If it s good to me not to love someone, will I be happy?

In fact, marriage is like this, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory in life, not used to it! I don't understand, since you don't like him, why don't you reject it completely? How could it be so muddy and muddy to the point that everyone knows about it?

Now, I don't think you should take a step lightly, because every step you take will affect him, his reputation, his face! So your move is crucial! I don't know if the baby in your womb belongs to your fiancé.

If so, I advise you to marry him! First, you are worried about the physical effects of removing the child. Second, his family knows the good news that you are getting married.

Third, and most importantly! He's good to you! That's enough!

The supreme thing in marriage is to find someone who is good to you! Actually, you are very happy, take advantage of it! As for the faults that you can't get used to, if he really likes you, he will change!

Marriage turns into affection in the end. When the child lands, the parents' focus shifts to the child, so I personally think you can still think about your relationship!

Hey, you're too... It's too much mud and water, where is this, from the perspective of the opposite sex, I guess you must be a woman who is soft on the outside and wants to protect, but the heart is unpredictable, with all due respect, I'm afraid you should have a lot of previous emotional experience.

Your so-called emotional exhaustion and numbness syndrome,It's because of too much intake of feelings to a unique numbness and disgust of feelings.,I don't know what you think.,But my opinion is basically the same as seikilili.,Many factors determine that your current choice can't be self-willed because of yourself.,Think about other people are ready to marry you.,Children are about to have.,In case you really go to the step you said.,I think any man can't stand it.,What can I do?,I'm really worried about you.。 Hehe.

But if you are so unprepared to accept it in a daze, your life will be troublesome in the future, and it may become a hidden danger to your marriage.

Of course, you don't have to worry, let alone worry, because things are not as bad as you think, you can calm down now, think about it, although the person in front of you is not the type you like, but whether he is a person you can entrust for life, you must know that the feeling of marriage and love is different, a good lover may not be suitable for marriage, take on the responsibility of being a husband, on the contrary, a good husband may not be able to be romantic, do a good job of being a lover, the road ahead is still very long, I strongly recommend that if the other party is good and very responsible for you, forget it, I don't know how unpleasant this man makes you, but it's not the kind of person with crooked eyes and slanted mouth, I know you're very contradictory, I want to find someone who likes yourself and what you like, in fact, I like to count a p, like I've been married for a few years, how romantic it was when we were in love, and now it's a bird, she doesn't like it, I don't like her, I don't get used to it, it's been like this for a long time.

Look at how many advantages you have now, you haven't been in love for a long time, and you can continue to find out and understand each other when you get married, better than us, hurry up and get married, don't lie to you.

You may not realize it now, but you will be very happy in the future by comparing yourself with the people around you.

Personally, I think that reality and ideals are two different things, yes, as you said, if you don't love him, you will worry about unhappiness together, and the ideal is, of course, to find someone to love, get married and have children. But what about reality? You're going to get rid of this child, and then you're going to tell everyone you're not married, and then you're going to find another one, and it's going to drag on for a few more years, or longer, and in the end, you'll find that it's better to get married, but if you're married now, you'll think, what if I'm not happy in the future?

In fact, there are concerns about everything.

In fact, the life of two people, especially marriage, whether you love each other and get married or marry like you, it is the same after marriage. There is no big difference, don't get old and think about some and not, since it's already like this, let's go on, I have a child, and it's unrealistic to break up now.

I got pregnant after knowing each other for less than a year.

Since I don't love. Then you will be guilty of marriage together.

He thought he had a happy home. In summary. found out that his wife didn't love him.

It's also very unfair to him.

And children. That's it again. Small children are the most innocent.

You separate. The child will definitely have a hard time in the future.

You don't want children. It's really not good for your health.

I can only blame you for being impulsive.

If you really feel uncomfortable. I really don't love his words at all. Then speak up. Don't wait until later to create any contradictions. It's not good for both sides.

Let's give birth to the child. I think it's so pathetic. -3-..

But if you feel that the birth of a child will be an obstacle for you to find your next partner.

That's it. The best thing is. You look for his merits. Let yourself fall in love with him.

Marriage is marriage, and feelings belong to feelings

Both are not necessarily exhaustive

You'll understand later

Better a finger off than always aching.

Hurry up and finish. so as not to suffer for a long time after marriage.

Cups! The arrow is on the string and has to be sent.

Happiness is actually a state from the inside out, to put it bluntly, it is very happy inside, so as to present a healthy and positive state on the outside, the two complement each other, but the important thing is whether there is a sense of happiness in the heart, that is, happiness and a sense of belonging.

You ask this sentence in fact, you already understand the answer, he is not the person you like, so deep down you will not be happy and belong, so you will not be happy at the moment.

But he's good to you, this matter is also in its current state, and I don't know how long it can last.

What you like may not bring you happiness or even pain. What you don't like may not always be disliked, when people know how to cherish and choose, anything has its attractiveness!

You will be happy, and you may feel unhappy at the beginning, but time is the best witness, as long as you are not hard-hearted, you will feel that happiness one day.

In the past, people got married first and then fell in love, first with him who they didn't like, and then slowly cultivated a relationship.

In this case, you should strengthen your understanding of him, see how he doesn't like you, can you change his image or his temperament, and cultivate the feeling of calling together.

People's fate in marriage is not necessarily smooth, there are many situations, maybe I like it very much at first, but after being together for a long time, I don't like it.

Maybe start to dislike, press over time. Slowly, after the relationship is born, I will feel that this person is very good and rare.

In your case, you have to make your own decisions, and everyone can't make decisions for you based on specific problems.

Will be happy! Likes and dislikes are not fixed and unchanging, they are transformed into each other. I don't like it now, but I may like it later. After a long time, you will get used to it slowly, and it will be good to get used to it. It's not difficult to find someone you like, but it's even harder to find someone who is genuinely good to you.

I think that with someone you don't like, no matter how good he is to you, you won't be happy, and if he's good to you, because you don't like it, you will feel flattered. Two people will only feel happy if they like each other, so don't be reluctant to do emotional things.

If you plan to live a life, find one that is good for you, then you will definitely be happy in the future, life is more dull days after all, and two people will be together more affectionately and habitually in the future, so if you meet someone who likes you, cherish it.

Dislikes can be changed. You can slowly allow yourself to like him or her. Because it's not easy to find someone who truly loves you, so as long as he's good to you, that's enough. Others can be cultivated slowly in the future.

Yes, the chance of a person meeting true love is very small, don't be confused by ** and the kind of love on TV, it is true in real life, it is already very lucky to find someone who does not ask for anything in return and is very good to you.

Sometimes feelings lie in cultivation, it is based on your affection and my willingness, but if he is good to you from the heart, after a long time, cultivate feelings, you will also like him, you will also feel happy, because your emotional foundation is very sincere, I think it is also very good! Cherish the people who truly love you! Not easy.

Hello, do you feel happy with someone you don't like, but he treats you well? I think that consensual love is of course good, but it is hard to find. In comparison, find someone you love, but he doesn't love you, then you must be affected by yourself.

On the contrary, if you find someone who loves you very much, and you don't love him, your life will definitely not be bad in the future. So, I think you'll be happy.

If your so-called being together is just living together, then it doesn't matter, you will feel happy. But if what you want is the so-called happiness, then this kind of person may not be suitable for you, you need to find someone you really like, otherwise you can only look at him more and more disgusting, feel that everything he does is very disgusting, and in the end it will just become a grudge couple.

Being with someone who likes you, but you don't, is not very happy in many cases.

But it's hard to find someone you like and like yourself. Maybe being with someone you don't like, but who likes you, is a helpless sub-optimal choice.

Would you be happy with someone who doesn't like you, but who treats you well? I don't think you're going to be happy, but as long as you're with someone you like, even if you're a little tired, you're very happy.

If you are with someone you don't like, you will never feel happy, and even if he treats you well, you will not be satisfied.

People are always greedy, from the actual point of view to love you a little more in the future you will be happier and more comfortable, but the emptiness of the heart makes you in the blessing do not know the blessing, always hope that you like a person, to put it bluntly, it is to find sadism, but the two of them really go for a long time, who loves more who pays more.

It depends on what you think in your heart, if you don't like him, no matter how good he is to you, I believe you will not be happy in this life, after all, you don't like him in your heart, and he is not the person you like.

With someone you don't like, even if he treats you well, you will feel very unhappy and there will be no happiness at all.

Find someone who loves me to be my lover, find someone I love to be my lover, which means that a girl can find someone who likes you with all her heart, and she will be happy for a lifetime. He is tolerant, understanding, and considerate of you, which cannot be described in words.

At least two people are not annoying when they are together, if you don't like him, how can you be together, if you decide to be together, you have to change your attitude towards him, or you don't.

Real-life couples are like that. Women have to think that a man likes you more than others like you is happy, and if you like others more, you will be exhausted.

The more he treats you with someone you don't like, the more bored you feel.

Happiness is that cats eat fish, dogs eat meat, bumps, and little monsters, and sometimes love is a habit.

Would you feel happy with someone you don't like, but he's nice to you? Happiness or not, deal with it. It's all settled, so be it. Happiness or not, only he knows. aqui te amo。

Haha, what age do you have to find what you like, instead of finding someone who doesn't love yourself, it's better to find someone who loves yourself, girl, remember, in the end, love will become family affection.

With someone you don't like, but he treats you very well, you won't feel happy, you must choose to marry love to be happy, harmonious and beautiful.

With someone you don't like, but he treats you very well, after a long time, you feel that you will be happy, and you have to find someone who likes you, not someone you like.

First, why did you choose your current husband to get married?

The answer is simple, because he is good in every way. I think that whether it is looks, figure, income, temperament, it is very good to you and your family, and it should be a very good man.

I think it's rare for you to find such a man, and you need to cherish it. There will also be many people who envy you.

But for yourself, you don't like him to marry him because of face? Is it because he's really good?

To put it bluntly, you can't find a better man than him! You can't afford to delay! This man is far superior to others in all aspects of the men you can come into contact with, so you get married! That's the truth!

Second, why are you talking about "dislike" now?

Since you marry him, just because he is good, there is no emotional basis, and you don't even like it.

But after all, they were together, but after all, they were the best choice at that time, so what do you regret?

Don't regret your choice.

You yourself put the emotional element last, and take the external conditions as the first condition for judgment and choice, who is to blame.

There is no regret medicine in the world.

Third, if you are dissatisfied with your current husband because you found a better one after marriage and have a comparison, I still advise you not to cross the moral bottom line.

If you want to follow your heart, you can get together and separate, and each of them will pursue true love. There is no shame.

Don't hurt a good man.