I want to see my boyfriend, but he doesn t want to, is it because I m fat, and I m afraid his collea

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, it's not disgusting I'm also a little chubby You don't think about it in this way Since he's your boyfriend If he dislikes you for being fat, will he continue to associate with you Actually, you should think on the bright side I'm also a little chubby I used to have the same idea as you Later, once my boyfriend told me Actually, fat and thin are at most just an appearance After losing weight, it's good for girls At least you can dress up beautifully In summary, it's also for our own good If you continue to drill the horns, then it's only a quarrel I don't think there's a need for that Since it is already a very difficult long-distance relationship, then you should learn to tolerate Of course, it is not infinitely tolerant, you also have to bring up something unpleasant, and then everyone spreads out to talk, so that he can also understand your feelings, and long-distance relationships are originally less likely to meet, and the more contradictions, the greater the chance of breaking up, so it is best to avoid quarrels, many things to be mad or say ugly things before thinking about it, so as not to regret it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's a little fatter. I think he was afraid to see it at the same time.

    Awkward to each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, it's a bit tough.

    1 meter 7 160 pounds, just lose a third.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't let a man think you're willful.

    But you must also be sensible in love, if the other party just wants you to pay for him, and he doesn't really like you. Better a finger off than always aching.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm also 1.7 meters, I'm only 86 pounds, too thin--

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    。。Actually, it doesn't matter if you're fat or thin, health is the greatest wealth, I'm 175cm 110 pounds, let's just change the two, even men, I still want to be fat, but I can't eat fat, depressed, I still like a little chubby girl, I think**, as long as it's not too disproportionate, your boyfriend may have something, I think you'd better communicate with him, so guessing is not a way, right?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're the same as me, I'm 1.72 meters and weigh 160, but I don't dare to find a partner

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why do you think so? Maybe he is afraid that you will be tired from the journey, or maybe he wants to come and see you in person, 0 must have faith in you, in him, in your relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Eat senna! Pull it directly into Yagami!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What's wrong with fat! Could it be that a skeleton like Chen Luyu is good-looking, and if you really love you, you won't care too much about these.

    If you are not very fat, don't be too good**, and the loss will outweigh the losses if you lose your body.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel that your boyfriend dislikes that he is fat and has always been reluctant to take you to meet his friends, then what should you do? You might as well ask your heart if the relationship is worth holding on, and if you love him too much, then you can do it.

    If you know that the reason why your boyfriend is reluctant to take you to meet your friends is because he dislikes you for being fat, then you can solve the problem from the source, directly change your weight, develop a good diet every day, and exercise your body, don't think that this way is bad, in fact, when a girl's figure becomes better, then she not only changes in appearance, but also has a new change in her heart, you will become more confident, and you can win everyone when you walk on the streetEnvyGaze, so down, you change your weight and also be able to win your boyfriend'sRespectWhy don't you try to change it!

    If you love him too much, then you might as well communicate with him directly, ask him why he is doing this, if he has a bad attitude, or directly show that he just minds that you are fat, so he is not willing to take you to meet friends, then boyfriendAttitudeIt's very important, I dislike you when I pat and procrastinate, then you have to consider whether this relationship is worth going, after all, you have always been disliked, this relationship is already very hurtful, not to mention that he has not taken care of you at allFeelingsWhen you find that you communicate with him directly, his language and attitude are the answer, then you will see that you are reluctant to let go of this relationship.

    For this reason, when your boyfriend dislikes you for being fat and has been reluctant to take you to meet his friends, this behavior has hurt the relationship itself, if you still love him very much and can't let go of him, you might as well change your weight, or you communicate directly with him to see how his attitude is, if the attitude is not good, then you can also leave the relationship with all your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He dislikes you like this, let's break up, if you really love someone, you won't have this kind of performance, you'd better work hard to change yourself now, go ** without affecting your health, and then live happily with a new look.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I should break up with my boyfriend, it's obvious that this is a sign that I don't love you, and I want to slowly slim down and get better. After all, if you are obese, you don't look good in clothes, and it's not good for your health.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to lose weight appropriately, adjust your diet, communicate with him well, and ask the other party why he is fat, and he is reluctant to take you to meet his friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Either you choose **, or you choose to give up on this boyfriend because your boyfriend doesn't really like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, since you have a boyfriend, then I don't think you are really ugly and fat, just what you think. I don't know what your height and weight are, if you really feel that you need to be fat, then pay attention to science**.

    First of all, the scientific ** is diet plus exercise, about diet. If you want to control it, it's about 1,300 kcal per day. You can buy a special kitchen scale, you weigh out the food you eat every day, and then calculate how many calories there are to know, basically you can drink a cup of soy milk for breakfast, a 50-gram small bun plus a 50-gram fruit, you should also pay attention to the fruit, some sugar is very high, and the calories are also very high.

    As for noon, you can eat 50 grams of rice, plus 50 grams of meat, plus some vegetables, and you can eat a little more, after all, vegetables are not that high in calories. If you want to eat dinner, you should not eat meat, but you should also control the amount of rice and vegetables.

    In addition, snacks are not eaten at all, and then cakes with high sugar content, bread and biscuits are all quit, and no drinks can be eaten.

    Now that your diet is under control, the next step is to exercise. Have at least an hour of exercise every day, choose what suits you, jogging or brisk walking. Remember to stick to it, but be fast, about 5-6 kilometers per hour.

    Keep at it and in 3-4 months you will find that you will be in good shape.

    **Come down, you should pay more attention to skin care at ordinary times, don't stay up late is not good for your body, right** is not good, buy a set of skin care products suitable for yourself, and usually do proper skin care.

    Cut a suitable hairstyle and match a set of clothes that suit you, and you will be the most beautiful. Remember to have faith.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can only solve your own affairs, you can be fat, you can strengthen all kinds of physical exercises, and at the same time ask for the opinions of colleagues and friends, they will not look down on you if they are willing to communicate with you, come on, a better future belongs to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you think like this, you will definitely not be able to do it, which means that you are very inferior in your heart, but I think you should still make yourself confident and do something you want to do, which is the best choice for yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Have faith in yourself. Confident people are more beautiful. Don't knock yourself down before anyone else says anything. When you see a friend, you can see you generously.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't be so inferior, believe your boyfriend's vision, there's nothing to see them!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I should have faith in myself. Don't always be too inferior.

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