If you re not satisfied with life? Reasons for dissatisfaction with life

Is life or work not satisfied? If it is life, you may need to walk around, see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and visit various scenic spots; If it's a job, do you dare to quit naked? Naked resignation is to give up the mountain pressure brought to you by your current job and choose the job you like again; Maybe after doing this, you are still not satisfied, then you may have to change your perspective to fit in with society!

After all, it is basically impossible for individuals to change society, and only when you adapt to society will you live a chic life!

If you're not happy with your life, stop and take some time to think about why, what is not going well, what needs to be changed, find ways and help set goals and work hard to achieve them.

Adjust your mentality, many people will be dissatisfied with life, but few people will give up life, if they are not satisfied with their current life, they can go to another way of life.

There are several dimensions of dissatisfaction with life, the first is dissatisfaction with one's own life (that is, dissatisfaction with one's own control, including oneself, as well as with family and others, the example will be discussed next), the second is dissatisfaction with other people's own behavior (very common, such as how you look a little uncomfortable, well, just kidding), and the third is that others are dissatisfied with their own behavior (such as borrowing money and not paying it back, etc., if someone praises you every day for looking good, you should be satisfied with him).

The above angle division can be talked about for several days and nights.

It's easier said to grasp the essence of the original.

That is, our lives are constantly increasing with the passage of time, and the demands of many people are constantly increasing. (I get this point of view from my own point of view, if I look at it from other people's point of view, it is that others are becoming more and more unable to meet my needs, but we can't control others).

The reason is very simple and can be understood like this:

For parents, when we were young, we were reluctant to go to school for a while, and our parents were dissatisfied, and finally we went to school, and we were not satisfied with our grades, ignoring the change that we were unwilling to go to school before and now we are willing to go to school. There is also going to a good middle school (higher requirements for grades), being admitted to a good high school, being admitted to a university and making demands on us who are in love, and so on, and everything that follows, will always ignore the previous requirements we met them, resulting in dissatisfaction.

My own words are a little different, one is that if I always put forward new requirements for life according to my parents, my progress is still okay, and I may not be very happy. Second, it met the previous requirements and did not have much expectation for the future. OK, most of our dissatisfaction is dissatisfaction with things other than ourselves, and we are rarely dissatisfied with ourselves.

This is the reason why some people are always dissatisfied: something goes wrong with someone else, and they succeed themselves, and the credit for their hard work is their own.

Find a question that everyone will have, and let's talk about exams. 100 points out of 100, you scored 100 points, you feel very satisfied with this, who scored 100 points? That's right, it's you, so you think you're happy with yourself.

So, maybe once, you got a 59 points, who got a 59 points? It's the same you, but do you think you can only score 59? The paper is too difficult, the question is too biased, the teacher has not talked about it, and other reasons for dissatisfaction will come out.

Transform your thinking, don't attribute the reason why you don't meet the requirements to others, and slowly, you will become better and better. (The example is extreme, relative).

How do you resolve dissatisfaction? Train yourself to keep meeting your requirements.

However, is the above solution feasible? I think that if it is not reliable, there must be elements of dissatisfaction in our lives, and there is no need to deliberately remove the factors of dissatisfaction. Change is only made when dissatisfaction affects our lives.

For the life of a normal person, it is good to complain about it and follow the original life requirements, and life is still wonderful.