For some reason, I feel pessimistic, and tears often accompany me

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because I think too much, I often complicate my life. Obviously living in the present, but always thinking about the past and worrying about the future. Insist on carrying the past, the future and the present, then of course, this life is only a piece of mud and water.

    And simplicity is a state of grace, simply living in the present, and the present moment actually does not matter whether it is right or wrong, since there is no right and wrong, there is no need to think about it, there is no right or wrong, there is no need to remember and worry. We hope this helps. This answer is organized by K, please respect the fruits of my labor, and refuse to copy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Being pessimistic, maybe you don't believe in yourself very much, you don't have confidence in yourself. Try to change yourself, don't always think that you won't succeed or anything, just do your best and work hard. The future is full of many ups and downs, but also full of many glory and successes.

    Don't care about small things and don't do them. As long as you are willing to do it and work hard, I think there is nothing that can not be done. The future is in your hands, and the key is whether you go or not.

    The road is at your feet! There is hope if you keep going!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to be happy, forget about the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance.

    Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mindset, everything will be fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can try to help others (volunteer or something), look at and comfort those people, you will be cheerful, you will have a different view of everything, exercise more, care about current affairs, read more lyrical and sunny poems, and cultivate temperament and can slowly change your worldview to become more cheerful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is a story about twin boys, one optimistic and the other pessimistic. So the parents, in order to change them, bought a very beautiful toy for the pessimistic boy, and the optimistic boy didn't have any design. In the imagination of parents, toys are sure to bring joy to pessimistic boys.

    In fact, optimistic children are happy even though they don't have toys.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about what makes you great and stick to it for a while, like when I'm pessimistic, I go to the gym and show off my size.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A pessimistic personality can be caused by your chronic exposure to stress, tension and isolation. Everyone has two sides of the personality, there is always one side pessimistic and indifferent, the other side is positive and enthusiastic, it depends on how you mobilize your positivity and potential. Friend, I have been pessimistic for a long time, but slowly I tried to talk and communicate with people with a good personality, we sang together, ate, shopped, and went shopping, and slowly I regained my happiness and self-confidence...With self-confidence, you will be happy, and you will not be so sad and indifferent!

    Hope you can be happy! Your friends will worry about you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Participate in more social activities to enrich yourself. Show your own specialty. Be bold and confronted.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Favorable conditions do not necessarily mean optimism.

    Life without a purpose? Lack of spiritual support? Don't have a direction that you're happy to strive for?

    People exist and develop, and they must feel the meaning of life.

    Self, as an individual who is different from others, must and should also find their own sense of worth and fulfillment.

    You always have people and things that you care about, right? This is the important meaning of life, there is always it, you think about it.

    For those who care about those who and things to move forward with joy in the bright direction ...

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Learn to appreciate yourself, love yourself, cultivate self-confidence, people are not all born with self-confidence....Do what you dare not do (it can't be a bad thing) and have the courage to overcome yourself, such as giving a speech by yourself or...Have a regular life and rest, eat and rest well! Settle simple and realistic future plans and dreams! Rest when you are tired from work, release when you are tired or need the encouragement and comfort of friends and relatives!

    People's hearts and bodies have limits, cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh, laugh freely and chicly! Don't get into the nitty-gritty of the bull and enrich your knowledge....Don't make anything too perfect....There is no perfection, only beauty...Life is so contented and happy....Brother supports you....In fact, you already have a lot to take care of yourself...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think about the things you're proud of in your life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Perhaps you are going to experience a complete exodus that will change from pessimism to optimism. Disguise yourself, or, really changed.

    Or believe in Buddhism, there is a person who believes in it and is very happy. Releasing life can remove your karma and not feel pessimistic.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A pessimistic and misanthropic life, a low life, is not necessarily wrong.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ah Q, look at those who are not as good as you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're still young, communicate with your friends. Watch some delightful entertainment. Joke Shenma's parents love you the most.

    Communicate well with them......You must have something on your mind to do this. Just untie the knot. If you don't know how to solve it, just ask someone else to help you, but if you can't do it, don't think about it.

    No big deal! You know, you're happy. Because there are many more unfortunate people living in the world.

    What you waste today is the tomorrow that those who died yesterday hope for. The present that you hate is the future that you cannot go back to ... Study hard......Kid paper.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Study hard, kid, don't go online, don't think about anything else! If you feel uncomfortable, talk to your parents more. Remember, only learning can change your destiny!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is the karma of the heart, and it is very simple to improve, help others more, be grateful and content, honor your parents and teachers, and be considerate and help others, so that the positive energy will increase, and your mood and fortune will improve.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then get in touch with the outside world more and try to change yourself. You know, the current society is very realistic, you have to make yourself strong, there is nothing you can't do, only you want to do it...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I wonder why you are pessimistic? Bad family? Not good at studying? Or is it something else? Just knowing these things can help you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Knowledge is power, positive energy. Learning to solve problems is easy and there is no need to be pessimistic.

    Husband, go forward bravely, and you don't have to be understood by others, so you can enjoy yourself.

    Pessimism and optimism are all your own choices, and you don't have to rely on the understanding of others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Read more optimistic books, make optimistic friends, and believe that every day will be beautiful, and truth, goodness, and beauty will always be in our hearts.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'm the same way, and I'm distressed. Now that I have just graduated, I hope to find a job and save some money by the end of October. I feel that life is difficult to move an inch and difficult.

    It's really hard. But things always have to be in a good direction, and life will have hope. No one really understands anyone, and no one really cares about what's going on in your heart.

    If you have any ideas, just say them, and people won't laugh at you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Listen more**, bring cheerful emotions into yourself, don't think about pessimistic things, change yourself spiritually, and be optimistic when you talk to others about optimism!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Actually, you have resistance to certain things in your heart, and you have inertia. To put it bluntly, there are some things that you may think in your heart and are too lazy to care. How do I feel.

    It may be helpful if you try some team-based sports. You have to say to your negative psychology not to have the courage and confidence to swim against the current! Because you're a boy and you're a man. Rise up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Find more friends to go out to sports, play ball, and other ......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The two of us are almost the same, and we both have two sides.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    People who love life will love you too.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Marshmallow two hangs up, and the next thing should be the story with Su'er.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Correct your mentality, often confide in your friends about what is on your mind, go out for a walk, think about some happy things, and slowly you will get better.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's good to look at "Infinite Horror", in fact, ordinary is the happiest! There is nothing that cannot be thought of, as long as a solution is found, everything is very simple to be yourself, you don't need to envy others and change yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Try to discover your strengths and don't always highlight your weaknesses. A good mood will change you a lot.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I used to be about the same as you.

    Pessimistic people tend to see things that are real.

    The reality may be the same as you think.

    I don't know what it's like to be around you.

    But one day you will truly appreciate what happiness is.

    I hope you are happy.

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