Why is it that it is urgent not to get married before the age of 30, but not to be in a hurry if it

Updated on society 2024-04-28
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why didn't you get married before the age of 30, you are in a hurry, and you are not in a hurry if you don't get married after the age of three, it is because after the age of 30, you feel that it may be you, and the probability of wanting to find a partner is very low, but you are not in a hurry, you can find it, you can find it, forget if you can't find it, there is this kind of psychology, and before the age of 30, it is different, I feel that I am in a very good age, before the age of 30, it is also, compared, youthful, enthusiastic, age, so I am more anxious.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe you still have some illusions about marriage before the age of thirty, but after the age of thirty, you suddenly see the appearance of society and recognize the sinister nature of society, so you feel that there is no need for it, anyway, the whole world is so unreliable, so you don't want to look for it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are no rules or rules for this, if you don't want to get married, or how old the diamond king is, he is not in a hurry, and those who want to get married but have no strength are in a hurry, and they are different from person to person, because of different conditions, because of different moods! Thirty is not the line of urgency!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Most people choose to get married before 23 to 30, and the main reason why you are in a hurry to get married before 30 is the urging of your parents, and most of the people around you are already married and have children, so you will have a sense of urgency. During this period, you didn't find a suitable partner, so you won't be in a hurry after thirty, and there are many people in advanced societies who are not married in thirty-five or sixteen.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's very urgent not to get married before the age of 30 because it is at the marriageable age, but it is not urgent to get married after the age of 30, because at this age you can only relax your mind and go with the flow.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because marriage is indeed something that cannot be rushed, when you are old and mature in thought, your thoughts will naturally change.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's that with the change of time, you have become accustomed to it, and you are not so yearning for marriage, in fact, marriage mainly depends on fate, it is useless to be anxious, I believe that your fate will come soon.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because before the age of three, it was really urgent. After all, there is still a great demand for this aspect at a young age. After reaching 30, I found that there was no such thing, and there was no big difference, and I was already 30 years old.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In response to the so-called dead pig, don't be afraid of boiling water! It's past the age when others urge you to get married, and everyone looks at you the same way, so it's been a long time and you're used to nothing, and you think it's a normal thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as something is overdone, there is no hurry, and it is exactly so, this is the so-called cause of failure.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shouldn't be that it's not in a hurry, but it's useless to be in a hurry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, if I don't get married at the age of 30, I won't be in a hurry, because I think it's different now than before, 30 years old is a person's ** age, and there shouldn't be only one option to get married. Secondly, I won't find a random person because I'm old and not married, because marriage is not child's play, and it's not a good life.

    1. Marriage should not be limited to age, but should meet the right person.

    I don't think you have to be at a certain age to get married. Getting married is not a task, but two suitable people who meet and want to stay together for the rest of their lives. You can't just say that you have to get married when you're 30 years old, so you can find someone to marry.

    If you meet the right person, you can get married at the age of 20, and if you don't meet the right person, you don't necessarily have to get married at the age of 50. <>

    2. Marriage is not the only choice in life.

    Many people think that marriage is a necessary thing in our lives, and that life without marriage is incomplete. But I've always felt that getting married is a one-person thing, here. A marriage without love is married because you are married, and you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life in the future.

    A really good marriage is built on the foundation of love, and if there is no love, it is better not to tie the knot. <>

    Third, it is better to lack than to abuse, and the right talent is the most important.

    There are many people who are anxious because they are old and the elders in the family are urgent, so they finally find someone to marry. But two people have no emotional foundation, and after getting married, they will be tormented by the family's firewood, rice, oil, salt, children, mother-in-law, etc., and often quarrel. After a long time, there will be all kinds of problems, and such a marriage will not be happy.

    This kind of marriage either leaves not long after getting married, or it is struggling with chickens and dogs. <>

    For marriage, you must choose the person you like, and you must not be able to compromise, then you will not be happy. Don't get married for the sake of other people's ideas, others can't represent you, life is your own, so what you think is the best is good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, I am very anxious to be unmarried at the age of 30, if the family conditions are superior, you can wait, if the family conditions are not good, I think it is better to find it quickly, or it is possible to be single for the second half of your life, even if you look for it, you may not be able to find the right person.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No! As things stand, it's not too late to get married at thirty.

    Because modern people will be more cautious about marriage, they will not find someone to marry at will, and they don't want to divorce after marriage.

    The divorce rate is so high that many young people suffer from premarital phobia.

    When they are married and have a family, there will be a lot of pressure, so they want a relaxed and free home more.

    As the saying goes, if one person is full, the whole family is not hungry.

    In addition, the current wedding bride price is too high, and many people who want to get married are discouraged.

    Therefore, you will not be in a hurry to get married at the age of 30, and you must find someone who is compatible with you for a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I haven't gotten married at the age of 30, I won't be in a hurry, because the relationship is rather lacking than excessive, and I can't have no standards for the other half because I am married.

    Nowadays, many young people are facing the phenomenon of being urged to marry, many people think that the age of 30 is a stage of marriage, if you are not married, the parents and elders in the family will meet to urge marriage, thinking that you do not marry is a phenomenon that does not conform to social development. But I think that people who get married because they are urged to marry have no opinions of their own, because feelings should still be carefully chosen, after all, they have to accompany themselves for the rest of their lives, and if they choose the wrong choice just to get married for the sake of marriage, they will only let themselves enter a miserable marriage.

    At 30 years old, I won't be in a hurry.

    If someone asked me if I wasn't married at 30, would you be in a hurry? I'll be pretty sure he won't be in a hurry. Because your feelings should still be your own decision, you should be responsible for your own feelings, you can't because the people in the family urge you to get married, and aimlessly find a marriage partner, so that the two don't understand each other, there will be a lot of places that can't reach tacit understanding in the future life, and over time will make your marriage go downhill, so we just need to decide that when we get married, we should still have a selection standard for the other half.

    At the very least, there should be common values and outlook on life between the two, so that they will not choose to give up because of stumbling in the next life.

    Be responsible for your marriage and for yourself.

    The age of 30 is not a boundary between getting married or not, some people are in their thirties and are in the stage of career development, and some people just go from school to society, and they have to go through the tempering of society, so I think marriage is an important part of life, but it is not above other parts. So we have to plan our lives well. If we find someone to marry at random, it is irresponsible to ourselves and the feelings between the two, so we don't rush to get married when we don't find the other half.

    Marriage should make one person become two people, and the happiness value should be improved, not because of others.

    The happiness of marriage not only depends on whether the relationship between the two people is suitable, but also depends on the management behind, so when we find the right object, then bravely walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand, if we have not found it, we will wait patiently and find the right one around him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are a boy, I don't think 30 years old is too much, but you graduated from college at the age of 23 and have struggled for 7 years, or you have achieved a little. Maybe you are still confused, if you have a small achievement, you should also discuss marriage issues at this time, if you are in the rising period of your career, then it can be a little later. Graduated with a master's degree at the age of 26, graduate student at the age of 30, and earn a basic salary in the company, if you meet the right one, it's time to get married, boys, I think it's okay to get married at the age of 33.

    If you are a girl and graduated from college at the age of 23, you are in the prime of your youth, and a 30-year-old woman is in her prime, and you are already a small leader in the company, so you can consider getting married. But I still recommend that girls get married before the age of 30, after all, they look old. But don't worry, if you get married for the sake of getting married, then you will make a bet on yourself, it is better not to get married, in fact, there is no time to get married, but I just think that that person can be entrusted for life, and then you can get married.

    The premise is that you are rational and not impulsive as a girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I won't be in a hurry if I'm not married at the age of 30, it's good to have found my own suitable marriage, but marriage doesn't mean a happy marriage, and being single doesn't mean unhappiness, too reluctant marriage, it's better to live alone, born alone, born alone, and when you leave, you are also a person, which is doomed, no one can always accompany us, we still have to live for ourselves after all. People should live confidently, independently and at the same time full of positivity, as long as people live well and live happily, what does it matter if they get married or not? Marriage is not necessary in life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    30 years old is not married, for a girl, it seems that the best age for marriage has passed, alas, usually excellent girls may not be in a hurry, if not very good girls, may still be more anxious, after all, the age has also become older, but the right person has not yet appeared, so you have to take the initiative to go out, meet the right person to take the initiative.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I will be anxious, I hope that the society and caring people will help more, for those who are not married at the age of 30, I want to find a partner, thank you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, I'm 30 years old, and I'm not married yet, I won't be in a hurry, because it's not too late to get married at the age of 30 in many big cities, and there are still 40-year-olds who are not married, thank you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After the age of 30, you will be anxious, mainly depending on your personal conditions, if the conditions are excellent, you will not be in a hurry if you are not married at the age of 40. If the conditions are not good enough. If you don't get married at the age of 30, you should be in a hurry.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, there will be some inner changes because of age, so your feelings, your marriage, may be said to appear at the right time. If you are too anxious, you will encounter some inappropriate feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, some people are still based on people, everyone's choice may be different, it may be different, some people will definitely be anxious if they want to rush into marriage, but some people may not be in a hurry. 'What are the reasons for those things that are not in a hurry? They want to play for a few more years while they are young, this is the main reason, first of all, they are not short of this partner in their lives, so they don't want to get married in a hurry, and those who want to continue to get married are generally lacking a partner in life, so they want to enter marriage quickly.

    How to say it, that is, the more people lack something, the more they want to get something, this is the reason when you lack a partner, then you want to find a partner, when you are not lacking a partner in your life, then you will not be in a hurry, in fact, the truth is like this, I hope it will be useful to you, I hope it can help you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, you won't be in a hurry, after all, getting married is not a matter of one person, or let your family and friends urge you, and they can't empathize with you, you still have to have your own ideas.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Some people say, "Women can afford to lose love, but they can't afford to lose youth." Men can afford to lose women, but they can't afford to lose fate. ”

    In fact, neither men nor women can afford to lose youth and fate. If you don't solve your marital problems at a young age, you will find that marital problems become more and more troublesome and intractable as soon as you reach the age of 30, seriously affecting your work and life.

    Even if they are not in a hurry, their parents and family will be in a hurry, and they will urge their partners to get married every day, constantly exerting mental pressure.

    Therefore, people who can't make time to fall in love will sooner or later make time for a blind date.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I haven't gotten married over the age of 30, and I think both boys and girls are in a hurry. However, the most anxious should be their parents. If you have to tell who is most anxious, it should be a girl, and she will be more anxious.

    Boys in their 30s will have a wider range of partners to find, and perhaps, boys in their 30s can form partners with girls in their 20s and early 30s. However, 30-year-old girls can only find boys around 30 years old, and the age difference is too much for them to be suitable.

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