What if the man also asks the woman to have a house when the daughter gets married?

Nowadays, there seem to be more and more such phenomena in society, but most of them are women who ask the man to have a house, because this may be a guarantee for the woman, and for the woman's family, it may be more comfortable to hand over their daughter to the man's home.

In fact, it is understandable, after all, a woman marries into another family, she doesn't know what kind of family the other family is, so for her, this is the moment when he and she decide the fate of her life, and for her, this is also the most important choice in life, there is no one.

But I don't think the house can be used as a hard standard, for example, two young people who are in love, if the two of them really decide to hold each other's hands and go through the second half of their lives, the two of them really decide to grow old like this and live happily ever after.

If it is true that because there is no house, the two of them missed this marriage like this, and they separated like this, it is actually a loss and a harm for the couple or for the two families.

Because it should not be used as a standard to measure the happiness of two people at any time, but this is a material guarantee for two people, because in modern life, the reality is indeed very cruel, only love without bread is really not good, and there is still some truth in the saying that the material base determines the superstructure!

But in your case, the man must ask the woman to have a house, and I think this matter is more excessive.

First of all, it's not that this custom hasn't risen yet, but because if the daughter marries there, the daughter will definitely suffer.

If the man marries here, I think the woman can buy a house, which also makes some sense, but if it is a hard requirement, I don't think there is any need to give the daughter to this man with confidence, because this man's request is really unreliable.

Although it is said that now that men and women are equal, whether it is economic or life, independent women are more attractive to men, especially the kind of women who have a car, a house and a career, at least the man's parents will be more inclined to such a successful woman, because the job is stable, and now the house price is skyrocketing, if the woman also has a house, it will definitely be of great benefit to the future.

In this society, the idea of being the right person is still deep-rooted, buying a house has always been the responsibility of the man, and having a house can prove that this man can give his own woman a warm home and a sufficient sense of security, which I think can be shown from the house about half. If you really encounter it, the man's family also requires the woman's family to have a house, which is a bit unacceptable to hear, if the woman's family has enough family foundation, it is not impossible to buy a suite, so that his daughter can live a more stable life in the mother-in-law's house, and will not be so angry. After all, the beautiful love story of Cinderella marrying into a wealthy family can only exist in **.

I am a person who attaches more importance to people, the so-called people, is enough self-motivation, to me in every way, but also is exactly the boy I like, for the house and car these material conditions, I will think that this is two people can work together to get out, I will not give up my other half because of these, I don't like the other half to use these to ask me, because I don't like to be constrained by rules and regulations, let me live uncomfortable things I give up.

Therefore, if the man really asks the woman to buy a house, I really can't understand what this idea is, and I can't accept such a person as my family. Don't be a slave to the house, be a slave to money, life is still the most important thing to be happy. Having a lover of one's own and a home created together is the happiest thing in life.

Am I outdated? How to say it, so that the boy will feel that there is some material, why does he ask the woman to have a house, in fact, to be honest, girls nowadays are very self-reliant and even have plans not to get married, so they will take more care of their own house and car, probably all of their own efforts to save it. Why do girls have to have a house when they get married, because at least there is a home, and there is no family for girls to give you to live, if the girl loves you very much, she may not ask for anything, but at least she has to give it to each other, and you can live your own life when you have children in the future.

When it comes to getting married, we are already adults, and we have our own outlook on life and values, so we can ignore the rhetoric of our hometown for the time being. <>

Why is the woman required to have a house? Are you afraid that the woman's parents will have no place to live in their own house when they are old? Then you are wrong, now your parents also have their own retirement salaries and their own houses, so it is impossible to say that they have lived with you.

Or maybe you feel that you are unequal in your heart, and you feel that you already have a house, why don't girls have it, but girls are daughters-in-law for you, this is your responsibility, give her a home, give her a support, and have two homes, do you want to live separately? I analyzed it and still couldn't figure it out, but I knew that this boy didn't love you very much, or he cared a lot about money or his parents instigated him to ask, so I think it's better to forget it, girls get married to have a family to share together, and it's better to forget it if you don't have any awareness. In my hometown, I heard that the marriage man's house and the girl's delivery car, so I think it's fair, so it's too much for the man to ask for a house, so you still figure out what the boy thinks, don't mess around, this is a lifetime, and then I wish you happiness.

If the daughter gets married, the man asks the woman to have a house, it doesn't matter, let the man's son marry, and the child born is also the same as the woman's sex, call the woman's parents grandparents, and the house will be given to you immediately.

You must know that if a woman marries a man, why the woman's parents ask the man to buy a house, it is because the woman's parents want their women to live a better life. The daughter who was raised from childhood to adulthood suddenly got married one day, and gave birth to a child with the surname of a person who didn't know the son-in-law before, calling herself grandparents and grandmothers, and the daughter also lived with the person who called the son-in-law. Do you understand male compatriots?

Then do you still want to ask the woman for a house?

How many people didn't review the questions carefully? The title says that the man "also" asks the woman to have a room, don't miss the word. That is, first the woman asks the man to have a house, and then the man says that the woman also wants to have a house.

The deeper meaning of this is that the woman asks the man for his family background, and the man asks the woman to be the right person. Is there something wrong? No.

Now the society is accustomed to the woman making a request, but as soon as she hears the man's request, she immediately blows up, why is it so double standard? Because you're going to have babies? I think that children are the crystallization of a happy life, belonging to the father and more to the mother, rather than a tool for you to exchange the womb for money and status.

It's true that my father can't share the pain of pregnancy and childbirth, but he is also working hard for this family, working hard to make money, contracting all the housework at home, and taking care of me meticulously. After the marriage, he also handed me his salary card. It is love that has children, not payment to have children.

You ask the man to have some property, the man asks you to be the right person, I'm afraid there are not many things that can be called love, so you can simply negotiate this original sale, if it is suitable, you will be together, and if you can't talk, you will find someone else, why blame the other party?

Of course, if you don't ask for anything from him and he wants you to have a room, you can choose to either let him in or let him go.

First of all, I asked the man, will you give birth to the child? Do you do the housework? What is the child's family name with the woman? Do you spend the holidays mainly at your parents-in-law's house? If you can, whatever.

It would be good if the child was born with a woman's surname, and by the way, it would be better if the child was born as a boy