What should I do with a male friend I have a crush on him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hoho ,,, like him, you have to work hard! Don't leave regrets. , even if you can't think about it after being together, there are no regrets really! Support the clam Come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Get to know before you know the relationship. One step at a time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People are like this for a lifetime, for decades!

    Love vigorously once in this life, don't be afraid of failure, the important thing is not to have regrets, don't regret it!

    I like Lu Fang's "Love Hurts Once" very much

    Listen to it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm a boy, and I've had this relationship with girls, and I'm guessing you're talking about boys who are under 24 years old! Such a boy is in a period of ignorance, and he is not sure about his love Before the age of 20, he is easy to be impulsive and very clumsy about love, out of a passionate heart After the age of 25, he will have a deep understanding of love After all, society is realistic

    In fact, when the boy first met you, his curiosity and desire for love would force him to take the initiative to understand you, but after getting to know you, his heart would not be as hot and active as he was at the beginning

    This is a common problem of boys in their 20s But it doesn't matter You want to know if you are suitable to be together, as long as you are compatible with each other, you feel that there is a lot of hope for you After all, life is only after two people have determined their relationship This requires the two of you to work together Don't think too much, dare to love and dare to do! I hope you will be happy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm glad to come to this question. This girl, I'm guessing you're in a situation right now, there's a guy who likes you and you're chasing you, and you know he has a crush on you, but you probably don't have much feeling for him at the moment. So you can't agree to be his girlfriend right away, so you offer to start with him as friends.

    Actually, I think your proposal is very good, because you don't know him well now, and if you reject him directly, you may miss out on a good marriage, but it is not appropriate to agree to him immediately and be his girlfriend, because you don't know him well now, and you don't have any feelings for him. So you promise, the two of you start by being friends and get to know each other, and you're right to do this.

    Today's young people are generally not cautious about emotional issues. Two people will always be easily together and easily separated. But falling in love and getting married, these are not playing "playing at home" when I was a child, they are all major events that should be treated very seriously and cautiously.

    I think a couple of men and women, unless they have grown up together since childhood, are very familiar with each other, and know each other well, can quickly determine a romantic relationship. Generally, men and women who have not known each other for a long time must start by being friends before falling in love.

    The advantage of this is that friends are a very broad concept. Two very close people can also be friends, two people who just know each other, and the person who will say hello when they see them is also a friend. Friends are a kind of intermediate relationship, and as you get to know him better, you can decide whether to close the distance and become lovers, or gradually distance yourself and become strangers back to the same path.

    If you now offer to start as friends with him, his reaction will be to drift away or simply give up. That means that he is not sincere to you at all, he just wants to spend the shortest time and the smallest price to get you, and he just wants to "play" with you. If he is sincere with you, he will definitely be happy to accept your offer, and the two of you can easily start by being friends.

    Love based on friendship is also more reliable and strong.

    So I support you and the guys who have a crush on you start by being friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is a good process to start with a boy who has a good impression of him, and you can get to know each other better in the process.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's okay, sometimes it's not a kind of sincerity to take it slowly, and it's better to get along with friends slowly than the current fast-food love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think of course it's okay, since you have a good impression of him, if you start with friends, maybe in the process of getting along, the relationship between you will go further, and he will have another meaning for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Regarding this problem, it can be of course, because it is easier to shorten the distance between two people by starting with friends, deepen their understanding of each other in communication, and then determine whether they have met the right person. And get along as a friend, because the purpose of love is artificially weakened, and communication is more natural.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's okay to be friends with guys who have a crush on me. I think it should start with friends, slowly get to know each other, and slowly deepen the impression.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, in fact, the relationship should be like this, starting from the least friends, let each other understand each other step by step, so as to promote the relationship between two people, and the relationship will be more stable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, but the premise is that there is no boyfriend, and people who have a boyfriend should refuse, after all, they have a good impression of themselves, and being friends will affect the relationship with their boyfriend. If you don't have a boyfriend, you can try to be friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    OK. Because in this way, you can get to know each other better, and you can also see the good in each other. If it's really suitable, you can develop in the direction of lovers in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, because you know that the other party has a good impression of you, and you still want to be friends with him, which is giving the other party hope and is unfair to him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No, once you start as a friend, you can't develop into a couple, because you don't have feelings for him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, at first, it is easier to get to know each other as friends, and then confess to the man after the two parties are familiar with each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, because you can't be sure of your heart, you can also start with a friend who tries to do it, and maybe you can eventually develop into a lover.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is also possible because starting with a friend, both parties can have a simple understanding and then choose to become a further relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, because it allows you to get to know each other better, so it's good for the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is definitely a chance, and that lover didn't start with a friend. And it also depends on whether you give the other person a chance.

    If boys and you as friends don't pursue you, they generally treat you as a bosom friend, talk about everything, and discuss other girls in front of you.

    If you meet a guy who has a crush on you, he always sends you home, comes to play with you when he has nothing to do, and cares about you very much, that is to like you not running away.

    If you like him at this time, then waiting is his confession to you, and sometimes it's okay for a girl to be bold and proactive.

    Secondly, whether you are willing to develop further if you have a good impression of you can be seen from your daily interaction and the rhythm of life, which is also a further understanding of your future as a couple.

    If you find that it is not suitable in this way, you can also keep your distance appropriately, and it is okay to be a friend.

    Of course, what if a guy who has a crush on you suddenly confesses to you and you're not ready?

    You can solve it from these points:

    Clause. 1. Let the other party give you a little time to think about it, after all, it's not child's play. can also let him see that you are reserved, not a casual girl.

    Clause.

    3. Say what kind of boy you like, whether he can do it, and set conditions for him.

    Clause. Fourth, you can also tell him not to agree for the time being, see his performance before making a decision, and continue to slowly examine him.

    Clause.

    Fifth, becoming a lover is your starting from a friend, you can only really understand him and do a good job of investigating his personality, can you rest assured that you will give yourself to each other.

    In short, the chances of a good friend becoming a lover are very high, you hope that there will be a chance, if you don't want it, then don't give others hope, let others misunderstand your relationship, and keep your distance appropriately.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course, there is a chance to become lovers, as the so-called long-term love, after two people get along for a long time, it is easy to develop into lovers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, in addition to love at first sight, the relationship between lovers in free love must start through the friend stage. From caring for each other, sharing, and letting the good feelings heat up. When one day, each other feels inseparable from each other, and it will be sad without each other, then it will be the stage of lovers.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have the opportunity to become lovers, if you first contact as friends, the two of you will chat frequently, and as long as you contact each other every day, you may eventually become lovers.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course there is a chance, and there is a great opportunity.

    All lovers start with ordinary friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is a chance. Because after getting along for a long time, good feelings may be transformed into love, so there is a chance to become lovers.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello! This is possible! You can get to know each other first, and after a long time, you will see whether he is suitable for you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want to fall in love with someone, the best way is to start with him as a friend, first have more contact with him, and then slowly get to know each other, like this situation to become lovers, maybe the relationship between each other will be stronger and more reliable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Start with a boy who has a good impression of yourself and slowly cultivate a relationship with a friend, and there will definitely be a chance to become a lover. Since the boy has a crush on you, as long as you want to, I think everything will fall into place.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If a boy who has a good impression of himself says that he starts with a friend, he actually has a chance to become a lover, because some men will think about starting with a friend when they are first with a partner, and then look for it, and slowly become a lover.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, of course, there is a chance to become a lover, he himself has a good impression of you, and he is currently a friend, there is a good saying, the first month near the water, the opportunity is great.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's very likely that you'll be friends with a guy who has a good impression of you, because if you become friends, you can continue to get to know each other, enhance your relationship, and you may like each other, so you have the opportunity to become lovers.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think it's entirely possible, there are many lovers who start as friends, and then slowly feel it, and then become lovers.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you have a good impression of a boy that your friend likes, I think that even if you stop your thoughts, this is actually an immoral behavior, if you really have an idea, just explain it to him directly, hello about your question, 1. No matter how difficult the work you are facing, you keep calm, concentrate, and record all the things you need to accomplish.

    2. Divide the whole work into several parts that are completed independently, and each part is divided into multiple easy-to-solve steps, so that the work becomes organized and easy to carry out.

    3. Set up the first work goal for yourself every day, and divide it into sequence, and everything is carried out according to the plan.

    5. Write down the steps you've already completed and see what you still need to improve.

    6. Set a deadline for each individual step, and don't let yourself slow down the progress of the work, no matter what the circumstances.

    7. Don't just focus on work, forget to reflect often, know that if you just blindly work hard, you are likely to not even know that you have lost your direction.

    8. Many times, our time is wasted by our own "indecision", and you have to find a way to overcome this problem.

    For example, when you consider whether a plan is worth investing in, you can consider it from two aspects. One is to write down all the good and bad possibilities. You can add a little imagination, logic, and even illogical, in case you miss a lot.

    Analyze each possibility in detail, and if you think about it and it has only one benefit, then it's not worth the headache. The second is to calculate every possibility. Looking at similar experiences in the past, do you have any new ideas or ideas?

    Write down what exactly you hope to get out of this program, and then research how far each program can go for you? After the above differences, it is possible to select the probability of the best value. This is when you can turn the choice into a decision, forget about other possibilities, and focus your energy and time on that decision.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Restrain this kind of thinking, you and your friends can be friends, but the things you like have similar tastes, so it's normal, but your friend's wife can't be bullied.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    One of the guests inside said: "What is on the mind of the guest Zhou, why did he cry so much here?" Jin Youyu said:

    The old customers don't know that my uncle was not a businessman. Because he has been studying hard for decades, Xiucai has never done one, and when he sees the Gongyuan today, he doesn't feel sad. Just because this sentence said Zhou Jin's true heart, he ignored everyone and cried loudly again.

    Another guest said: "On this matter, we should only be blamed for the old guest; Since Zhou Xiang's father is a Sven, why did he bring him out to do such a thing? Jin Youyu said:

    It's only for the destitute people, and there is no museum to do it, so I have no choice but to go on this road. Another guest said: "Look at Uncle Ling's situation, after all, it is good to learn in the chest; Because no one knew him, he was aggrieved to this field.

    Jin Youyu said: "He has learned something, but he can't be lucky."

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