Your boyfriend has been afraid to disclose your existence to his family, what do you think?

Updated on society 2024-04-08
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe our relationship hasn't developed to that extent, maybe he hasn't figured out what to do with our feelings.

    When your relationship with your lover continues to develop, it is already a trend to reveal to your parents to know each other, and even meet each other's parents. When it reaches this point, it is actually almost time to talk about marriage.

    My boyfriend didn't dare to disclose my existence to his family, maybe because he felt that the relationship was not to that point. When the boy informs the family of the existence of the girl, the boy should already feel that the relationship between the two people can go further and should be able to get closer to marriage.

    Before revealing the existence of the girl, I think the relationship between the two people still needs to be cultivated. I don't know why he feels the way he does, maybe it's not long enough, maybe it's because I still have problems with my personality and temperament, but I'm sure we'll get to this point.

    I don't think it's a big deal that he doesn't reveal my existence to the family, because I don't make it public.

    Love is a matter of two people, and there is no need to have too much involvement with the family before talking about marriage. In fact, whether it is love or marriage, the main body of this is two people in love.

    Whether his family knows or doesn't know, I don't think it makes much sense, unless the two of us really talk long enough that I really want to get married. In other times, I don't think it matters whether you tell or not.

    In this day and age, I don't think too much about it, marriages can be broken and ended at any time, let alone a relationship? It's okay not to tell your family, and if two people break up one day, you don't need to explain it to your family.

    We live in an era of love and solipsism, and whether two people can enter into marriage needs to find answers in their relationships.

    I hope our relationship will be happy, but if it is not enough to be happy, I can also turn away calmly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it were me, I would be very uncomfortable, because my boyfriend would not dare to admit my existence, or he would not have regarded you as his girlfriend at all.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I will have low self-esteem, and I also feel that he doesn't love me so much, and even his family won't tell him that he is in love, and he is still sneaky when he falls in love, and I think I will break up with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'd mind because it would make me feel like he didn't treat me like a married partner, didn't really intend to let me into his life, just for fun.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If my boyfriend is afraid to tell his family that I am in a relationship with him, I will think that in his heart, he is not a suitable person to marry.

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