Children are ridiculed because of their strange names, do you think it s the fault of the parents?

Updated on educate 2024-04-28
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, some parents are quite cute, just like a child, childlike, funny, I think it's very good, quite distinctive, although it doesn't take into account the child's feelings, but the name or something, it's just a code name! If they are all such serious people, how can they have so much fun, maybe the parents are a memorial to their children, so I don't think it's the fault of the parents.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I recently saw a strange name called "Glory of Kings". All parents love to play this game, and the children have given the game a name. There is also a name called "ancestor".

    Have parents considered that such a name will cause great trouble to their children's future communication? For example, the name "ancestor", the people on the side don't want to say hello when they see it, and the teacher doesn't want to ask questions when they see it. Parents should not be happy to take advantage of the situation, the future of their children is the key.

    It's really an ignorant parent, and it's impossible not to see such an intuitive question, so I feel like it's the fault of the parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Some rural customs are to call children by their first names to make it easier to feed. It is also necessary to respect their customs, and now that there is a lot of social mobility, people from remote areas come to work in the city, and some people think that people's names are not good and laugh at them, which should not be. That's what everybody called them in their hometowns.

    Everyone is used to it. But I think when choosing a name, you should still be careful not to use those words that are more biased, and it is better to use fewer polyphonic words. If others can't read it, everyone will be embarrassed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Nowadays, there are many post-90s parents, who are more open-minded, and they may think that it is fun to name their children. In my opinion, the name of a strange name is not not superstition or not, but how the child will feel in the future. It's like what the article says"Wu Youbing"Parents may find it funny, but when a child is young, he may feel sad that his classmates laugh at his name or dare not call it.

    So for the sake of the child, let's choose a normal name.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are some names that have been ridiculed I think are a problem of parents, and some are not, naming a child is a very serious thing, I remember when we were children, adults gave names and asked masters to calculate a character according to the time of the child's birth, not just random taking, now with the development of the Internet age and society, parents don't believe this, turn on the TV, what is the name of the star, I also imitate a name, so there are a lot of names on the rivers and lakes, such as Liu Ziyi, Zhang Ziyi, Li Ziyi, etc.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's a bit grandiose, although what name is a person's freedom, but it will affect the child in the future, if the child is ridiculed, the heart is very unpleasant, so you must be careful to find out, carefully read whether there is a homophony.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Names are like the face of people, and some people read a lot of books in order to choose a good name until they come up with a name that they are happy with. Some people, we really can't understand how he came up with those strange and embarrassing names for his children, it's so speechless.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the child feels that the name is acceptable and the problem is not big, then you can respect the child's opinion, and if the child feels that it needs to be changed, then I still have to respect the child's wishes, and the two people choose a good name.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is necessary, because the child's name is to accompany the child for a lifetime, and now the child is ridiculed because of the name, and it is likely that there will be a shadow or even cause character defects in the future, so it is very necessary.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is necessary. You can't let your child grow up being teased all the time, that's too irresponsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Many parents don't pay too much attention to the name of their child, or there was nothing when they chose the name, but now it does sound very strange, and even the person who calls the name is very embarrassed, such as these names: the girl's surname is Du, the parents give a name called Durex, you say that a girl is called this, and the child's school teachers are embarrassed to ask her to answer questions! There is also this similar to Durex called Lai Menstruation, homonym to menstruation!

    And the parent who named his son Liu Yu, I advise you to be kind! There are also Shi Yituo, Song **, and the newborn who has been rumored on the Internet recently is called the glory of the king, and I can't count them!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    "Jiang Jieshi" is a particularly strange name, and there was a transfer student with this name in the class at that time. A little girl who looks very beautiful would take such a name really makes people laugh off her big teeth.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When my parents were young, those words were particularly popular, and there were several girls in the village called Cuihua, and there were many boys called Da Zhuang, and even pinned some hopes on the child's name, such as vigorous and self-improvement.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    One of the most bizarre names I've ever heard is Glory of Kings.,I guess parents like to play the game Glory of Kings.,But it's really a pit for children.。

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The most bizarre name I've ever heard. It was my friend who gave his son the name Zhong Kui because of his surname.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The strange name I've heard is Shi Zhenxiang, this name is really very strange, the homonym of this name is particularly bad, and it has harmed the child's life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Shi Zhenxiang. I still can't figure out why parents would give their children such names, it's so mysterious.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I've heard of strange names, such as what kind of dog or something, these are more down-to-earth names.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Parents can't be blamed.

    Names are labels that accompany us throughout our lives, but most of the names are chosen by parents, and parents always want their children to be different, so the name is the first important aspect that parents consider, in order to give their children a meaningful name. and pinned on his ardent expectations, which is really painstaking. But these strange names do bring endless troubles and troubles to children.

    One of the characteristics of Chinese writing is that there can be many characters in the same pronunciation, and some characters can make people feel ominous, unhappy or funny when they are formed into words. After the child goes to school, it is easy to be ridiculed by other children, which leads to conflicts and friction, and also affects the child's self-confidence.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes. Parents really need to put a little more thought into naming their children, because if you don't do it, your child will be ridiculed at school. And in general, names will accompany us for a lifetime, and a good name is too important.

    My name is good in Mandarin, but in our hometown dialect, it is homophonic with "frog", and the long, long time from kindergarten to elementary school is spent in the ridicule of the people around me.

    It is said that the name entrusts the expectations of parents for their children, so please ask the parents to have a snack, and read the name several times when you go to the household registration, so as to give your child a childhood without ridicule. It doesn't matter if you don't have good writing, it shouldn't be difficult to do it without being weird.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes. 1. There are many strokes in rare characters and it is difficult to write. It not only increases the pressure on the child to write, but also increases the pressure on the teacher to read the pronunciation. There are nearly 100 strokes in some names, and it takes a long time for children to write names. The teacher couldn't call out the roll call in class, and the teacher was embarrassed.

    2. Selling culture. Because it was different from other people's children, he chose a very strange name. It's very bad for children, strange names are popular at the moment, and they won't be popular in the later stage, and parents are a bit suspicious of showing off culture when they choose a name.

    3. A lifetime of shadows. A name can accompany a person throughout his or her life. A good name can help people get better and smoother, but a strange name is always the object of ridicule, which makes people really tired. Even a shadow that you can't escape for a lifetime.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, the name is just a symbol. In this case, parents can do this:

    1. Comfort the child: If the child is wronged and ridiculed by his classmates, he should communicate with the child as soon as possible, so as not to let the child have a psychological shadow and let the child face it bravely.

    2. Let the child not feel inferior: Maybe the child is ridiculed by classmates because the child does have some deficiencies and defects, then we must help the child build confidence, self-confidence is very important to the child.

    3. Don't reprimand your child: Some parents are very strict with their children, but don't get angry with your children without asking about the specific situation. Of course, if it is not your child's problem, you can report the situation to the teacher and ask for help.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, although the name is the sustenance of the parents, the parents can choose to give their children a normal name.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, parents always want their children to be different, and the name is the first important aspect that parents consider, in order to give their children a name full of personality, but also to place their own ardent expectations, it is really painstaking. The name is also the most sincere wish and expectation of parents for their children.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, this puts a lot of pressure on the child, so you must pay attention to the name, and don't take too strange a name.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes. Parents are obligated to give their children a nice name and can even give this right to their children.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not the parents' fault, the name is just a code name, and if other people laugh at the child, it means that the other party's parents have not educated them well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Parents are at fault to a certain extent, but it is those who laugh at their children who are more to blame.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think parents are at fault, and now some parents give their children some strange names for the sake of freshness and fun, without considering their children's feelings.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's the parents' fault, parents may have thought it was fun to give their children names, but they don't know how much this will affect their children in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Parents are not wrong to make fun of names, just saying that their children's understanding of names is different, and it will be good to wait until they grow up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, when the name was first chosen, the child didn't know it, and he couldn't choose it himself, it was the fault of the parents.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Yes, because parents are not very thoughtful, some strange names can have a bad effect on the child's heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, because the parents are too distracted to choose the name.

    Parents must avoid these types of names:

    1. Superstitious feudalism.

    Although the feudal superstition in the stove cavity has been gradually eliminated from people's thoughts, there are still some people who think of feudal and conservative things. Before the child is born, he goes to someone to tell his fortune and choose a name, not to mention the expensive cost, and the name given by others is usually not particularly brilliant and good-sounding.

    2. Complicated tongue twisters.

    Many parents pay attention to the uniqueness and uniqueness of their children's names, and do not want to have the same name as other children. So those rare words and four-character names have become the favorite of parents.

    However, such a novel personality on the surface is not only called tongue-twisting, but also may exist when registering, the computer does not recognize and cannot be entered into the system, resulting in the embarrassment that the child's name is taken by the police.

    3. Exaggerated meaning.

    Parents always hope that their children will be successful in the future, but if the meaning of the name of the child is too exaggerated, it will not only increase the burden of the child's growth, but also make the name ridiculed in case the future is mediocre. Names like: "Bank", "Dongliang", "Tsinghua", "Yaozu" and so on, don't choose them for your children.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Yes. But it's not just parents who blame the blame, but also those who laugh at their children's names.

    A name is a person's code name, and the name is generally taken and most of them will not be changed too much, so the name is very important to a person's life, and even affects the fate of the person. Good names generally have good metaphors, are simple and easy to remember, pleasant to hear, and friendly to hear. A bad name makes people feel disgusted when they hear it, so you must be careful when choosing a name.

    Now there is a view that "children are born for the pleasure of their parents", which is incomprehensible. "Although the child is here because of you, it does not belong to you", he is an independent individual, and he cannot raise his parents casually because of their hobbies or pleasures, especially when choosing a name so carefully and stupidly.

    Secondly, respecting others is an education that everyone will receive from an early age, but this kind of ridicule and bullying still happens from time to time, and I think this is the sadness of contemporary education. I just hope that the children who are ridiculed can be optimistic and generous, and not be sad.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes. 1. You can't return to defeat the pit baby.

    Choosing a good name for a child does not rely on imagination, parents need to use the right method to give their children a full auspicious name. You can refer to the family genealogy, generation, birthdate, mathematics, etc. Choosing a good name for your child are all important factors.

    2. Strange names will affect a child's life.

    The strange name will only make the teacher dare not name it, and at the same time, it will also attract ridiculous laughter from the students! The strange name is particularly conspicuous, and it always makes people take it as a joke. It can hurt a child's self-esteem.

    3. Attention should be paid to the name:

    Try not to use words that are withdrawn, try not to use words that are esoteric and not commonly used, try not to use words that are not serious, etc. Although some names are quite nice, from a numerological point of view, names contain many easy-to-understand passwords, which are closely related to people and directly affect people's subconscious. The longer the name doesn't fit you, the greater the impact.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think it's because of the parents, and the parents should think about this when choosing a name. Letting children be ridiculed is a parent's problem.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Yes, although the name is the expectation of parents, parents can give their children some normal names that are not so weird.

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