When do you fall in love only based on each other s looks and family background?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After in-depth understanding of the other party's character and personality, I feel that they are very compatible with myself, and at this time, only the other party's appearance and family background are considered.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you are young, you may pay more attention to your looks and family background when you fall in love. Young people are more impulsive in love and love face. But the more I grow up, the more I think about it, and falling in love may not only be about appearance and family background.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When my family is very poor and I am very beautiful, I will look at the other party's appearance and family background, I think I can fly on the branches and become a phoenix, what a good opportunity, I can let him spoil me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In response to this question, my personal opinion is: when I will fall in love, I only look at the other party's appearance and family background, first of all, when I am good enough, delicate enough, and the family is also very rich, I will only look at the other party's appearance and family background, because I want a good match.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At no time will I only look at the other person's appearance and family background, my criteria for choosing a mate is that he must have the same personality as me and have common interests and hobbies!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After she has become an older leftover girl, she may lower her standards for the other party's requirements, only her appearance and family background are her concerns, and the others can be ignored.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When there is no affection for the other person. Because there is no relationship with the other party, and they have reached the age of mixing, they only look at each other's appearance and family background.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that when you are in a relationship, both family background and appearance are important.

    First of all, in terms of family background, after all, there is a saying called the right family. Often in real life, it is rare for a rich person to marry one or marry a poor person. Because when you get married, you will have a very different view and your thoughts on the economy.

    After all, a person who grew up in a wealthy family may be more generous in spending money. People who grew up in poorer families are more concerned about money and think that every amount of money should be spent on their place. So it's easy for you to disagree on that.

    The second is appearance, after all, in this society, there are still more people who look at faces. It is said that an interesting soul is more important than a good-looking skin, but I would say that if you don't have a good-looking skin, then no one will want to know about your interesting soul. If you look ordinary, then you can go find someone more ordinary to be with.

    If you have a high appearance, then you have high requirements for the other half's appearance, which is also a normal thing.

    Therefore, family background and appearance are very important, and these are some necessary conditions in the process of love. After all, the other party is going to fall in love with you, and you have to face him every day, if these two conditions are very different, it is difficult to go on all the time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Comparatively speaking, family background is very important, because marriage and love are not the same, marriage is a matter of two families, the man's family atmosphere is very superior, it will make the girl who marries in feel very happy, and the woman's family is superior, it will make the man feel happy, this is mutual, and appearance is not important, because appearance can not be eaten.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's because of the family. A person's family background can affect many things, and now this society is very realistic, and material life is also very important. In terms of appearance, I think that if a person has his own unique personality charm, he can ignore his appearance.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When falling in love, family background should be more important. A person's family environment determines how the person speaks and behaves. If this person is very good in all other aspects and has an ordinary appearance, it is acceptable, if he is very handsome, but his character is not very good, and his family background is not good, then he will definitely not agree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My personal opinion is that family background is more important, because the quality of family background determines the financial situation of two people in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course I care, getting married is a very realistic thing. You can find those in the city but not the countryside, and you can find only children without siblings, especially those with younger brothers in the countryside. If the man has a good family background and a high level of education, the junior college girl will be looked down upon.

    It's okay to look good, how many beauties want to marry into a wealthy family, and it's ugly to say that most of them are okay when they are young ladies. So just by looks, you don't have to worry about falling in love, but it's not easy to get married and join a good family. Nowadays, people are very realistic, and no one wants to find a burden for themselves.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think both are important. If two people have the same three views and living environment, they will get along very well. When you first get acquainted, you will pay attention to your appearance, and in the future, when you get along for a long time, the family environment will be more important.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Family background is more important, a good family can cultivate a capable person, and after the family is good, it can also support the relationship to go further.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When falling in love, family background and appearance are all external factors, I think the most important two are not important, the most important thing is to see whether that person is suitable for you? Do the two like each other?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For me, I don't think family background and appearance are actually very important, what I value most is this person, whether I like it or not, and whether this person likes me or not, I think this is very important for the stability of our relationship in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, the family background is better than the appearance, some people can not be handsome, but they must be good to the woman, which requires a material foundation, and a good family background can solve many problems.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first thing these two people look at when they fall in love should be whether they have feelings for this person, and their appearance is the first, this is just when you first met, of course, this is only the first step, and when you wait until the future, of course, the family background is more important, and two people who fall in love with each other will involve two families.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you fall in love, your appearance is the first impression, and if it's ugly, I don't believe you have the idea of continuing, and then it's about considering your family background, and a good family will score yourself and make the other party feel good, so these two points are very important.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think most people will choose a family is very important, appearance is just external, not necessary, but family background is very important. Because it cannot be copied.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Family background is more important, because there is a lot of pressure in this society now, and you need to find someone with better family conditions so that you can live a good life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think the other party's love for you is very sincere, which is the most important thing, only people who truly love you will care about you, and it is not very important to tolerate your family background and appearance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course you have to think about it.

    One of the most important factors is the subject's family background, and many people reconsider their choices because of the subject's family background. The reason why this is the case is because the gap in family conditions will affect the love between each other, the opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of the two parties, and the poor family conditions of the other party will have a great impact on the relationship.

    First of all, if the gap between the family status of the two parties in love is too large, it will directly affect the outcome of the relationship. The most ideal results can be obtained by the same or similar conditions in all aspects, and the communication and feelings between two people are more likely to reach a harmonious state. If the gap between the two parties' family status is too large, the impact on this relationship is very ......There are very big differences between two people in terms of living habits, thinking and concepts, and it will be difficult to form a common language this time, and it is difficult to maintain such a relationship for a long time, so I will reconsider and make choices after encountering this situation.

    Secondly, the opposition of the other party's family will directly lead to the breakup of both parties in love. For two people who are in love, if the families of both parties are strongly supportive, then the feelings between each other will be more deeply disturbed, and the relationship between the two people will continue to develop. ......But if the other party's family objects to the relationship, it will have a very big impact on the relationship between the two parties, and many lovers break up because of this.

    Therefore, the problem of family background has a great impact on love, and both parties in love must carefully investigate each other's family situation in advance to avoid breaking up due to family reasons after falling in love.

    Finally, if the partner's family conditions are too poor, it will have a great impact on the relationship. In real life, it is not uncommon for two people to fall in love and find that each other's family status is very poor, so they choose to break up. ......Although this kind of thing feels a little impersonal, the reality is that way.

    In the process of falling in love, if the other party's family is superior, then the chance of success in the relationship will be greater. On the other hand, if the other party's family conditions are too poor, then both parties are likely to break up because of this. ......This situation shows that the problem of family background has a very direct impact on love, so when falling in love, we must pay attention to this factor, and make the most beneficial choice for ourselves according to the actual situation.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When two young people fall in love, the first thing is to look at each other. This is a very important factor, if the man is short, fat and ugly, then you have a lot of money in the family and a good job, and the girl will still reject you at the first time, because you don't like it. At this time, the girl also had a shot in her heart that if all the men in the world disappeared, and only this short frustrated man remained, then there was no way!

    He had to accept it, but now he was just an option.

    This phenomenon is also true in front of boys. For men, it is definitely not okay to let yourself face a person you don't like all day long! A man would rather find a girl who doesn't have a job but he likes than find an ugly daughter-in-law who he doesn't like but has money.

    Because, this is not a matter of money, the key is that you will suffer a loss in your heart! Doesn't he deserve to find a beautiful girl?

    When you're in a relationship, your looks determine whether you can be shortlisted or not. This is a prerequisite! Whether it's a boy or a girl.

    It's all the same, you can choose anyone, but the first thing is to look at people. How can I take a fancy to it? The appearance must pass, the appearance must be good-looking, the height must be up to standard, the occupation must be stable, and the deposit must be ......But no matter how you calculate it, the economic foundation is the most important factor that disturbs training, but if you don't look good, you can't look at it, then there is no way!

    It can be seen that in the engagement link, the parents of both sides consider the most deeply the economic strength of the family. Whoever has money, whose family is of good character, and who has a good influence in the local area, will definitely have a good chance of winning. Sometimes, girls are not only interested in their looks, but also about money.

    Therefore, as long as you can see it, having money often determines the attitude of falling in love.

    Craftsmanship is also important. With craftsmanship, boys have a foundation for life. The girl is also rushing to love him.

    Because the gold content of a boy is not only reflected in his work and his career, but sometimes, the talent of boys will also form a strong attraction and attract beautiful girls to come. For example, people will engage in decoration, leading a group of people to decorate water and electricity and decorate workshops all day long. Obviously, such a guy has a very fast financial accumulation rate, which is incomparable to other industries, and such people also have a strong attraction.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In life, we always find an interesting phenomenon, many couples or couples will have some kind of similarity in appearance and personality characteristics, we call this phenomenon "husband and wife".Scientifically, this phenomenon is called "selective matching".

    Is looks important in a relationship?

    For this topic, I want to say that it is still quite important, but it is not the most important, as far as I am concerned, the importance of appearance in Aifan Yuqing can account for 30%, and for different people, the importance of appearance may be different. But since the discussion of appearance exists, it must be one of the factors affecting love, otherwise the term "judging people by their appearance" would not exist.

    We have to admit that being good-looking in the initial stages of dating does have advantages that cannot be ignored.

    Regardless of the blind date**, it can provide a statistically highly consistent data: regardless of gender, when people open the personal page of their favorite target, they will carefully read the text introduction first. The vast majority of people are straight to the point and anxious to see each other's **, and go straight to the point without disguise.

    In fact, despite the fact that people always say that they like the opposite sex who is "honest", "kind" or "good", in almost every survey of mate tendencies, physical appearance can still be at the top of the rankings. Whether people admit that they value each other's physical qualities or not, it is actually difficult for them to leave behind the opposite sex that is truly pleasing to the eye.

    Much of this is the result of evolution.

    Because external beauty, including appearance, figure, and skin type, is the aspect that people can directly observe and initially evaluate in the face of potential objects. It is difficult for us to evaluate whether a person is smart or not by looking at it, but we can see that the individual is "pleasing to the eye" at a simple glance.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When you are in love, you rarely think about the other half of your family, especially girls, when you fall in love, the other party's cup of hot water, the other party's concern when you are sick and cold, hold up an umbrella for you when it rains, and sit thousands of miles away to see you during the holidays, these will make the girl move a mess, and decide to win or not to marry. **Will you consider whether the other party has a mine at home?

    Tie the knot. However, after getting married, when you face the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, especially when you have the crystallization of love - after having children, you need money in everything. Unless the girl herself is free to go to work and earn rice after marriage, and support the family together, to alleviate the economic pressure of relying on the man alone, or the other party's family background must be considered before marriage.

    Because this is the reality, everyone wants to live a decent life and live comfortably, at least without worrying about the family economy.

    Whether it is the pursuit of love or material things, plan for the second half of your life.

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