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It's a well-intentioned deception because you don't want to hurt them. This kind of thing still has to rely on yourself, and choosing one is bound to be very painful, and it will hurt the other two innocent girls no matter what. However, you always have to think about yourself, which may be related to your happiness in the second half of your life, so choose one according to your personality!
Or take the extreme route and choose none of the three!
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All I can say is that you're really delighted! Since you can be crying for help, it means that you don't want to pester three more girls, but you can't help it, which is really contradictory! You must make a clear choice, don't deceive and hurt the three girls at the same time, I think you must have someone you like more in your heart, you choose her!
Don't be reluctant!
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Choose for yourself the one you really love.
Don't hurt anything else.
It's good for everyone to end it early.
Off topic, a man like you, if it were me, I definitely wouldn't.
Even if it's the people you love and the people who love you.
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Make a decision about who you want to choose, and then make it clear to the other two.
If you say it well, you can be friends, but if you say it badly, you will become a stranger.
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Men only mature at the age of 40, and if they can't solve the problem by themselves, they are still young. Solve your own problems by yourself.
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Hmph: You're such a nice person.
Deceive people's feelings.
When you go to bed at night, do you sleep?
How did your conscience pass?
I really admire you Ang.
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Let's put it this way. It's that she doesn't like you and doesn't want to be with you.
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It's 22 and you can't give a promise, so when are you going to give it.
At the age of 22, your dad has already given birth to you, don't escape from reality, since you have done it, show some courage and say: I can play!
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You're a whole nerve, and you owe scolding! What can't be promised, if you want to be responsible, you will marry her! If you don't want to be responsible, just follow nature, anyway, if you don't him, the first time someone else will do the same! ~
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Generally speaking, a responsible man would not say such things. You want to say this just to make excuses for wanting to be irresponsible. If you really love her, you should take the responsibility of a man. It's your obligation.
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You are a cowardly person who is afraid to take responsibility.
If you keep going, you won't get anywhere.
You must know that a woman who follows you is destined for a lifetime.
You can't give her a future, don't you even have a plan? You're eating and drinking every day, and you're going to die?
You live to complete your mission in the world to try to do things well instead of things not happening, I'm afraid, that's not what a man should understand, sing "Good Man" 10 times a day, insist on 1 one, and you will understand how a man should treat a woman.
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The landlord is really scolded.
Why are you afraid that you will leave her, because you don't love her enough, love her, you will only be afraid that she will leave you, you don't love her enough, and you have to be with her, and now you can't take responsibility, it's really worthless for a girl, but it's already here, you have to be responsible, it's 22, don't pretend to be a child anymore.
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If you want it, it's a man who has to muster up the courage to face it
If you ask for it, you will be held accountable for your actions.
You have to love her and love her for the rest of your life.
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Normal, it's related to this layer, there will be some changes in feelings, keep walking, where to go....
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It's not small.,It's supposed to be.,Don't worry.,What do you mind if you love each other.。
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22, it's okay, you also have a goal in mind. I wish you happiness.
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Take this kind of thing too seriously!
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Actually, you didn't think about actually being with her, did you?
You don't know what to do in the future.
But you're already aware of it.
That's pretty good.
It's better than some.
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Listen to my buddy, when a girl refuses, you still feel guilty, probably because of the girl's overflowing empathy. But since she couldn't bear to refuse but did so, it shows that she still has serious consideration for you! If you think she is a good girl worth chasing, don't give up and be thick-skinned.
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Girls always have some vanity and hope that someone will like her. She feels guilty because she's a kind child and can't bear to do this to you. I think you should stop chasing her, but still treat her like a good friend, and be a little bit nicer to her than a good friend.
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Show that you have no hope Emotions such as guilt obviously mean that you have been issued a good person....
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I'm having the same issue. I don't know what to do either. How much QQ do you have? It's connected to the same disease.
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He's thanking her for a year's wait. The guilt is not just because of concealment or wrongdoing, what he wants to express is that he is deeply moved by the emotions you have given him for so long. Guilt makes you wait a long time.
Rest assured, your efforts will be rewarded. Don't take his words too seriously. That would be a misunderstanding.
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It's you who are too sensitive, women are like this, you have to have confidence in your love, men are in the army, and they don't have time to take care of their families, so of course he feels guilty about your feelings.
If he had anything to do with his ex, he wouldn't say these things to you in **.
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I think he may feel guilty for making you wait for a year, if you love him, you have to believe him, even if you hide something, there must be hardships, as long as he loves you and cares about you, the rest doesn't matter.
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He just loves that woman more than you, but that woman may not love him as much as you, so he feels guilty.
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It's nothing, you waited for him for a year, and it's normal for him to feel guilty, you think too much, I wish you happiness.
What do you care too much about?? Well, there are a lot of things going on in the troops. I'm sure He loves you.
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It should be more apologetic guilt, and the landlord is more relaxed!
You also said that you have a good relationship, if you love him, you believe him, and your boyfriend is in the army, so you should feel guilty if you wait for him!
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Maybe he's just feeling guilty for feeling like you've waited so long for him? Don't overthink it ... Since the relationship is good, love him and believe him. Bless you all.
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Hehe, I think you are too careful, he is just expressing his admiration for you, and he feels sorry for you for waiting!
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It's because you've waited for him too long that you're too guilty, not because of your ex.
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There are two possibilities: he has someone else, but it is unlikely. And then there's what he's done to be sorry for you.
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Marriage is nothing more than love, sex, and responsibility. The way husband and wife get along with each other and the way of social relations and friends are no different, tolerance, understanding, and communication. It is recommended to compare the above key factors to see where the root cause of the conflict is, and only by finding the root cause and communicating and resolving it will the marriage be harmonious.
As for the psychological thoughts, it depends both on the individual and at the marital status.
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99% of them will feel guilty and regretful.
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Generally speaking, yes, but when the number of times increases, the guilt will slowly disappear.
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If she still loves you, she'll feel guilty.
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You'll find out if you try it once. If you're a man, you find one out once, ask her.
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This shows that her feelings for you should not be love. The better you treat her, the more embarrassed she will be to reject you.
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1. Maybe it's your wishful thinking.
2. Maybe the two of you are not suitable at all.
3. Maybe your girlfriend has someone in her heart who can't let go of her, and she needs someone to enlighten her.
The way to do this is: you have to really go into her heart, to understand her, to enlighten her, and at the same time continue to move her 、、、
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She doesn't like you, it's as simple as that.
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To quote you, "A child cannot choose to be born in a family, and reality cannot allow him to grow up in a privileged environment." This is indeed a mother's deep guilt for her child. Mothers will hope that they can give their children the best things, and your current sense of guilt is your sincere and deep love for your children!
I was very impressed! Because I am also a mother, I understand your feelings very well. You love children, so you can't bear to live a plain life, compared to others are not superior to the life of a quiet person, if you can, you hope that the child can be born with a golden key, if you can ,......You want the best things in the world to belong to your children.
It is estimated that you are very dissatisfied with the current material living environment, and you may live in a relatively poor situation, or you may be angry about your ordinary life in comparison with others. In fact, have you ever thought about what you should give your children as a mother who loves her children deeply, in addition to the material comforts given by the economy? It's mother's love!
Do you want to give your child only material comforts? As a mother, I think you will hope that your child will have a brilliant future and a bright future, but a good family environment and material enjoyment will definitely be able to give your child all these things? Not necessarily.
The mother gives birth to the child and nurtures it so that he can grow up, and my hope for the child is that he will be a happy and upright person. As a mother, the time to accompany the child is actually limited, the most important thing for the child's life is the mother's careful cultivation of his personality, temperament, and quality, and the future road is taken by himself, teaching him the ability to be independent, and it is enough for the mother to be able to take a good life path. You tell me?
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You can't think like this, you don't have to feel guilty, you can let him rent a tomato to come to this world, he is already very grateful to you, it doesn't matter if you don't have a superior family environment, but you must have confidence when you are old, you must have confidence, so that he will have confidence when he grows up and will not be inferior.
I feel very sympathetic to what you are going through, and if it were me, I would have been miserable because I didn't feel the love of my parents. You are cold to your parents now because you feel disheartened and have no sense of home. >>>More