How to cultivate the baby s character?

Lead by example, what kind of parents raise what kind of children, parents should be more patient to teach their children.

Family. Because the baby's personality will be affected by the environment, we can let the child grow up happily through the influence of the family, and take the child out to see the world, you can cultivate a cheerful and happy baby.

The baby's personality has a lot to do with the parent's education. Parents should be gentle in their usual tones, so that the child's character will also be gentle.

The baby's personality is wild and argumentative, as it has been cultivated since childhood. When a baby is consciously nurtured, the baby will develop good habits. Usually, by interacting more with your baby, playing games with your baby, being strict with your daily habits, respecting your baby more, not scolding too much, and giving him a lot of love.

It is advisable not to spoil babies excessively. Too much spoiling can easily cause babies to develop bad habits of singing. This baby grows up to be easily rebellious.

Respect your baby more and avoid affecting your baby's self-esteem.

From the baby's conscious cultivation, the baby will develop good habits. Usually, you can interact with and play with your baby. You should strictly abide by your usual habits, respect the baby more, don't scold too much, and give him a lot of love.

It is advisable not to spoil babies excessively. Too much spoiling can easily cause babies to develop bad habits. This baby grows up to be easily rebellious.

Respect your baby more and avoid affecting your baby's self-esteem.

When children come into the world, they are full of unknowns about many things, so they will inevitably make mistakes. These are unintentional mistakes. If parents yell at their children at this time, some shadows may appear in their hearts.

Experts note that children are sensitive before the age of six. If you scold your child too much, you will feel scared and painful, leaving psychological trauma, which is not conducive to the cultivation of your child's good personality.

Usually, parents should create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere for their children, and do not let their children be affected by any negative emotions. Parents should set a good example in front of their children and not show bad character traits. Usually parents should spend more time with their children to give them a sense of security.

In addition, when the baby's personality is not performing well, parents should help the baby correct it in time and form a good character. Some parents leave their children alone when they see them crying. In fact, this is a kind of psychological damage to children.

Children will wonder if their parents don't like themselves. Adults lose their temper, let alone children? Therefore, parents must be patient and ignore their children's bad emotions in the right way so that their children have a good character.

Some children are rough and have the habit of recognizing the bed, and some children will panic as soon as they enter the unfamiliar environment. These children's adaptability is relatively poor, so parents should not rush to let their children get in touch with new things, and let their children adapt slowly.

First of all, parents must set an example for their children to talk about it, and then they will encounter patient communication with their children when they encounter problems, and at the same time they must let their children do their own things, and parents should not do all the things for their children.

Parents should lead by example in life, because the character of parents may directly affect the character of their children, so that they can be well cultivated.

To give children a suitable environment for growth, 0 3 years old is a critical period for character formation. Make a plan to take all your life into account.

1.You don't have to reprimand your child.

The child is still so young, what kind of big mistake can he deliberately make? When children come into this world, they are full of unknowns about many things, so it is inevitable that they will make mistakes, which are unintentional mistakes. If mom and dad scold the child loudly at this time, some shadows may appear in the child's heart.

Experts point out that children are more sensitive before the age of six, and if they reprimand their children too much, they will make them feel scared and painful, which will leave psychological trauma and is not conducive to the cultivation of children's good character.

2.Don't just indoctrinate knowledge.

I often hear in life that a child can memorize a lot of Tangji poems and sing a lot of children's songs. In fact, instilling knowledge in children at an early stage is, to some extent, not conducive to the development of children's good character. Before the age of three, the growth of knowledge is not so important compared to the growth of the heart, if the child receives too much knowledge at this stage, the child will subconsciously become no self, will have little of his own opinions.

Once there is a deviation psychologically, it will also have an impact on the shaping of personality.

3.Treat your child's crying correctly.

Some parents let their children be left alone when they see their children crying and making fuss, in fact, this is a kind of psychological damage to the children, and the children will feel that their parents don't like themselves. Adults will have temper tantrums, let alone children? Therefore, parents must be patient and use the right way to channel their children's bad emotions, so that children can have a good character.

4.Say "no" to negative influences

When it comes to negative effects, the most common is family discord, if parents quarrel in front of their children, it will give children a sense of powerlessness. Both sides are his dearest people, and the child does not know who to help, and his heart will be very uncomfortable, which is not conducive to developing a good character.

What parents have to do.

If you want your children to be excellent, parents should also become excellent. The excellence of parents means that as the first teacher of the child, they should guide the child's growth in all aspects with positive energy.

There are several rebellious stages in the process of children's growth, and parents should pay attention to and guide them as the first residual teacher. Two to three years old. This is the child's first obvious rebellious period.

At this age, children begin to express their own thinking, say no to their parents, and be reasonable. Began not to listen to the opinions of his parents, and loved to make trouble. At this time, parents should give their children respect and understanding, and guide their children correctly.

1. Cultivate children's independence.

On the one hand, there is the independence of daily life, including dressing and eating by oneself; I hope that parents can give their children more opportunities to try, let their children try, even if they don't do well at the beginning, but after a long time, you will find that your children have different changes.

On the other hand, there is the independence of the spiritual life, including interpersonal communication, self-confidence, etc. For example, parents can create more opportunities for their children to perform, so that children can make friends according to their own wishes. When you are young, you are not afraid to make mistakes, but you must correct them in time, so that children can clearly express what they want to say.

2. Cultivate children's persistence.

Parents should cultivate children's habits such as starting and finishing well, going to bed early and getting up early, and insisting on doing things for the collective. Especially nowadays, many parents ignore the influence of the family environment and their own role models who have many children. In front of the child, play with the mobile phone, watch TV, play games and sleep late and wake up late.

This will seriously affect the child's future life and rest, and parents need to pay attention to the cultivation of these living habits. Start small, start now.

Of course, in addition to this persistence, parents also need to be able to guide their children to solve any problems they encounter in life, learn to solve them bravely, insist on doing one thing for a long time, and cultivate their children's willpower.

3. Cultivate children's decisiveness.

In the face of a complex and difficult task, being able to make decisions quickly and decisively requires a bold, courageous, calm and calm character. Many parents may think that their children are too young to think that they are not mature enough, and many family suggestions do not need to be approved by the child, and do not ask the child's opinion. It's all because parents think that their children are still young and ignorant.

Many parents don't know, in fact, from small things, they have already let their children in contact, and when they encounter problems, how can I choose. Develop your child's ability to think independently and make choices at the end.

Nowadays, more and more children, I don't know how to choose, kindergarten parents have the final say, primary school to university, and even majors will be considered by parents, I can say that such parents must be very powerful in some aspects, very good, but it is so, he knows a lot, but ignores the child, can also be as far-sighted as her, have their own important things or goals to do.

This is also a large part of students who are very confused, have no goals, do not know what to do, what not to do, and have no own opinions after graduation. This will affect the child's lifelong happiness from family work to the child's happiness for a lifetime.

In fact, to cultivate a good character for the baby, I think it comes from his own personality, and the personality of his parents is inherited, so what will happen to his personality?

Communicate with your child like a friend. Learn more about his views and thoughts. When you know the child well enough.

The next time you encounter him losing his temper, you can have a way to deal with it from where you are told. Think more from your child's point of view. Understanding the essence of a tantrum is the only way to solve the problem.

The first is the harmony between husband and wife. In many families, the discord between husband and wife will often quarrel, and even lead to the breakdown of the family, which will effectively hurt the child's soul, and also have a great impact on the formation and development of the child's character. Therefore, when parents quarrel, don't vent their grievances against the other half to their children, so that after a long time, they will be exposed to it and their temper will become bad.

The second is to provide the baby with the opportunity and right to make decisions. Let children know how to use their decision-making rights from an early age, learn to be assertive, don't control their children's every move all the time, and actively encourage children to do what they can.

The third is to let children and children of the same age have more balance and virtual source contact. Children of the same age often play together can let children learn to communicate happily, so that babies can also be simple to have a simple concept of right and wrong and moral judgment, and the ability of self-control will gradually increase.

The fourth is to cultivate children's wide range of interests. Usually pay attention to children, see what things children will be more interested in, and then provide children with a variety of choices, a wide range of interests and hobbies, it is naturally easy to have a happy character.

Fifth, let children learn to face setbacks. Encourage your child to try to do something, and if he fails, provide support and help him to complete it successfully. In this way, the child will be able to experience the joy of success through hard work.

Turning failure into success can cultivate children's self-confidence and self-esteem.

1) Biological genetic factors: according to research: heredity is an indispensable influencing factor of personality, and the degree of effect of genetic factors on personality varies according to different personality characteristics, usually in intelligence, temperament, which are more important in the characteristics related to biological factors; In terms of values, beliefs, personality and other characteristics that are closely related to social factors, acquired environmental factors are more important.

In the process of individual development, personality is the result of the interaction between heredity and environment, which affects the direction and difficulty of personality development.

2) Socio-cultural factors: Socio-cultural factors shape the personality characteristics of members of society, so that the personality structure of members develops in the direction of similarity, and this similarity has a function of maintaining social stability. Embedding the individual in a cultural form.

Its influence varies from culture to culture, and whether society is strict with cultural requirements, the stricter it is, the greater its influence. The strength of influence also depends on the social significance of its actions. The shaping of personality by social culture is reflected in the inherent national character of different cultural nations.

Ethnicity in different natural environments also reflects the influence of human geography on personality. Social culture plays an important role in personality, especially some personality traits that are formed later. Socio-cultural factors determine the common characteristics of personality, which makes people in the same society have a certain degree of similarity in personality.

3) Family environmental factors: different parenting styles have different influences on personality differences. Family Parenting Style:

Authoritative: Parents are overly dominant in their children's education, and everything is quietly controlled by parents. Children who grow up in this environment are prone to form passivity, passivity, dependence, obedience, cowardice, lack of initiative in doing things, and even dishonest personality traits.

Indulgent: Parents are too doting on their children, allowing them to do whatever they want, and education is out of control. Children are often willful, naïve, selfish, brutal, rude, poor independence, self-centeredness, and arrogant.

Democratic: Parents and children are in an equal and harmonious atmosphere in the family, parents respect their children, give them a certain degree of autonomy, and give them positive and correct guidance. Make children form some positive personality qualities, such as lively, happy, straightforward, self-reliant, polite, good at communication, easy to leak cooperation, active thinking, etc.

4) Early Childhood Experiences: McQuinnon: Summary of the Influence of Early Childhood Experiences on Personality:

The early parent-child relationship sets the pattern of behavior that shapes all future behaviors. First of all, personality development is indeed affected by childhood experience, a happy childhood is conducive to the development of a healthy personality, and an unhappy childhood can also lead to the formation of a child's bad personality. However, there is no correspondence between the two.

Second, early experience cannot determine personality alone, it works with other factors to determine personality. Again, whether early childhood experiences have a permanent effect on personality varies from person to person.

5) Natural physical factors: physical factors such as ecological environment, climatic conditions, and space congestion will affect personality. In short, personality is an innate and acquired alloy, which is the result of the interaction between heredity and environment, heredity determines the possibility of personality development, and the environment determines the reality of personality development.