How much of a relationship partner s family situation can account for in a relationship

My situation is just the opposite of yours, my current girlfriend is pregnant and imprisoned at home by her parents, her parents don't know that she is pregnant, I can't help it, man, I can understand your feelings, I think this kind of thing still lies with you, the solution to this problem is very simple, if your girlfriend is worth it for you to give everything, then you insist, otherwise or depressed you better give up on her! It's best to fix this kind of thing quickly, the longer it goes, the more pain it will be, and your girlfriend will doubt your feelings for her because of your melancholy. Our youth is only so many years, so we must cherish the person we love, and at the same time don't delay each other, love her and marry her bravely, your parents do not agree with your relationship, as long as you insist, you will succeed, you have to think clearly about whether you will live with your girlfriend or with your parents in the future?

Parents are the only ones who will not leave you, unless they are old, you can slowly filial to them when you get married, your parents will be moved by your actions, and the loss of your lover will be lost forever, so you have to think clearly and insist on loving her. Come on.

I'm dizzy, the woman's family conditions are poor, what does it have to do with the two of you getting married! Unless your parents are very snobbish and want to build a relationship with your family, it is necessary to get married, and besides, you are a man, not to mention that a man is not a breadwinner, at least !! Besides, the woman is not without a job, so she won't let you raise it.

If you feel like you're happiest with her, stick with it. Of course, you have to do a good job on your mother's side, or you will continue to have problems in the future. Let your mother accept her, her home is her home, she is her, and let your mother understand this.

Happiness is for a lifetime, true love must be grasped, but you must pay attention to the way. Let your mother accept it, after all, it is the parents.

Love him, then stick to your ideas and use your abilities to change the status quo.

After all, you're marrying his people, not his family.

It depends on how the girl is, and it depends on whether you really love each other, some of your parents' words are audible and some are unpleasant, because after all, the person who has lived with you all your life is her, not your parents, let alone her parents.

I'm sorry. I don't want to fall in love, I'm looking for the hundreds of words I just wrote, can you tell me. It's important to me.

If both parties are aiming to get married, there is nothing wrong with saying it in advance, but it can be embarrassing if you deliberately try to understand it.

It is best to make it clear to the other party when you first fall in love, so that the words are more sincere and practical, and avoid some problems that may arise in the future, which is much better than talking about it for a while.

It depends on the personality, but my personal tendency is to say it well in the early stage, so as not to regenerate branches later. Be honest with each other, maybe it's better later.

Needless to say, because, love is a matter of two people.

I think it's better to make it clear, otherwise it will affect the relationship and waste time when the time comes, and it will not be good!

That's not necessary, it depends on how each other develops, and whether there is no need to say it.

Yes, it's better to make it clear at the beginning. In this way, it will be clear from the beginning, and you will not have a burden when you get along, and you can get along calmly. My family situation is there, if you want us to continue to develop, if you don't want to, then let's not continue, while there is no deep relationship at the beginning, so it is good to get together and disperse, if you get along for a long time and find that the family conditions are not suitable, then it will be more tangled, and the trade-offs are too hurtful, and it is not very good.

So I think if you want to fall in love well, it's better not to hide your family conditions and all aspects of things first, and it's the best decision to put them out and make it clear.

Personally, I think it should be made clear, so as not to have more rights and wrongs in the future, some people in the current society are so dislike the poor and love the rich, and it is better to explain their respective family situations clearly when they first fall in love.

Not necessarily. However, when you are relatively mature, it is still necessary to explain the situation at home.

Does it affect your relationship? Falling in love depends on your parents' money.

Since you are in love, treat each other with sincerity and don't hide it from each other

I think it's better to make it clear, so as to save trouble in the future.

It's better to make it clear at the beginning, so that you can make it clear at the beginning, and you won't have a burden when you get along, and you can get along calmly. Your family situation is there, the other party wants you to continue to develop, if the other party is unwilling, then you don't want to continue, take advantage of the beginning of the deep feelings, just get together and disperse, if you get along for a long time and find that the family conditions are not suitable, then it will be more tangled, the trade-offs are too hurtful, it is not very good, so you think that if you want to fall in love, you should first put your family conditions and all aspects of things not to hide, put it out clearly is the best decision, In this way, the two of you don't have anything to think about when you fall in love together, as long as the two of you help each other and support each other, and can give everything for each other, such a marriage can be happy for a lifetime.

If it is true love, it will not care about the distance between time and space.

When the heart is together, love will be together.

You can keep each other warm!

The fate depends on the heavens, and the share depends on oneself.

If you manage your love with your heart, you will definitely get what you want.

Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place.

There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love. There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts...

Take it easy, keep an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think, you still have to face it, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself... Believe in yourself and you can do it ...

Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?

Now that you've figured it out, let's see if my opinion is of any value to you.

I am good at rational analysis of emotional issues, because no matter how romantic the relationship is, it is inseparable from real life. I analyze your problem from two aspects:

1. If you don't care if you can get financial assistance from his parents, it's simple, you just need to be neither humble nor arrogant, treat it indifferently, the request to meet should only be mentioned once, that is out of courtesy, if it has been rejected, never mention it again, and when they figure it out that they want to see your villain's family, then they have to mention it at least twice before they can barely see each other, this is called maintaining their own personality independence, economic independence (even if it is very poor) to have dignity, and dignity can be respected.

Second, if you still want to get the financial support of his parents, in fact, it does not mean that you can achieve your goal as soon as possible by meeting early, it may be counterproductive, and his parents will be suspicious of the relationship between you and their son, which is human nature, because they don't understand you. Maybe you think that you will understand when you meet, but in fact, you can understand you or not, but the "understanding" of rushing to meet makes people feel that the purpose is too strong, and indifference to meeting may also be conducive to the long-term relationship in the future.

I would like to send you a few words: be a little restless, look to the future, want to indulge, and do not reach it quickly.

Hey, mine also has to pay off the debt, it's hard, but my parents don't object to us procrastinating. I don't think they care about my debts. We all come from poor backgrounds.

Whether you can stand the test depends on yourself, although love sometimes has a lot to worry about, but I think as long as two people love each other, they will have the courage to overcome all kinds of difficulties!

Hello, I was lucky enough to see the issue. When falling in love, it should be at the beginning of the stage to talk about each other's family situation and love experience. Because the common definition of love is now as:

Case: I must want to hide something, don't say the most basic, you have to be careful, don't be deceived.

In this case, just go with the flow, and when you want to say it, just say it generously.

It is not staged, you can leave it aside for the time being, and wait for the other party to ask, and then talk about it.

Love is a way that comes from the heart.

Copying emotions refers to having a deep affection for someone or something.

The process by which this affection lasts is also the process of love. The conclusion is that sex and love are two different things, sex is the normal life activity of human reproduction, and some people have no love between them, but they can have sex, which proves that sex and love are actually two different things, and some people have love between people but do not necessarily have sex.

90% for the irrational and 10% for the sane.

When both parties already know each other well and are considering further development (such as cohabitation), you can ask, after all, there are many aspects that two people need to consider when they are together, and not only love is enough.

Casually, colleagues and friends can also ask when chatting.

There is love to have sex, and love with sex is perfect. So sex, although it is not the whole of love, occupies a very important place. There is also no clear ratio, it depends on the needs of the individual.