Tell us about the most desperate thing you ve ever experienced.

I wrote a report for the afternoon, but before I could save it, the computer was turned off. My hard work is all ruined. I had to start all over again, and I was really desperate.

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The most desperate thing I experienced was that I didn't pass the college entrance examination, it was really a very memorable memory, I thought about it and it was all tears, and I still don't believe that I still persevered and studied for a year in my senior year. It is difficult for people who have not tutored to experience that taste, and they all say that tutoring is hard, but only those who have really experienced it can appreciate the taste. What a bitter word.

My family background is not very good, and I was admitted to the 211 graduate school with my own efforts. The third year of research found a good job, and he originally fantasized about countless bright futures, but he was all ruined because he didn't pass the defense. Due to the lack of a double certificate, the work unit has also cancelled the admission qualification, and now it is facing the double pressure of reprocessing and finding a job.

It's been two years since my father died, and I'm still very pessimistic and misanthropic. My husband has been careful with me from the beginning, but now I don't want to listen to it. In front of people, you still have to pretend to be optimistic, and the ghost knows the state of insomnia and tears at night. Now my biggest wish is to be buried next to my father after death.

Now I don't know that I have been interning in a foreign trade company for 2 months, and I still can't figure out a lot of things. I didn't know my own work process and was later fired. I don't get a penny of my salary for 2 months.

Grandpa has had heart disease for many years, and now my father also has heart disease, and there is no mother at home, and I have a child who will have surgery tomorrow, so let me come over and sign today, and there is no money. Sitting in the hospital was flustered.

Ignoring the opposition of his parents and friends, he wanted to grow old with him without hesitation, and after forcing his family and friends to bless him, he said he would give up. My love died like this, and I couldn't do anything about it, and everyone betrayed my relatives.

Learning to drive, always scolded by the coach. I said it many times, but I didn't remember it. I hate myself, I'm really brainless. Later, I didn't take the test yet, and I had to learn again. It's still summer, and I'm several degrees darker.

When I was looking for a job in college, I finally rushed to the place where I was applying for a job, and I thought I could perform well, but the interview results were not satisfactory. The interviewer also made it clear that he would not hire me. When I came out of the company I was interviewing for, it happened to be raining heavily outside, and I didn't bring any rain gear, so I walked slowly in the rain alone, and the job search was unsatisfactory, coupled with bad weather, this was basically the most desperate thing in my life!

My boyfriend broke up yesterday, just after his sixth anniversary, without any warning and without giving me any reason. Now I feel like my whole person is broken, and I don't even have the strength to stand up straight.

Hello, I haven't experienced it.

In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, this feeling of tiredness is not something ordinary people can imagine. Every day, Dou Tong wants to find a peace in his soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Species, always in the fight against hunger on some specific days to affect people's thoughts. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

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Maybe I've just experienced it, I was desperate at the moment of breakup, time is the medicine that smooths the wound, and now I am the rest of my life.

I met him at the beginning of college, when we first met at the student council defense, and we were rivals at that time. Speaking of the two of us together, it is still quite tortuous, or dog blood. At that time, he had just broken up with his girlfriend for two days, and I was very distrustful of him at first, because I saw that there were still messages from his ex-girlfriend in his space, but he repeatedly promised me that he would not rekindle the old feelings, and he also deleted the messages** to express his determination, and we pulled and pulled for half a month, although they were not officially together, but it was almost, but just as October 1st holiday, we went home on vacation, and one night I found that he was talking and spitting, And the ex-girlfriend who had been deleted appeared in his friends list again.

So I deleted his friend and refused to continue to entangle with him, but we are in a school, and we will be in a class every day, how can we avoid it, so after half a month of pain, suddenly one day he added my friend and said that he had completely broken up with his ex-girlfriend, at first I still didn't believe it, and then my heart was softer and agreed.

We broke up just yesterday because he didn't think he could coax people and he felt that he needed more time with his friends, and he was tired, and every argument we had seemed to him was my vexatiousness, so we broke up. After the breakup, I found that the pictures that used to be together were like replays of movies, showing in front of me frame by frame, and what he once said when he confessed became the biggest joke.

I've experienced despair.

Sometimes, desperation can lead us to make decisions we don't want to make, and it can make us deal with problems that we don't want to face.

It can even make us make changes that make us sad.

Pain makes us face ourselves and then face the status quo. How we cope with such experiences determines who we will become.

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