Love is gone, but there are children, is this how the following life is lived?

Updated on society 2024-04-15
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It was a mistake in the first place, wasn't it? Marriage is a serious matter, you treat it as child's play, and now you have tasted the bitter fruit, regret it, and are you ready to continue?

    It's useless to say anything now, decide how to solve it? My opinion is to first examine whether you love your wife or not, and I am not willing to exchange the future of your children for a relationship that you think is good, because based on your description, I think that once you divorce, the child must suffer the most, and besides, if you have a child, is she willing to raise your child? Can she like it to the point of accommodating you with children?

    It's all debatable, isn't it?

    If you got married on the spur of the moment, then don't divorce on impulse now, many things are not as simple as you imagined, talk to your wife well, maybe you will find his advantages, but if you are really unhappy, just leave, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whatever choice you make, you're going to complain.

    Because, this is your character, this is your life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is difficult to leave, and it is difficult to deviate, so do not change your position easily after considering the results and making a decision. Be a responsible person first, and then be a person who pursues love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A life is very long, and it is more difficult to live a lifetime in front of a person you don't love every day, so give up if you don't love her, find someone you love, and if the child has not yet been born, you can have an abortion.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm married.,If you understand with your wife's ability.,If a man has the idea of divorce, he won't be able to look down on his wife.,Even if his wife is a fairy.。。 Obviously, you are the kind of man who recruits you and will regret it if you take it. Because you didn't have a negative heart, you didn't accept reality.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is it too impulsive to be young? How so? You hurt two people who love you, and now you yourself have been hurt, since you are married to her, and she gave you a child, you have to be responsible for them, I have also heard that many people continue to be together because they have children, for the good of the children, but I don't want to see you cheat on your wife, because your wife no matter what she does, she has a bad temper or no job, but she may really love you and love you the most, or think clearly.

    Your classmate, in fact, you don't understand whether she really loves you at all, and she really doesn't care if you get married? It's better to think about it and communicate with your wife.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dude, cherish the people in front of you.

    It's also a good idea to find someone who loves you to spend your life with.

    Do you children want him to grow up in your shadows.

    Do you want him to have an inferiority complex in his heart and harbor a lifetime of hatred?

    Life was meant to be uneventful.

    Don't fantasize about any waves.

    Responsibility, man.

    After dating for 2 years, didn't you find it inappropriate at the time? And now.

    Dude: Wake up.

    Passing by, I'm not married yet.

    Lord forgive us, Amen.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should love your wife Now that you have children, then children are the bridge of your love For the girl you love? > forget her love for her and give it to your wife Loving someone doesn't have to be with her Unless you don't have a family You can be with her Ask if you have a family I dare say you give all your love to your wife You're happy Think about your children when you're okay I think you're very happy I think you're a father A great success for a man As a man you must have a sense of responsibility When you and your wife are happy remember to tell me Go to the style Move love to your wife

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You have to face the fact that you have changed without a common language, the common language that came from you when you got married, and the reason why you are where you are now is because your female classmates have come into your sight, this kind of immoral behavior should not happen to those of you who are highly educated, men are responsible for everything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    For most people, when they grow up, they have to get married and have children. But there are also some people who choose not to have children, and the lives of these people will be different, but they will not be too different from those who have children. ......Specifically, if there are no children, a person's life will be in three states: living a more leisurely life because he does not have the burden of raising children, having more time and energy to do what he likes, and feeling lonely because he does not have children in old age.

    1. People who do not have children will live a more leisurely life because they do not have the burden of raising children.

    Raising a child is a heavy burden, which can be very stressful. Therefore, when a person has a child, the state of life will be completely different. ......And for people who do not have children, since they do not have the burden of raising children, their lives will be easier and more free.

    Therefore, for younger people, the experience without children will feel very free and relaxing.

    When a person has a child, he has to devote a lot of time and energy to raising the child. This is not only a burden for them, but also has a great impact on their work and life, as well as their personal hobbies. ......Because of this, when a person does not have children, he can have a lot of time and energy to do what he loves, which is a very happy and happy experience.

    3. After old age, people who do not have children will feel lonely and lonely.

    Although no child will feel relaxed and happy because of the lack of stress when you are young, when you are old, the situation will be completely different. ......Specifically, for an elderly person without children, because there is no one around him, he will feel very lonely and lonely, and this feeling and state will have a great impact on his later life. ......This situation is the same for both men and women, and the impact is the same.

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