It doesn t matter what you say and how you do it

The most important thing is to live happily, whether you can be happy together is the most important thing, and other things like what and that don't matter about your personal problems can be changed.

Yes, it will be said, not necessarily done. Therefore, it is not important to be reasonable, but it is important to do it according to the theory.

Let yourself have practical actions in life, it doesn't matter what you say, only what you do is important, do it in a down-to-earth manner, and let your life get enough perfection.

In the process of communication between people, there is no need for rhetoric, the important thing is practical action, say too much rhetoric, it is better to do a real thing, sincerely face friends, in order to get along happily, the so-called is to see the hearts of the people for a long time, do is always more important than talking.

That's basically the case.

Sometimes it really doesn't matter what you say.

The important thing is to see how the other person does it.

This is the only way to see the specific attitude.

Doing is more important than talking, because everything needs to be implemented, and saying is just a way, doing it will have results and hope for success.

That's it, I didn't think like this in my mind, in fact, the action is the most important, don't feel that you have suffered to what extent, or say any nice words, the main thing is that we have this action, which means that we really want to do it.

The most important thing for a person is to find their interests and hobbies, and working hard is fine.

That's right, what you do in real interactions is more important than what you say, everyone will say it, because speaking is effortless, but not everyone can do it, only being able to do it is the most important thing.

This sentence says, there is nothing wrong, no matter how good it is, it is not as good as doing it, even if you say something, don't take him too seriously, but he may not be able to do it, it will be important if he does it, in order to prove what kind of person he is.

That's what people say, well, often say this truth, it's better to say how much is better than to do it, well, it's better to do it than to do it, so the important thing is to look at the actual action.

It is true that people who can only say that they can't do it in life generally can't achieve great things, so it is more important to make achievements to see how you do it.

What you do is what matters, and what you say doesn't matter at all, because what you say may be regarded as nothing.

There are a lot of things that you don't think are important, but when you do them, you feel important.

Sometimes it really doesn't matter what he says, it depends on his actual actions.

What you said is very contradictory, at least in real life, there should be no such contradictory things.

It means not to be a dwarf in words, but to be a giant in action, no matter how good you speak, it is useless if you can't do it.

Sometimes, speaking is also important, that is, there is importance, everything is important.

Yes, it's better to say that it's better to do one thing than to be beautiful.

If you say it's not important, it means that it's not important, why isn't it important?

Never listen to what a person says to you, the most important thing is what has been done for you, all kinds of things we will experience, all kinds of people we will meet, but the end result is determined by your actions.

I want to start a business", "I want to make a lot of money", "I want to be a free person", we often hear these remarks from others, and sometimes we even have the urge to boast about Haikou, but it seems that we have never calculated whether we can do it.

Everyone's life time is limited, we can't expect to meet all our "wants" in this limited time, but we must make our lives worthwhile and make ourselves happy enough.

Everyone says it's difficult, but who looks easy? We only need to take our desires into measure, and there will be a different kind of wonderful

How you want to live a burning life, not by words, but by action; The more you talk, the more you don't act.

So what you want, start "doing" it right now

If it's for the two oranges and the personal feelings, it means that this girl who keeps saying that you like her is reminding you, I hope you will show something in action, because everyone will say something good, but only when Yuanchang has something in action, the girl can feel your liking for him.

Read the same book Yang Xuexue].

2016-03-15: Influence

It is always more meaningful to apply effectively than to discuss it vigorously.

Think: Doing is more important than talking!

Everyone understands this truth, but there are very few people who really do it, because most of them tend to say more and do less.

For example, holding a meeting seems to be a form that is done every day, and there is a lot of content in the meeting every day, but the effect and landing after the meeting are no longer tracked, so most of the meetings are invalid meetings.

For example, when talking to employees, when subordinates have problems, we will talk bitterly with each other, and the other party's attitude is repeatedly guaranteed at the moment of conversation, and also make a promise with you, swearing to let you see a different him, but in the end, after the conversation, you no longer track the results of the conversation, as if this loss conversation is only suitable for a while, this employee looks, his boss is no longer concerned, why do I try to perform? As a result, the conversation was a three-minute affair.

For example, when someone asks us or asks for something, we promise that we will help them and give them the answer to solve the problem within the specified time, but when the time comes, we ignore the matter and make others no longer trust. This is called writing empty checks, and what you end up losing is your own integrity.

In reality, we often become giants in language and dwarfs in action, making ourselves fall into the habit of procrastination again and again. Feast fiber.

So, the only secret to making yourself a master of action is: do it now! Do it now! Do it now! Don't let trivial things stay overnight, don't let procrastination occupy our brains, and don't let random blank checks become our habits.

The purpose of the meeting is to make the work go more smoothly, so it is very important to make decisions in the meeting.

The purpose of talking to subordinates is to make the team more cohesive, and follow-up and attention are very important in the later stage.

Promising others is to be able to better help others, and it is very important to give others results.

Again, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is what you do.

Human communication relies on language or writing, and listening to others in our work and life is no longer an ordinary daily life, but can you really understand what others say?

Language is the expression of thoughts, but the same language is said in different occasions and to different objects with different meanings, and we must learn to correctly interpret the real intention behind the language expressed by others. Theoretically, every word that a person utters at a feast has a purpose.

For example, between lovers, when a girl sees a dress she likes, she will say to the boy that the dress is so beautiful. Her implication may be that I want it too, and I want you to buy it for me. If the boy can't understand this, it's just that the Youxiang faction echoed that it was really beautiful, what would be the result.

For example, when shopping, in the bargaining, the seller said, I am lower than the cost price of Haohe, and I have lost money. What she means by saying this is to give you the illusion that you are taking advantage of a big bargain at this price, but she is actually urging you to place an order decisively. As for whether it is a loss or not, only he knows.

For example, on the road, we often meet people with leaflets in their hands, and we will open a new store, a physiotherapy worth a few hundred yuan or something else for free. If you don't have the need for it yourself, but just think it's free, you can do it once, and it doesn't cost you anything anyway. As everyone knows, the purpose of the merchant's promotion is not to give you free, but to develop you to become his customer, if you don't recognize this, it is easy to be tricked step by step.

So the altruism you see is actually a return to self-interest after all.

So, it doesn't matter what people say in their communication, what matters is why they say it. When communicating with others, develop this habit of thinking, and speak and act more rationally and wisely.

The days are like a running account.

What's important? What doesn't matter? How to say it clearly.

The inner voice is important.

Outside voices don't matter.

Thinking about it quietly, it is not like this at all.

Children are important.

Family is important.

The words of the superior are important.

Friends are important.

It is important to have a drink.

Express delivery is important.

Only, only oneself is not important.

In other words, you are not living according to the voice of your heart.

The so-called doting is nothing more than living for others.

Dodging is one-way and has only one main character.

And in life, everyone is the protagonist.

You see, excellent TV series and movies, the protagonist and supporting role, the protagonist just appears for a long time, you remake the same ** and add a long time to the supporting role, and you become the protagonist.

The protagonist is good, but, the supporting role is not secondary.

People will be swept into the drama of life, swimming like a school of fish, migrating like a group of fighting birds and Sun Sui, don't distinguish between important and unimportant, it is important to go with the flow.

Technology makes individuals strong.

You're not strong enough, the robot you're controlling is powerful.

A mobile phone is a machine, and it is a divination machine.

One person is enough to challenge a world.

At this point, you have a selector, select the red key, important! It doesn't matter if you choose the green button!

I wrote an article before, and it was commented on by many people, some of whom agreed, some opposed, and even criticized of various kinds, but in fact, I still felt a little uncomfortable, not that I couldn't accept criticism from others!

In fact, the writing career is the same as our life, in life there are many people who will criticize you openly and secretly, even if you try to do it unsatisfactorily.

It will not satisfy everyone with hunger, you have to cherish the criticism in front of you, people often say that knowing mistakes can improve a lot, yes, as long as someone points out mistakes for you, you can do better.

In fact, there will still be many people who are secretly talking about you, and this kind of person can't be said to be a villain, just a casual mouth.

In fact, it doesn't matter, what do others say about you, what kind of person are you? What's more, being good and being a good person are two different things!

People who don't talk about people behind their backs are not necessarily good people, and people who are good people generally don't talk about people. If you don't talk about people after you do it, others naturally don't have to say about you!

Growing up so big, I've also been in contact with some idle people.,Those who never talk about people behind their backs will still have a lot of people talking about her in the back.,In this way, no matter what you do, someone will find out what's wrong with you!

It's better to live comfortably, I'm happy to buy a thousand dollars, no matter what others say about you, those who believe in you naturally know who you are, and those who don't believe in you don't necessarily know that he can understand it with your sincerity!

May everyone who works hard to live can be treated gently by life!

I often hear people say,"Oops, I've worked so hard, why haven't I succeeded? "I have given so much, there is no credit and hard work......"I'm sorry, no matter how much you pay, if there is no result, then you don't do it.

Because, efforts that do not consider the results are either not intentional, or the methods are wrong, or simply the actions are contrary to the goals.

Whatever goal you set, you need to be results-oriented so you know if you're on your way there.

Achieving the ideal = starting point, path, and end point.

For example, studying, what to learn? To what extent do you learn? What is the standard?

If the goal is achieved as a whole of 10 points, what is it now? What does it look like to improve by 1 point? How to improve this 1 point?

This is a relatively complete and systematic process of effort. If you only know the boring learning, but never think about how to improve the problem of going to the first, then the effect can be known by the jujube cherry attack.

Another example is courtship. Some people say that courtship is completely dependent on fate and is destined. In fact, a good marriage can be designed.

First of all, imagine what kind of person do you want to be? (Of course, you can't be too whimsical.) It is better to find someone with the same conditions and like-minded interests as you.

Many people now do not say that the conditions are not good enough, but that he does not have the opportunity to meet the right person, and the circle is small and closed. Which circle do you think would match your goals? What kind of effort do you need to make to reach this circle?

If you have already entered such a circle, what kind of efforts do you need to make to attract him? Every step of the way, you use a goal to guide yourself, even if the last step fails, but all the previous results are achieved, you improve yourself through this effort, don't you? Besides, how do you know you're going to fail?

Another example is work. There are many friends who are as diligent and busy as little bees every day. But the leader is like being blind, without praise or encouragement, and sometimes even scolds.

Is the leader really blind? No, it won't. If this happens, it means that the employee is not doing the job right.

Every job can be done better, not only to keep the process running, but also to improve efficiency and worry for leaders. When you are working, ask yourself a few more whys, find the hidden result behind this work task, and achieve it. Such employees have a future.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. People from all walks of life who can make a little name are people who have goals and requirements for themselves.

What is the goal? To what extent are you now? Where is the daily progress in**, where is the lack there? How far does it go if you raise it a little bit? How can I improve? Let's work on it with awareness.