I said to my daughter, you must be in love, why did she cry?

Judging from the girl's reaction, there may be the following situations: one is that she may have someone she likes but dare not confess, and the grievances and depression in your heart are asked out;There is also a situation where you are indeed in a relationship, but the conversation does not go well.

Now that she has shown her emotions in front of you, you can take the opportunity to ask her about the specific situation, help her sort it out, and give some advice if she has reached the age of love; If you are still a student, don't blame indiscriminately, analyze the pros and cons, and pay attention to control your emotions, otherwise it will backfire.

Maybe the daughter is really in love, and she is particularly wronged in love and not happy.

Maybe I had a fight with my boyfriend.

At this time, you must have a good talk with your daughter, you must talk calmly, and I hope that your daughter can talk to you from the heart.

You have to do this. Do a good job of his ideological work and make things clear. He has encountered things emotionally, encountered twists and turns, and needs the help and understanding of others.

She may really be in love, and she was bullied or wronged, and you said that she was sad, so she cried!

Is your daughter not old enough to fall in love, and when you ask her about this, she cries, is there something unspeakable, she is scared, so when you ask about it, she cries.

Summary. First of all, for this question, if your daughter tells you that she is in love, and you are a mother, then you have to understand one thing, your son will fall in love when he is older, they will fall in love with other people, and form a family with other people.

My daughter told me that she was in love, what should my mother say?

First of all, for this question, if your daughter tells Boling that she is in love, and you are a mother, then you have to talk about one thing, and your son will fall in love when he is older, and they will fall in love with other people and form a family with other people. Hanno.

But the main thing is what direction you look at it, what kind of age your daughter is at the same time.

If your daughter is in the stage of shouting for a young man, then you had better not reject him directly, you have to keep telling him what love is and what he thinks about love.

Because at this stage, if you forcibly and simply tell him that he is not allowed to fall in love, must break up, and must study hard, then he must suspect that Li Tingsui will not be late to enter. He will have a rebellious mentality, you don't ask him to do something, he wants to do it. It's going to be worse.

You can tell him what love is and what your pursuit of love is like, so that he can pursue it well in terms of learning. Get the love he wants.

My daughter is 11 years old, and she said that the classmate she liked had a good grade, and she confessed to others, and the others agreed, saying that she could study well with any classmate, and she would try to get the same good grades as that classmate.

Although he said so, you still have to establish a correct view of love with him, it is okay to fall in love, and 11 years old is just the age when love is beginning to bloom, which is also very normal, but you have to understand, and instill in him a kind of love, you are not in love with someone to accompany Fucha now, someone is good to you, but you are in love with him forever after slippery.

Summary. Hello, first of all, don't lose your temper with your daughter, ask your daughter about her boyfriend, if your daughter hasn't gone to college, then you still have to guide your daughter to study, you can't take responsibility for many things when you're young, remember not to lose your temper with your daughter directly, forced breakup, it will be counterproductive!

My daughter told me that she was in love, what should my mother say?

Hello, first of all, don't lose your temper with your daughter, ask your daughter about her boyfriend, if your daughter hasn't gone to college, then you still have to guide your daughter to study, you can't take responsibility for many things when you're young, remember not to lose your temper with your daughter directly, forced breakup, it will be counterproductive!

My daughter is 20 years old and already working.

It's okay to fall in love at the age of 20, then you can ask your daughter to bring your boyfriend home You and your father look at the boy's situation, find out what the boy does, what the family situation is, and then make other plans, and the daughter tells you that you must want to get the blessing of your family!

How should he be guided now.

You said that your daughter is in love when she grows up, and her parents don't object, so can you tell your mother about the boy's situation? What do you do? Do you want to think it's convenient to have time to take home and show my mom and dad what kind of boy my daughter has found?

Summary. Hello, your mother can tell her that your mother has no objection to you falling in love, and you can communicate with your mother if you encounter any problems in the process of falling in love.

My daughter told me that she was in love, what should my mother say?

Hello This is a very good question, I need a little time to answer, please be patient.

Hello, your mother can tell her that your mother has no objection to you falling in love, and you can communicate with your mother if you encounter any problems in the process of falling in love.

Hello, you can say: what a match! Wishing you all a happy day!

But I don't want to say that, I'm still studying at the age of 18.

She has four years to study in vocational high school in Hefei.

What about people. Wait a minute.

You say, "Protect yourself!" How.

It's really worrying that your daughter is in love, you can talk to your daughter about it, let him talk about this boy, and you can slowly understand it, whether this boy is really moved by his daughter, or is he just teasing his daughter, and he doesn't have a heart. Or you can also ask your daughter to introduce the boy to you, you can take a look, but you don't make too much judgment, because now your daughter will not accept any of his shortcomings from you, you can only say what is good.

First of all, when the child is older, she has her own judgment, as a parent, don't interfere too much in her thoughts, if you say too much, it is easy to cause the child's rebellion and disgust. Secondly, if you are very worried, you can consider finding a time to tell her how to judge whether a boy loves her or not, tell her how to protect herself, and pass on her experience, so that she can easily accept and not reject.

I believe that the daughter's love is one of the things that many parents are most concerned about, after all, it may be related to the happiness of the child's life, but sometimes parents can not interfere too much in this kind of thing, otherwise it is easy to cause problems in the child's feelings, the most appropriate way is to communicate with the child in time, pay attention to some of her recent developments, but do not disturb the child.

As a parent, it's normal to worry about what happens to your daughter's boyfriend. You can talk to your daughter about the man's situation, such as work, family, education, etc., you can ask your daughter to bring the man to the house, see for herself, and ask for more information about the man. But as parents, we can only give construction from the side, and our daughter's ideas are the most important.

You can talk to your daughter, care more, and ask for ordinary chats. If she's happy, she'll basically share his things with you. Even being deceived is an experience.

It's also a kind of growth. Don't overcomplicate things and think too badly. And you yourself should know what kind of character your own daughter is.

My daughter has also grown up and will have her own ideas.

In fact, since your daughter is in love, I feel that you should know how to share some of your experiences in love with him, so that he knows how to protect himself and how to make it convenient. Only in this way can I think it is possible for your daughter to know what kind of attitude and what kind of way to face it in love.

First of all, you have to communicate with your child calmly, if your child is still very young, you should actively guide it, so as not to let the child become confused in love and make mistakes. If your child is older, don't interfere, she has her own ideas, her own life, and is slowly growing up, if the parents are overly intervening, it will be difficult for the child to choose.

I think you can still communicate with her about your daughter's falling in love. You can tell her about the image of your ideal son-in-law. You can also tell her about your outlook on love and values.

Your child is an adult, and she will definitely be receptive to your advice. And you have to tell her that if she is cheated, she must tell her parents, because her parents will not interfere too much, but they will protect her.

I don't think you should try to stop a girl from falling in love, girls have always been more emotional, and the more you stop it, the more likely it will be to strengthen her heart in love. So you should tell her that you want her to protect herself, tell her what she shouldn't do at her age, and tell her about the consequences of trying something new. Last but not least, you have to express your worries, you don't know if the boy is good to her, but you want your daughter not to be wronged.

Early love is harmful, girls especially have to make parents worry and anxious, except for beating and scolding but there is nothing to do, the child is becoming more and more uncontrolled, the more fierce the beating, the more rebellious it is.

1. Don't beat and scold her: The child is in adolescence, so when parents know that their daughter is in early love, they should calm their emotions and relax to communicate with their children.

2. Parents should tell their daughters: girls will have a good impression of boys at this time, this is the normal physiological reaction of every girl, not only you. At this time, the girl will accept the communication of her parents, will talk to her parents, and will also accept the suggestions of her parents.

3. Tell the child that she is still a student and is still young, and that early love will occupy study time, affect her learning attitude, and even directly affect the path she wants to choose in the future, telling her to give up early love and study seriously.

4. We should encourage her, forgive and encourage her to change her current early love, and encourage her in the future, so that the child can be confident in the future, accept the teachings of his parents, and return to the normal track.

Hello, in this case, don't educate, silently support and communicate, with a positive guidance mentality, it is more effective.

When the daughter is in love, she must make appropriate stops, not scolding, and solve it by dredging, otherwise the more she manages, the more she will be blocked, and the rebellion will be very strong.

In particular, five data have aroused strong social concern: more than half of the students who have sex are recognized as good students by teachers and students; Of the students who have sex, 1 3 are from key secondary schools or even prestigious schools; 100 When they first have sex, they don't use condoms; The fact that they have had sex is unknown to their parents and teachers100; They are dissatisfied with sex education at school and at home100.