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Make friends and keep your word" means to speak reliably and be trustworthy. It is from the Analects of Learning, which explains the principles of being a human being and interacting with others. It tells us the truth of how to behave in the world, that is, to associate with friends and keep word when we speak.
I once read such an article, which was selected from "Longmenzi Ning Dao Ji Duan Ganwei". It tells the story of the great general Wu Qi's treat. Once, Wu Qi invited a friend to his home for dinner, and at noon, his friend did not come, Wu Qi waited for his friends to eat together in order to keep his promise, so he did not eat lunch, and later, it was dark, and his friends still did not come, Wu Qi waited for his friends to eat together in order to keep his promises, but he did not eat dinner, just like that, he was hungry for a day, and waited until the next day when the servant at home brought his friend to eat with his friend.
After reading this story, I couldn't help but be moved by Wu Qi's spirit of abiding by his credit - what he promised to others, he must do it. Compared to him, I'm far behind.
Last time, when my good friend had a birthday, I said that I would wait for her at school and attend her birthday party, but it happened that my grandmother came to my house as a guest that day, and my cousin and cousin also came. Because I had lost track of playing with them, I forgot about my promise with my best friend. As a result, my good friend waited and waited at school, and finally ran to my house to find me, at the time, to be honest, I was embarrassed, but now in retrospect, compared to Wu Qi, it is really ashamed.
Wang Anshi said well: "The loyal do not decorate their deeds with slight glory, and the believers do not break their promises to follow the profit." "As a primary school student, it's important to be trustworthy.
Only by keeping promises can a person be respected by others, and only by keeping promises can he gain the trust of others, so in the future, I will definitely be a trustworthy child like Wu Qi.
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Communicate with friends and have a good reputationIt is the knowledge learned in the first volume of the second grade of elementary school. Pronunciation: yǔpéng you jiāo yán ér yǒu xìn.
Definition:
1. Socialize with friends who congratulate you, speak honestly and abide by credit.
2. You must be trustworthy when you speak, and you must be decisive when you do things. Socialize with friends, speak reliably, and have credit.
3. When making friends, you must keep promises, be honest, and make promises. If you can't talk, you don't have to make your friends think that you are a reliable person.
Detailed Interpretation:
When people interact with others, they must keep their promises. If a person has no credit, he is talented and knowledgeable, but he cannot be trusted by people and will eventually be useless. People interact with others, to keep promises, I think there is a brother and brother of the friend is good, so to be a friend, you should learn to be tolerant, a little little bit of don't care, everyone has shortcomings, Kala is creditworthy, and the promises made to others must be fulfilled.
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"Make friends and keep your word. - Confucius
Spring and Autumn Confucius, "Analects and Learning".
When you associate with friends, you should be honest and trustworthy. When making friends, keep your promises and keep your promises. Not being able to speak doesn't count.
Biography of the character
Noble origin. Confucius's ancestors were nobles in Liyi (present-day Xiayi County, Henan Province) in the Song Kingdom, and Shang Tang, the founding monarch of the Shang Dynasty. After the rebellion of the three prisons at the beginning of the Zhou Dynasty, in order to appease the nobles and descendants of the Shang Dynasty, the Duke of Zhou was ordered by King Cheng of Zhou to seal the brother of the King of Shang, Weiziqi, to establish the Song State in Shangqiu, and worship the Shang Dynasty.
After Wei Ziqi's death, his younger brother Wei Zhong, who was the fourteenth ancestor of Confucius, ascended the throne.
The sixth ancestor got Kong's family, which was for Kong's father. Kong Fujia was a doctor of the Song State, a former Grand Sima with a fief located in Liyi of the Song State, and was later killed by Dazai Huadu during the court civil strife. Confucius's father, Jiazi Mu Jin's father, Mu Jin's father and son, Qi father and son Kong Fangshu, Kong Fangshu's grandson Uncle Liang Su is Confucius's father, Uncle Liang Su fled to Lu State to settle in Shanyi (now Qufu City, Shandong Province) to avoid the war of the Song Kingdom, and his official position is the doctor of Shanyi.
Uncle Liang Su's wife, Shi, gave birth to nine daughters but no sons, and the concubine gave birth to his eldest son, Meng Pi. Meng Pi had a foot disease, and Shu Liang Su was very dissatisfied, so he asked Nayan's daughter to be a concubine.
The Yan family has three daughters, and only the youngest daughter, Yan Zheng, is willing to marry her uncle Liang Su. Yan Zheng was less than 20 years old at the time, and Shu Liang Su was 66 years old, the age difference was huge, and the two were incompatible for marriage.
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Friendship with friends and letters are selected from the Analects, Learning.
In the Analects, Learning and Learning, it is said: "Make friends with friends, and have faith in your word", which means that friends must keep promises, be honest, and re-promise. Those who believe, people also speak; Those who are honest will also make their promises.
The Mean points out: "Those who are sincere are self-contained." "Those who are sincere are also the way of heaven; Mencius believes that honesty is the law of nature, and the pursuit of honesty is the law of life.
Words must come true, and the word "integrity" is the key to success. The success of Shang Ying's transformation into a strong law began with the fact that he won the trust of the people. After Shang Ying formulated the policy of changing the law, he did not announce it immediately, but erected a three-zhang long log at the south gate of the national capital market, announcing that whoever moved the wood to the north gate would be rewarded with ten yi**.
Just when the people felt incredulous, the bounty was increased to fifty eridium, and finally someone moved the wood to the north gate. Shang Ying immediately fulfilled his promise, so as to announce to the people his determination and credibility to change the law. The reform decree was quickly and vigorously implemented, laying the foundation for the prosperity of the later Qin State.
Without credit, there is no place to stand; Without faith, there is no foundation for the world. Confucius believed that if a person does not speak of faithfulness, he "does not know what he can do", and it is impossible to determine whether this person can do things well. For the importance of integrity, "Xunzi" pointed out that "a gentleman is not good at sincerity", and the first thing for a gentleman to cultivate his thoughts and temperament and improve his moral cultivation is "sincerity".
Keep your word
Integrity can not only stay in words, but also pay more attention to practical actions, and start from everything. "Involving the world with one's body, don't believe it. This matter must not be attacked, and if one thing is discredited, nothing will not make people suspicious." Wang Huizu, an honest official in the Qing Dynasty, believed that as long as one thing is broken by others, others may be suspicious of everything.
Therefore, it is important to always remember your commitments and take the little things seriously.
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1.Make friends with friends, and have a letter from "Analects and Learning": "Zi Xia said: "Virtuous and virtuous are easy to color."
2.Parents can do their best.
3.The king of things can lead to his body.
4.Make friends and keep your word.
5.Although it is said that it has not been learned, it must be said to be learned by God early.
6.It means that when you associate with friends, you should speak honestly.
7.Original text: Zi Xia said: "Virtuous and virtuous.
8.Parents can do their best, and they can do their best.
9.Make friends and keep your word.
10.Although I have not learned, I will say that I have learned.
11.Translation: Zixia said: "A person can value virtue and not women."
12.Serve your parents and be able to do your best.
13.Serve the monarch and be able to give his life with his eyes open.
14.Socialize with friends, speak honestly and keep promises.
15.Such a person, even though he himself says that he has not studied, I must say that he has studied.
16.Note: Xianxian: The first word "Xian" is used as a verb, which means respect.
17.To be virtuous is to respect the sage.
18.Yi: There are two explanations.
19.One is the meaning of change, and the other is the meaning of contempt, which is to change the lustful heart for the sake of respecting the sage.
20.To its body: Zhi, which means "dedication" and "effort".
21.This means dedicating one's life to the monarch.
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"Make friends and keep your word.
This sentence comes from "The Analects of Learning": "Zi Xia said: "Virtuous and virtuous are easy to color; Parents can do their best. The king of things can lead to his body. "Make friends and keep your word. Although I have not learned, I will say that I have learned. ”
It means that when making friends, you must keep your promises, be honest, and re-promise. If you can't talk, you have to make your friends think that you are a reliable person.
This sentence comes from an allusion named Cai Lin. This person is very rigorous, honest and trustworthy. Once a friend put 1,000 taels **, at his house, there was neither a deposit nor an agreement, and the two of them only verbally agreed to take it after a month.
Who would have thought that less than a month later, this friend of his suddenly fell ill and died! At this time, Cai Lin did not take this wealth for herself, but returned it to her friend's son.
However, looking at real life, many people can't do this simple, simple, and simple truth that even primary school students should know, at least they haven't done it well!
I am afraid that most of the reasons are because of the word profit. What is a friend if you put your interests first in your dealings with friends? At least not true friends!
When Lenin was a child, he went to his aunt's house with his brothers and sisters to play, he accidentally broke the vase, but he did not admit that he broke it, and when he got home, he told his mother about it, and his mother said that he should apologize to his aunt, and Lenin wrote a letter to his aunt and apologized, and we should also be like Lenin, be honest and trustworthy good children.
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