How can I give less affection in love? No points.,I m sorry.。。

You are stupid, he said that you will believe it if you swear it, you don't know how to see the facts, since you have heard of such an impossible thing forever, will you still have extravagance, it is really stupid, it is ridiculous to watch, since a person has hurt you forever, you should have a long memory, why still have no brains, you should look at a person well, this is reality after all, do you think that forever will be forever, this kind of thing will not work, you are still a good woman, you want to find someone who truly loves you, there will always be, The interaction between two people takes time to accumulate, and you will slowly see that feeling a person's love is mainly a matter of choosing people, you are not wrong, you are really good! But to tell you a word, if you fall in love with someone, you can fall deeply, but you can't extricate yourself! It's probably a little bit better that way.

I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life.

It is still necessary to understand that there are two sides to everything.

No matter how beautiful things are, you have to think of the worst results, including love!

If you really like someone, can you keep it?

You can only say that the people you are looking for are not good, you are not wrong, but they are wrong, and there will always be someone who will stay with you for the rest of your life.

If that person is not as good to you as before, you can mention the breakup first, so be it, at least you will find me, and I will give you points.

In fact, in love, don't pay 100% of your feelings, no one knows that the other party will choose yourself or someone else in the next second, and set aside a part of the love to love yourself, the difficulty of feelings is difficult to say, if the other party is worthy of their own love, you must take it seriously, provided that the other party also takes their own seriously, and loves more than themselves, in this way, your feelings are not in vain. Don't easily trust a man's promises to himself, but see if his actions are confirmed. Be sensible about your feelings and don't let yourself get caught up in the sweet words of the other party.

Feelings are a matter of two people, if only one party pays, and the other party does not know how to pay, then this relationship will not last long.

If you don't know how to give, you should try to learn from people who understand feelings and are willing to pay.

The only way to try not to give too much in a relationship is to control your emotions rationally, however, once you fall in love, you will lose your mind. Even if you forcibly control your behavior with reason, your emotional dedication will not be reduced, but may be more intense because of the suppression of your loving behavior. In this way, do you still want to use reason to control your feelings?

In the world of feelings, everyone longs for their own unique and strong deep love, and in the same way, they will involuntarily give their love to each other to the maximum. I hope that the love between two people can transcend time and overcome distance to blossom and bear fruit. Therefore, in a well-developed relationship, no one will think about how to not give too much.

I don't know what happened to you, but it's clear that you're hurt. This question will be asked to prove that you are very committed to your relationship and that you love each other very much. What made you question and fear the relationship?

You know that the deeper you love, the more likely you are to hurt, so you want to give a little less to reduce the potential harm you may receive in the future. It's a pity that it's an impossible task, unless you don't love it anymore.

Nothing in the world is eternal, including feelings. It's not that they don't love, it's just that with the passage of time, personal growth, changes in the environment, and different experiences, the way two people love each other will also change. However, as long as there is no third party and no principled issues, both parties who love each other will tolerate each other and understand each other because of the love in their hearts, seek common ground while reserving differences in life, and carry on the love.

Hi, I'm Antu, an optimistic emotional expert who loves to cry and laugh!

Now that we are getting older, many people have become masters of the love field for a long time, and they have always been playing with flowers and grass, but they don't give a penny sincerely, but in the end they are still lonely. Because of what, because we are scared, every time we are like moths to a fire, we come back with despair and scars, so we become more and more talkative, wanting to make the other party hurt more than ourselves, as if we have taken advantage of ourselves.

I don't control myself, how much to give in the relationship, I just know, I will worry when he is sick, I will be happy when he is happy, I want to give him a gift to praise him, every time it is like this, when I start to think about the gains and losses, then how should we go on? I took the high-speed train to see him myself, just to see him, I went alone, and I took the high-speed train for the first time. If I care, how will I get along in the future?

Where do our feelings go?

If we care about our feelings, we will get less, and if we want to give less, we will be okay?

If you don't love him enough, you won't give too much, but you love him very much, but you deliberately hide your feelings and pretend not to love him enough, so you can also achieve the effect of not paying too much.

It is said that there are three things in this life that cannot be hidden: cough, poverty, and love. Therefore, when you love someone enough, you usually unconsciously want to be good to him and pay for him.

In my opinion, the reason why you don't want to give too much in your relationship is because you are afraid that you will be let down one day. This is the most typical manifestation of insecurity. Instead of trying to hide what you like about him, you should focus on how to make the other person like you more.

Maybe you feel that you can't love someone too much, you can't be too good to him, and it's easy for him to feel that your kindness is deserved. But in fact, everyone has the ability to feel loved, and if you are good to others, he can feel it, and he can give it back to you to a greater or lesser extent.

But if you are really not at ease, then try to pay attention to your behavior and restrain your liking for him, so as to avoid causing too much and achieve a sense of psychological balance.

I think in a relationship, the most important thing is to compare your heart to your heart, if you give him a lot, and he doesn't know how to respond, don't give so much.

When I was a freshman, there was a boy from the same school who liked a girl in our dormitory, and the two of them were in the same department of the student union. After the boy was sure that the girl was single, he pursued her crazy, and delivered food downstairs every morning, the girl said that the plastic bag was too toxic and the food was not good, and the next day immediately changed the lunch box. He inquired left and right about my roommate's habits, and we got a lot of benefits for this, knowing that she had a habit of running at night, so he went to run with her every night, and ran for more than two months, almost a day without stopping.

Then suddenly one day, he probably didn't go for something, and my roommate looked for him like a lost soul, and then came back at night and told us that she liked him. And then they were together.

My roommate belongs to the kind of person who is very independent, to be honest, in fact, there is a little bit of selfishness, what he thinks of in advance is himself, and he may only think of himself, and the same is true for his boyfriend, who is always asking for it, but his boyfriend takes care of her meticulously.

I remember about three weeks later, they broke up and she was dumped. Later, I learned from the boy's roommate that when he was chasing my roommate, there was a girl who was also chasing him, who was his classmate, delivering breakfast every night, helping him copy notes, sorting out the kind very seriously, helping him bring clothes when it was cold, sending medicine when sick, and making nutritious porridge in the dormitory. That's really something my roommate can't do.

I've seen that girl, skinny and small, not as friendly as I am, but it finally captured his heart.

Therefore, it is necessary to give in the relationship, and if you are confident enough, you can give less.

There is no way, as long as it is love, it doesn't matter who loves whom, if the feelings can be controlled by ourselves, then there will not be so many sad people.

I believe this question has troubled many people, indeed, how much to pay in a relationship is a problem. But with all due respect, if you feel that you are giving too much or giving too little, it is often the balance of the relationship that you are in has changed. I'm a boy, once I'm in love, I'm easy to forget myself, give my best to this relationship, maybe the other party didn't do anything, but I will do a lot of things for her, but the consequence of this is to make the oak branch feel too burdensome, she may feel that she can't afford to repay your favor, she may feel very uncomfortable.

If you want to solve this problem, you still have to look at yourself, you can't ask the other party to always pay equally with you. You have to think about it, since you are willing to pay, then don't care too much about those returns, whether there is or not, Liang Chimin should not care too much. If you care too much, you will be easily disappointed, and then stop paying, so that the relationship you have carefully cultivated will be ruined, so what is your previous effort, right?

I'm the kind of person who pays in an all-round way, to put it bluntly, people often say, pay too much, devote yourself wholeheartedly, sometimes you can even ignore yourself, but you just want the other party to be good. <>

Very good to my boyfriend.,Then I didn't like him and broke up.,He cried for days trying to redeem me.,Now it's been more than a year or I'm still raping my social.,But I'm a bit like a boy.,I don't like it at all when I break up.,So there's no big regret in terms of love.。 Maybe let it go, after all, I think that love is still a matter for both parties to have feelings for each other, and I don't like it anymore, and I won't live with him, thinking about the old love, breaking up is like drinking the water of forgetfulness. But I can't do it with my friends, I care about them very, very much, I care about them from material to spiritual, I want to know them better, I want to care more about them, I want to buy a good thing for each other, and I use the good ones to share with each other.

There is nothing to like or dislike, even if it is good to friends, but it will not be as absolute as love. Originally, it was nothing that I was willing, but some time ago, a friend I had liked for ten years broke off with me, and I felt that I was living in the Hell of Youzu Zheng every day. I didn't want the same return, but I just thought that maybe the other party didn't care so much about you.

Feelings are like this, I'm sorry to pay too little, I'm afraid it's not worth it to pay too much, but we shouldn't worry about reporting when we pay, but people are people who will think about themselves for God, how can they not think about whether it's worth it or not.

But then I let go and follow my feelings, after all, I am willing, but don't let others burden too much.