I m ugly, but I m good, is it a consequence or a cause?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's definitely because I'm ugly, but I'm very good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This should be the result, although my appearance is not particularly beautiful, not a beautiful woman in the eyes of everyone, but my other abilities are very good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, generally speaking, appearance is indeed very important, but now the ability of society is more important, if you can have sufficient ability, then you can make up for the lack of appearance.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't remember the result, it's not the reason, but it just expresses the fact that you're excellent.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The meaning of this sentence is that the cause is also a kind of effect, because the reason is that I am not good-looking, but the result is that I am excellent, so they are a dialectical relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Beauty and ugliness have nothing to do with your excellence, excellence is the result of your own efforts, beauty and ugliness cannot represent and determine whether a person is excellent, it all depends on your own efforts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is just a statement, not a result or a cause.

    And what you said about ugliness and excellence is just an ordinary reference.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this sentence is both the result and the reason, because I am ugly, but the result is that I am excellent.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm ugly, but I'm good, and that's probably the reason.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you're ugly, but you're good, then I don't think there's any causality between him, it's up to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Many people have such questions, obviously some people are already good-looking, but they are still not satisfied, but they still have to go for plastic surgery, why is this?

    Environmental reasons are surrounded by "white bones", there are a lot of beautiful women, and they have a sense of crisis, and they need to rely on some means to improve their appearance.

    Personality reasons: Low self-esteem. This is innate, some people are confident, some people have low self-esteem, even if others seem to have good conditions, but they are not confident, they can only find ways to make themselves confident.

    Psychological reasons There is a term called "body image disorder" in medicine, which is roughly that you always suspect that your appearance is defective and can be improved, so you keep plastic surgery, which is a kind of mental illness.

    What is Body Image Disorder?

    Generally speaking, it is a word that everyone has heard of "phantom ugliness": excessive attention to a very small or non-existent defect in the heart, feeling that you are ugly and unbearable, and feeling very depressed and uneasy in your heart.

    I believe that there will be the kind of people around you who are obviously less than 100 pounds and say, "I am fat, no one wants it!" Girl, don't sneer at this kind of girl, think she's so thin and shouting**, isn't it pretending?

    Not really! Compared with boys, girls are easy to be dissatisfied with their figure, even if she is thin enough, she will still "have her eyes with haha mirror function" when she looks in the mirror, so she will see that she is outrageously fat.

    Many of these people around us have magnified their shortcomings and cannot see their own advantages, so they have been in a state of fear and inferiority, dare not face up to others, and hide when communicating with others. So how far are you from "phantom ugliness"? Take a quiz and see if you have any of the following common symptoms?

    Phantom Scandal Test.

    Spending a lot of time looking in the mirror, or deliberately hiding a certain part of the body;

    Always taking the energy to make sure that you have hidden a physical defect;

    repeatedly measuring or touching areas that you perceive to be defective;

    Because I can't stop paying attention to my defects, my work, school, and life are affected;

    I don't want to go to a public place or a crowded place, otherwise I will fall into a terrible feeling that everyone else is looking at me;

    Constantly undergoing plastic surgery to try to make your appearance conform to expectations;

    Even if the whole thing is very successful, I am still not satisfied.

    What should I do if I have "phantom syndrome"?

    If you are experiencing severe anxiety about your appearance, do not think about changing it through plastic surgery, since it is a disease, you should seek a psychologist for diagnosis in time.

    If your friend has such symptoms, please don't think that they are strange or crazy, but consider whether they are suffering from this disease, and also help them understand their true selves and encourage them to do it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand. There are more ugly people, how old are you?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not that you look ugly, maybe you don't want to sit with boys.

    Every time I take the bus, even if there are a lot of empty seats, if there is a man next to me, I don't want to take it.

    I don't know why, maybe men give me a sense of danger.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's just a lack of self-confidence.

    Looks are natural and can't be changed.

    But achievements are acquired, and you should have had some trouble in your career recently, so you have an inferiority complex.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, you're actually beautiful, you can live beautifully, maybe that girl isn't used to sitting with strangers? Everyone has their own shining points.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People should be more confident no matter what the situation, self-confidence can create miracles, you don't believe in yourself, what will others think of you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As the saying goes, the beauty of birds is in their feathers, and the beauty of people is in their hearts. Enrich yourself to boost your self-confidence.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Either plastic surgery, or improve the inside, or continue to be depressed, there is no other way.

    This kind of boring question, what is there to ask.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is nothing wrong with being ugly, if you are born ugly, accept it. Now it's a lot uglier.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    She's probably just shy, some girls, and if there are boys on both sides of the bus, they'll be embarrassed or something.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to believe that that is the vision of most people, that is recognized by so many people, and your own ideas can only represent yourself, so who do you say is closer to the objective reality?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Without self-confidence, low self-esteem will feel that there is nothing good about it, everyone has advantages, we must be good at discovering.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Realizing that the advantages of youth and being able to take advantage of them are only less than 10 years, and life is only a few decades, why not work hard for other decades?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I want to see me, too, and my mom thinks I'm ugly, and I think, go for plastic surgery or I'll jump off the building.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You are not confident because you are ugly, you have to change this state to live yourself, if you can't change it, you can end yourself You are too tired and tired.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What to say! I may be worse than you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because you are a lot of ugly people.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Be confident, some women just don't like to sit next to men, I think I'm right. Have you seen Lei Zhengfu, are you ugly?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's not so important whether a man is handsome or not, focus on your career, and when you have money, are you afraid that there will be no women?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There are five types of people in the world, especially in such a gorgeous and colorful world, understand your thoughts, because you are not the only one who thinks so, this represents the thoughts of most ordinary people, you have not done anything wrong, we ordinary people have not done anything wrong, admit your ordinary, live a dazzling moment, ordinary people can also have an extraordinary life.

    Change your body type:Fitness, exercise, and keeping yourself healthy and well-proportioned are the best ways for you to invest in yourself.

    The simplest example of slag removal is: your 200 pounds and your 150 pounds are definitely two completely different temperaments. When you lose weight, you will naturally become very energetic, and the whole person will be relaxed and confident.

    Changing the body shape of Minnai, not only is Qiao Yuchun fitness, maintaining a good figure; It is also the posture of sitting, standing, and body shape, all of which should be paid attention to. You want to make people look energetic, not you stand there and be baggy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If a man is too ugly, he doesn't have to think about his appearance at all, a person always has advantages, and giving full play to his advantages can show your male charm, and your charm can completely cover up your appearance, and it will be appreciated by many people.

    If you are a woman who is ugly and you don't mind too much, you might as well make your skin smooth and beautiful, let yourself learn to dress up, these will cover up your ugliness, and at the same time let yourself learn more knowledge, use knowledge to conquer others, if you mind, you can also change your appearance in a modern way.

    If a person has a career and achievements, he will exude the brilliance of kindness, so he doesn't have to be obsessed with his appearance, smart people will put their time on enriching themselves, making themselves more capable, and having capital will also have self-confidence, ** will it be ugly?

    If you find that you are ugly, you need to find out the reason for your ugliness, whether it is because the eyes are single eyelids, or because of thinning hair, unsightly teeth, etc., and if you find the reason, you can make up for it in a targeted manner.

    It's not terrible for people to be ugly, it's terrible to lose even self-confidence, at least you have to be a sunny person, be kind to others, help others, and have a good character, so that it is beautiful in the eyes of others.

    The world, all kinds of appearances, don't feel sorry for yourself in the face of your ugliness, accept it calmly, ignore it, give yourself a healthy body and a good mood, and let yourself live a long and healthy life is the most important.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not ugly, it's recommended that you go to the barber shop and change your style, that is, change your hairstyle, a hairstyle with a mental point, it will add a lot of points to you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This question should be said to be a matter of opinion, if the person who is in love will say that it is not ugly, it is good, if you meet a picky person, you will feel bad,. But the most important thing is to be self-confident, feel that you are the best, everyone has their own strengths, play their strengths, avoid their shortcomings, and make yourself better and better. I don't know if I'm satisfied.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Virtuous people are not ugly, virtuous people are liked by everyone, if there is no virtue, being handsome is just a fool's temporary favorite.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think I'm that ugly?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You're not ugly at all. Don't worry too much about your looks. Human appearance is innate, and the most important thing for you now is to improve your self-cultivation. You are still young, you need to learn more skills so that you can achieve something.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's okay, men have to be confident.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Let's not talk about ugliness or not, turnip and cabbage, each has its own love, haven't you heard?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Won't be sunny.

    Now girls love it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Pi Chou said that you are ugly, are you blind?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I don't think I'm that ugly?

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    What a handsome little handsome guy. Big eyes, double eyelids, melon seed face, fluttering hair, and full lips are blessed at first glance. This handsome guy must not have any good temper and people to contact, and adults and children can get along very well. Believe me, I must be right.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Answer hello, you are not ugly, we have to learn to appreciate ourselves, be confident, don't care about other people's eyes, everyone has their own shining point, ask me lewd My classmates always say that I am a lewd guy.

    What a beautiful facial feature?

    The eyebrows are also beautiful [color].

    You can usually study how to get rid of acne.

    Do you have sensitive skin?

    Question, but I don't understand it at all, shouldn't it be, I should usually stay up late to get acne, before I went to bed early for a few months, and the acne scars disappeared, but some pores were enlarged, and I replied that it is recommended that you stay up less late.

    That's pretty good.

    Then you should pay more attention to sleep.

    Question: Can large pores be completely aesthetically paught** [scratching your head].

    I'm not sure about that.

    However, there are also skin care products that reduce the appearance of pores.

    For big brands, it will be a bit expensive.

    I think the more you look at it, the more handsome you are, your facial features are really superior.

    Thank you for asking a question [awsl].

    You can follow a beauty blogger: Luo Wangyu.

    The products he recommends and the skincare methods are very good.

    I hope your ** can get better and better, more and more handsome.

    The facial features are important, but they are also very important.

    I want to ask if you are a ** person.

    If you are satisfied, can you give a thumbs up [than heart]?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's handsome! Loyal and kind, assertive, and very good in financial luck! It's impossible to spend as much money as you want, and you still have more money than your peers.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The sun is handsome, and the face is kind.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In today's era of rapid development of technology in all aspects, some people are naturally beautiful, and some people use various ways to make themselves more beautiful, but why is that person always not you?

    There is a question on Zhihu: "What is the experience of being ugly?" The answer to this question often makes me feel empathetic to this ugly person. Every time I post a carefully puffed ** in the circle of friends, there are always people who say that they don't look like me.

    Growing up, boys approached me for the sole purpose of being close to my beautiful friends. I was accosted on the street and the like, and I was insulated from it. Thinking of this, the corners of my eyes can't help but slip down.

    For most people, ugliness is simply a failure to enjoy some advantages in society. But for some people, ugliness can affect the future of the whole person.

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