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Don't overthink it and go with the flow.
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Sense of humor. If not, hurry up and start cultivating.
This is the best way to communicate.
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Start by paying attention to politeness, and then, go close.
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Pay attention to the scale, the distance, the way you speak.
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Mostly casual. Don't mention that it has a lot to do with gender.
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Keep your distance and just grasp it.
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Be bold and don't be embarrassed.
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How to socialize with classmates of the opposite sex:1. Both parties must trust each other and respect each other. This requires students of the opposite sex in the process of dating, so that the sincere friendship between male and female students can be guaranteed.
2. It is necessary to distinguish the boundary between friendship and love in thought and behavior. Because people always have feelings. There is no insurmountable gulf between friendship and love. Beyond a certain limit, you may not be able to tell which is friendship and which is love.
Friendships between male and female students should be open, confined to study, work and meaningful recreational activities, and should be acceptable to the majority.
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1. First of all, keep an appreciative eye for friends of the opposite sex.
If you want to maintain a friendship between people of the opposite sex, then we should first confirm a mindset, that is, when the other person is dating, the first thing is to make it clear that the other person is a person first, and then treat the other person as a member of the opposite sex, so that you will not be inhibited when you are dating. The reason why you are friends with the other person must be because the other person has a unique personal charm, not just because the other person is of the opposite sex. 2. Don't turn every relationship into a romantic relationship.
Don't treat all occasions as the pursuit of a romantic relationship, all you need to develop is a relationship for a while, and there is no need to develop all the opposite sex you know into boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. This is a mistake that many boys make, and at the same time maintain an ambiguous relationship with many girls, thinking that in this way they can get everyone's friendship. However, such ideas often backfire.
It is necessary to keep a certain distance from friends of the opposite sex, and you need to constantly remind yourself of this in your interactions with the opposite sex.
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How to grasp the scale of getting along with friends of the opposite sex?
Article **2 First, get along with friends of the opposite sex, taboo self-inflicted.
Women are sensual, they naturally like the praise of others, and they also like to have some unrealistic fantasies, which are simply "dreaming".
When a person of the opposite sex praises himself, he may not be able to help but take their praise as love for himself, in fact, self-affection often hurts others and hurts himself, we need to learn to keep the good of others in mind, and just repay the favor.
The biggest taboo is that when we hear someone's praise, our first reaction is that others love us, and this kind of self-inflicted sentimentality will make us more embarrassed when we get along with others, and even cause many unnecessary misunderstandings.
Article **3 Second, get along with the opposite sex, taboo to rely too much.
Women are not as strong as men in their hearts, so we used to rely on our parents when we were children, and when we grew up, we had friends and lovers, and we looked for them when we had problems and found them when we had grievances.
But do you know that if this kind of dependence is applied to friends of the opposite sex, it is easy to go wrong and make your friendship deteriorate. Excessive dependence will make you very possessive of your friends of the opposite sex, and you will feel uncomfortable and even angry and jealous when he starts to contact other women.
In fact, possessiveness is not so bad to use on parents and lovers, but once it is used on friends of the opposite sex, you and he are two independent people, and there is no overly intimate relationship, what reason do you have to interfere in other people's lives and feelings?
With friends of the opposite sex, we also need to pay attention to the boundaries of communication, learn to bless each other, respect others from the heart, and just the right friendship will make you a relationship of mutual help.
Article **6 Third, taboo and one's lover to hide a relationship with a friend of the opposite sex.
There is no such thing as an impermeable wall, and when you do something, you don't expect it to go undetected. If a person is open-minded, he will not hide the relationship of his friends of the opposite sex, and he is also obliged to let his boyfriend know each other, and let his lover know everything to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
Some people are afraid that their boyfriend will be jealous, so they choose to hide it and not tell it, but this will cause unnecessary misunderstandings, if you have nothing to do with him, why lay such a "landmine" to affect your relationship with your lover?
Article**7 Everyone will have their own friends of the opposite sex, whether male or female, the more open and generous your heart is, the more your friendship with the other party will stand the test of time.
In fact, friends of the opposite sex are a good lubricant in life, and when you are single, it is indeed beautiful for two people to appreciate each other as friends and gradually rise to love.
However, for lovers or married people, the scale of friends of the opposite sex must be grasped, otherwise it will cause unnecessary trouble, and even make your life have many twists and turns.
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01 Make yourself cheerful An optimistic and cheerful person is more likely to make good friends. Maybe everyone has friends of the same sex who have a good time, but friends of the opposite sex are also indispensable, and doing things with the opposite sex can make things more efficient. Therefore, if you want to get along well with the opposite sex, you must make yourself cheerful.
02 Keep a certain distanceMaybe there are many examples of this in our lives, starting with getting along in the name of good friends, and over time maybe one of them falls in love with the other, and then will make some ambiguous moves. At this time, you must be calm, and if you don't have the idea to be with it, keep a good distance between the two of you.
03 When you don't get along with the opposite sex, especially many boys are very good at taking care of people, which will make girls feel very warm, don't be amorous at this time, maybe people are very good at taking care of people, and they do this to everyone. However, if you are self-inflicted, you may also be sad because of disappointment.
04 Don't rely too much on one person at any time, because no matter who it is, no one can always be with you, so you have to learn to be independent, and you can't let friends of the opposite sex do everything for you, so that the friendship between two people can last longer.
05 Be honest Everyone likes honest people and doesn't like people who are full of lies. When getting along with friends of the opposite sex, be honest with each other and don't deliberately deceive each other, so as not to bring unnecessary harm to the other party. At the same time, being honest with each other can bring the distance between two people.
06 Enthusiastic and generous, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex, don't be too stingy when getting along, be warm and generous, not too cold. Because being too cold when getting along with each other may make the other party feel that you don't like to get along with him very much, and the distance between the two people will become farther and farther away over time.
07 Dare to say no, there will inevitably be embarrassing times when getting along with the opposite sex, when the other party's request is unacceptable, you should be brave to say no, don't hold it in your heart. At the same time, if you meet someone of the opposite sex you don't like, you should stay away silently, and don't just become friends with someone you don't like.
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1.First, set your sights on friends of the opposite sex.
If you want to maintain friendship between people of the opposite sex, then you must first confirm a thought, that is, when the other party is dating, you must first make it clear that the other person is a person, and secondly, you must treat the other person as a member of the opposite sex, so that you will not be shy in the relationship. The reason why you make friends with each other must be because they have a unique personal charm, not just because they are of the opposite sex. 2.
Don't turn every relationship into a romantic relationship.
Don't treat all occasions as a pursuit of a relationship. All you need to develop is a relationship. There is no need to develop a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with everyone you know of the opposite sex.
This is a mistake that many boys make. At the same time, he maintained an ambiguous relationship with many girls, thinking that he could get everyone's friendship. However, such ideas often backfire.
It is necessary to keep a certain distance from friends of the opposite sex, and you also need to constantly remind yourself of this in your interactions with the opposite sex.
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