Is it worth waiting for such a girl?

In my opinion, that girl doesn't love you, you don't have to wait for her anymore, you have done so much for the sake of it, and you don't give up knowing that she has so many unbearable pasts, she still doesn't accept you, the answer is already very clear.

Brother Izuliang, in the last part, I feel that you are as great and benevolent as the Buddha, and ordinary people really feel that the pressure is great. Reflect on whether the more gentle you are, the more she seems to say goodbye forever. If you don't understand, just look at Forrest Gump.

Here's a detail I hope you can figure out, how is she living now? Is it methodical as usual, or is it a mess. If it's the former, it's probably because she already has major goals and plans; The day when she will return to you is not far off.

Landlord, I feel like she loves you

In fact, everyone's thoughts are different. You can see that you love her very much, but ask yourself, is she still worthy of your love? The answer is already in your mind.

If a few words from someone else make you change your mind, then are you looking for a reason to break up? Hold on!

First of all, I admire you. Secondly, have you ever assumed that you are her, I know that it is very good for a man to be able to do what you do, as long as you find out the reason why she does not accept you, everything will be solved, I have always been like this for others, sorry....

What kind of girl is worthy of giving her heart? These 5 standards boys must understand!

Don't love it, you must love it!

Everyone's situation is different, and if you think he's your favorite, then he's worth the wait.

After taking a while to read your text, from a personal point of view, I actually feel that this girl is too purposeful, and it is up to you to make your own decision on whether to accept it or not:

Analysis point 1: She has always given me the impression that she is unreliable and very fickle

Judging from some of her performances, it's not that she's unreliable, but that her behavior represents what her heart really needs. You can take good hold of this point, continue to maintain your current attitude to see if she insists, if her persistence exceeds your awareness of her, then the impression can be improved;

Analysis point 2: Lukewarm to me. During this period, I treated her with all kinds of kindness, and she accepted some of them, but she always kept her distance from me

If it is true that you failed in your two confessions as I said later, there was such behavior in the previous 3 years together, which belongs to green tea in my personal values. Feelings are not child's play, acceptance is acceptance, rejecting your feelings but receiving your kindness, this is a typical green tea behavior. Of course, you didn't say exactly what the good intentions were, and this judgment also needs a degree, and I can't easily judge it when I don't know her as an outsider, you can recall for yourself which ones are obviously beyond the kindness of friendship and she accepts;

Analysis point 3: The situation has changed since then (not described later).

This is where it is more difficult to make a choice, after you cut off contact with her, her current actions are nothing more than two starting points: first, she feels that she has lost you in her heart, and suddenly no one treats her well, she needs this kind of goodness, but not necessarily yourself; Second, I do feel that after comparing the person I liked in the past with you, I feel that you are more suitable for her. But from some of her behaviors you described (such as deliberately hinting at you, etc.), I think that the purpose is too strong, and after experiencing the things that rejected you twice before, this is really routine, you can combine the first analysis point to make a judgment;

Classmates get along day and night, and classmates can understand you too much in 4 years, not just through the circle of friends. You can make a judgment about her as an "unreliable" person from the content posted in her circle of friends and her behavior, but she only judges "you are an interesting person" through her circle of friends, which I personally think is too hasty, and it may just be an excuse to give herself ** level.

To sum up the above 4 points, I give this girl a negative score based on your text, and the over-purposefulness, routine chat, and green tea behavior are not acceptable to me in my opinion. Personally, I suggest that if you really can't let go, you should investigate for a while to see if she is really interested in you. Time is the best tool to test your feelings, I wish you all the best.

Is this girl worth it for you to accept, ask yourself, if you think it's worth your pay, then get along well, if you don't think it's necessary, then stay away, this is up to you.

This girl is worthy of your acceptance of her, and can make the love between the two of you sweeter and sweeter.

Whether it is worth accepting it again, he should ask you about your heart, if you think there are any principled problems in the problems you got along with before, if there are no principled problems, and you are more compatible, you should be a little humble to tolerate him.

That is to love her well and cherish it.

When you ask this question, you already have the answer.