Ask, Chinese Teacher How do you reward your children as a parent? Alliance.com, China Education Gr

Rewards may seem simple, but it is not easy to truly master them and apply them with ease. Therefore, when parents implement rewards, China Education Group (teachers of China Education Alliance Network) reminds parents to pay attention to the following issues:

1) Choose the right behavior of young children.

Parents should reward their children for specific behaviors, such as sitting at the table and putting away toys after play. Specific behaviors allow parents to objectively control, observe, and evaluate changes in behaviors, and can reward the same behavior repeatedly until the behavior increases significantly.

2) Choose the reward correctly.

Rewards used to reinforce young children's behaviour must be effective. It should have the following characteristics: it is what children need and like; Easy to use and present the desired action as soon as it occurs; Repeated use will not cause rapid gratification in young children.

In order to better meet the above requirements, parents should pay attention to their children's interests and see what they are more interested in and easy to provide. Pay attention to the implementation process of rewards: Before the implementation of rewards, you can tell your children about their intentions, so that children can clarify their behavior.

For example, parents can say to their children that you are allowed to watch cartoons after you have eaten obediently. Give rewards as soon as the desired behavior occurs, without delaying it for too long, lest the child become unaware of the behavior that the parent wants to reward; When giving a reward, parents describe to their children the specific behavior for which they were rewarded. For example, praise should be like, "You've put your toys away, that's great!" Rather than just saying, "You're a good boy."

In this way, children can be clear about what they should do in the future; It is best to combine other rewards with other rewards, such as hugs, praises, etc., when giving your child. Of course, it's best to use different praise language, not just one word; To prevent the child from being too satisfied with a particular reward and no longer functioning, parents should give only a smaller reward each time. Let the child gradually wean himself away from the reward.

When a behavior occurs multiple times, parents should gradually eliminate the material reward and use social reward, i.e., caring, praising gestures, words, expressions, etc., to make the child continue the behavior.

In order for the child to maintain the good behavior that has been acquired, parents should pay attention to periodically evaluating the child's behavior and not immediately stop paying attention to the child's good behavior.

Say less and do more, there will be many people around you who understand you through various methods, including well-intentioned and ill-intentioned, and it doesn't hurt to make yourself mysterious when you first enter the workplace;

Hurry up and understand the organizational structure of the company, so-and-so and so-and-so are mortal enemies, and so-and-so is a relative of the boss, this kind of thing must be clarified, otherwise a word is wrong, and death is inexplicable.

Until you are familiar with your work and understand your boss's temper, stay away from him, firstly, to prevent doing the wrong thing and saying the wrong thing, and secondly, to prevent someone from being ruthless out of jealousy.

Don't skip the level of reporting work, and only be responsible for your own direct supervisor.

Speak facts and seek facts, don't develop the habit of bragging, don't be in a hurry to show your ability to work, time will tell, and rushing to show yourself will set up unnecessary opponents for yourself;

Don't be in a hurry to make friends, the workplace is not a university, the interests are related, don't show yourself unreservedly to anyone;

Don't go along with what others say about your boss, it's best to laugh it off at this time.

Those who choose their trees will have good wood, and those who choose their monarchs will meet Mingjun", don't force yourself to do undesirable work.

Always remember the phrase "take advantage of a small advantage and suffer a big loss", don't be smart, the eyes of workplace veterans are bright.

Don't pretend to be "mature".

Many people think that stepping into the workplace is a great opportunity to carry out a complete transformation of themselves. In a purely unfamiliar environment, no one knows about your past, which is just the right time to protect your own flaws. But that's not the case.

Beat around, hit a wall, and didn't change jobs for a year. You'll be able to say goodbye to rookies.

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The following is a summary of common sense information about living in the UK, which can help students who go to study in the UK to adapt to the new environment of studying in the UK faster and better.

The climate and dress in the UK.

The UK is a country with a mild climate and beautiful scenery. In the cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, the weather in the UK rarely changes above 32 degrees or below 10 degrees, but the weather in the UK changes frequently. The sun was shining just now, but it turned into a torrential downpour in an instant.

International students are advised to keep warm clothes and rain gear around them, and to wear multiple layers of clothing so that they can be changed at any time. Adapt to changes in temperature.

Safety and precautions in the UK.

Compared to other European countries, the UK is quite safe. The local area is convenient and the residents are warm and friendly. However, it is not excluded that there will be occasional incidents in some special areas. The following is the study abroad website in the UK (

Tips given for international students in terms of safety:

1. Motor vehicles in the UK are driven on the left, which is the opposite of China, so you should pay attention to whether you are driving or walking.

2. Please do not carry a large amount of cash, please try to use bank cards and checks for daily consumption.

3. Please make a copy of your passport, bank card and check number, so that you can report the loss and report it in a timely and accurate manner after the loss.

4. Avoid getting into arguments with alcoholics.

5. Please do not travel alone at night and try to avoid dark, uninhabited streets.

6. Tell your landlord, friends, or relatives about your whereabouts.

7. Stay away from drugs.

Time in the UK.

GMT is called "Greenwich Mean Time" in Chinese, which is the standard time in the United Kingdom and the reference standard around the world. The UK is 8 hours behind Beijing time. But in British daylight saving time, from the end of March to the end of October, the time difference between the UK and our country is 7 hours.

Food in the UK.

International students may feel uncomfortable when they first arrive in the UK due to their very different eating habits. It is recommended that you arrange your daily diet reasonably and pay attention to the combination of nutrients. To understand the UK, one should also understand the food culture of the UK.

Over time, you will find many delicious foods such as: fish and chips, cream tea, jacket potato, cheese cake...

Medical and health in the UK.

International students can enjoy free British health centres for a course of study in the UK for more than 6 months. This benefit also applies to your spouse and children under the age of 16. Here's what you need to look out for:

1. Free means that medical treatment and prescription are free, and there is still a fee for purchasing drugs. However, if you are seriously ill and hospitalized, it is all free.

2. As soon as you arrive at the school, please apply for medical registration and medical card immediately. You can do this at your school's medical center, and the school will refer you to a doctor.

3. Before going abroad, please check your teeth and eyes, because in the UK, teeth and eyes are charged, and they are expensive.

1. Do a good job at hand and just enter a new environment, don't rush to integrate into the team, but do your job well, this is the first step to survive in the workplace, only survive to start to integrate into the team's life.

2. Take the initiative to participate in or initiate collective activities.

If you want to get acquainted with your new colleagues as soon as possible, you can go out with your colleagues after work to eat, drink, sing and other activities, and after you find common interests and hobbies, the topic of conversation will also become hidden, and after participating in these activities, you will find that everyone treats you as "their own person".

3. Take advantage of the lunch break.

Lunchtime is also a good opportunity to mingle with colleagues, if colleagues are ordering or cooking by themselves, then you can also eat with everyone at noon, use the two hours of noon to have a good conversation, and actively respond to the topics of colleagues, so that others will start to understand you.

4. Take the initiative to exchange work experience with old employees.

In fact, the best people who know how to know are not those who know everything, but those who humbly seek advice. China Education Group (China Education Alliance).

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