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Our society is a society that cultivates commonality, if you don't fit in, if you are different, you will inevitably be excluded, because you can't change this boring society, you have to adapt to some of its rules of the game.
If you don't want to continue to live a depressed life in high school and step into society, it is also a good choice, but first you have to do some research, you see what kind of jobs people with only high school education can find in society, whether the salary situation can satisfy you, all the jobs you can find are heavy physical work, and you can't accumulate too much social experience by doing that kind of work, and when you enter a large company, people will not think that you have more work experience than others because you have worked as a construction worker on a construction site. Because you can't really learn much in your work except to contribute.
If you want to find a job where you can learn, you must first have quality and ability, and an important way to improve your ability is to study a mixed diploma in a boring school, in fact, you can still learn something. Otherwise, if you are given a proposal with three options to choose from, will you use operations research methods to build a model to analyze the feasibility of the best solution? But when you go to college for two years, you will, this is the ability, with these abilities, will you accumulate work experience faster?
It's a great idea to start your own business, but you should also wait until after college because you will meet a lot of like-minded people who will help you start your business! And now that you are starting a business, you can't even use the software to analyze market risks, can you make a lot of money?
Therefore, it is better to learn more abilities with peace of mind, even if you can't get a high score, but if you have the ability, it is a golden job, and you won't be able to get ahead wherever you go!
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There is no targeted approach. It's up to you to learn or not.
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Be clear about your learning goals.
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Write a letter to someone you especially respect, tell yourself about your study plan, and then, start your own plan
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The most important thing is to be motivated.
Think about what your own hunger motivation is.
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Take learning as a kind of entertainment, to study it, to cultivate fun
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The interest and motivation of learning is based on the goal of learning, the interest of learning, the efficiency of learning, etc., and it is a kind of self-regulation and management ability.
1. Self-confidence is very important, you can't always underestimate yourself, which will affect your efforts for success. Believe in yourself, but you can't ignore the effort. Success is earned by one's own efforts. Faith only serves as an aid to the removal of obstacles.
2. You can study together. Ask friends to study in the library, compare notes with each other, and solve doubts. Learning in groups fills in learning gaps, and discussion strengthens memory.
3. Clarity of goals can improve motivation to learn. If you have a goal but your ability to act is still insufficient, it is mostly because of the resistance, pressure, and lack of control brought by the target task, such as the difficulty of the task and you don't know how to start, the task takes too long and is stressful, and you don't know if you can do it well. To reduce these drags, tasks can be split into intermediate milestones (small goals).
First of all, it reduces the resistance to starting action, and secondly, every time we reach a milestone, we feel that we have made progress, that we have a sense of accomplishment, control, and motivation to continue.
4. Improve the efficiency of learning. Achieving and satisfying in the process of learning is a key element in improving learning motivation. In the process of learning to do things, if the method is not appropriate, and the learning and doing things are seriously frustrated, you will become more and more uninterested, and even have a nasty mood.
Take reading as an example, if the speed is slow, you can't read, and you can't remember, then it is difficult to have the motivation to read, so efficiency is very important. I myself am like this, but after learning to master fast reading through the "Elite Speed Reading Memory Training Software", I basically read at a speed of two or three thousand words per minute (the reading speed of a normal person is 200-500 words per minute). After reading a book quickly, find what interests me, what is important to me, what I don't understand, and then slow down a little bit to read.
Under the strategy of combining speed reading with intensive reading, my reading efficiency has been greatly improved, and my interest and habit of reading have gradually formed. So it's important to find the right way to learn and be productive.
5. When motivation is insufficient, we must also know how to motivate ourselves and find the meaning of learning. For example, analyze the importance of learning, list the benefits that learning may bring you, and what are the harms of not learning. Then set a suitable goal for yourself, and make continuous adjustments and improvements, and the goal is very result-oriented.
In the process, various methods such as incentives and rewards are used to implement and complete the target plan, and turn learning into a habit.
6. Combine work and rest. Plan your study and rest time, study well when you should study, and rest well when you should rest.
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motivate learning;
Passive learning is divided into self-passive and others-passive, and first of all, we should strive to change learning from others' passivity to self-passivity.
For example, studying to win glory for their parents, and studying to prove their abilities. You can even do it in order to gain the favor of a certain girl, I did it when I was in junior high school, and the effect is very good, and the grades are very fast, haha. Passive becomes reluctant, reluctant becomes habitual, habit becomes natural, and naturally there will be fun.
I believe that love arises over time, and if you insist on learning something for a long time, you will have feelings and fun.
Think big, small as hands, and generate a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence through small achievements in passive learning;
I've always felt that our textbooks should be made into small books, because anyone who reads a large book will have a headache and a sense of dread. You can tear a large book into three parts or even.
In the fourth and fifth parts, every time I get a little insight, every time I finish a small part of the book, I tell myself in my heart: You are amazing! And then enjoy yourself. When you are happy, you will naturally be more motivated to learn.
Scholastic spirit; If learning itself doesn't bring you fun, then you have fun in the process;
Confucius said that there is something to be gained by playing, emphasizing learning and pleasure.
For example, you can use Jay Chou's singing style to interpret words that make you feel boring, which will be very interesting;
For example, can you imagine what happened when Mr. wrote this text? Where did you write it? What does a writing desk look like?
Do you smoke? Is there coffee? The coffee was poured by someone of the opposite sex, right?
Who is this person? Is it pretty? When you think about it, you start to have fun, and when you have fun, you like to learn.
Didn't you notice? A good teacher will always turn a thing into a scene and even add a little possible story-based conjecture, and even make fun of the characters behind the story, this is the spirit of learning, and people who don't have the spirit of learning can't become everyone.
Don't think it's not serious, including any of you, is a very humorous person, if he is alive, much more fun than you, he will like you to "learn and have fun" with him, haha!
If you are not good at having fun and are not a person of humor, then you should be a person who likes to challenge difficulties;
Then you take every study you don't want to learn but have to learn as a challenge to yourself. The process of challenging and the fun after a successful challenge are also a kind of learning spirit.
True active learning comes from interest;
It's not just fun, it's fun, it's fun, it's a heartfelt like.
You have to find something that you really like to learn. This is the foundation of active learning.
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Active learning is the process of knowing, being eager to learn, and being happy to learn. The core of knowledge, eagerness to learn, and joy of learning is to have a strong interest in learning. Learning interest is not only a hobby and interest in learning, but also the psychological stability and tendency associated with personal ideals and goals, and is the most realistic and active component of learning enthusiasm.
Passive: never take the initiative to learn, resolutely do not learn without supervision by others, regard learning as a task to do for others, always absent-minded when learning, and do not pay attention to efficiency.
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There are two attitudes to learning. The first is to be troubled by learning, because we can't learn and hate learning, this learning attitude will make us more negative, gradually lose interest in learning, and lead to learning less and less to bring wisdom. Here's an example:
Xiao Liang is a high school freshman with good academic performance, and his parents want him to study science before graduation, but Xiao Liang's dream is to be a poetry connoisseur. After going to study science, Xiaoliang's grades declined quickly, and he was not interested in science, because he preferred liberal arts, and lost his interest in learning.
The second is active learning to achieve the desired goal, the advantage of active learning is that it can improve the ability of self-learning, which is conducive to improving one's own efficiency. For example, Xiao Wang is a sophomore in a high school, and his dream since he was a child was to be a newspaper reporter, so he took the initiative to learn relevant knowledge.
Through his own efforts, he finally became a journalist.
The above information tells us that active learning is better than passive learning, so we need to convince ourselves to learn more actively. Hope.
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1. As far as parents are concerned, because most parents are busy with work, it is easy to ignore their children, especially the psychological growth of children, as the landlord said, you will guard your children to do their homework, but the children may not like it, but are prone to rebellion, I think the landlord may have a similar situation when he is a student, although parents put pressure on their children for the good of their children, but whether the child's psychology can bear it is another matter. 2. As said on the first floor, parents' education should be flexible to bring these dead things to life, I personally think that parents' education is anytime and anywhere, when entertaining, when going on outings, you can take some questions or guidance to let children remember knowledge, and at this time, children generally remember more firmly than rote memorization. 3. The important thing is not to let the child complete the homework assigned by the teacher, parents should also consider how to make the content of these homework dare to make the child dare to be interested, how to absorb what the child can learn through these, at this time, parents can also extend some content so that the child can understand more things, isn't it good.
As a parent, you should guide your children correctly, have time for your children to play every day, and parents should not play cards and games in their free time.