders speculate whether it is a marriage in which the man enters the marriage.

2. The parents are divorced, and the children return to their mothers.

In another case, the child is divorced from the mother's surname, and the child is awarded to the mother. However, after the divorce of Weiming's parents, because of the household registration problem, there are also those who choose not to change the child's surname, but if the child follows the mother's surname, it will inevitably make people have this kind of speculation.

3. The child's father is too cowardly.

According to the conventional concept, the child's name is to follow the father's surname, if the child follows the mother's surname, it will also make people speculate whether the man in the family is too cowardly, which is not conducive to the image of the man in the family, which is one of the reasons why many men are reluctant to let their children take their mother's surname.

The question of whether a child should have the mother's last name or not is a question related to personal opinion and cultural background, and there is no clear answer. Here are some possible suggestions and reasons:

2.Adopt dual surnames: Some social and legal systems allow for dual surnames, such as paternal surnames plus mother's surnames, or mother's surnames with paternal surnames, which is also a viable option.

3.Use the mother's surname as the middle name: If the child has the father's surname, but the mother wants to keep her surname, you can use the mother's surname as the child's middle name.

Reasons:1Cultural significance: In some social and cultural contexts, taking the mother's surname is a more traditional practice, because the mother is one of the closest people to the child, and her surname can also strengthen the parent-child relationship.

3.Personal choice: Some mothers want to be able to continue their surname, or that their child's surname is consistent with their own, a choice based on personal emotions and perceptions.

In short, the child's surname should be a choice based on equality and respect, taking into account the child's own wishes and the cultural background of the family, and safeguarding the child's rights and dignity.