What should I do if my mom and dad fight and want a divorce?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-04
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Communicate with them separately and find that their contradictions are in **, there must be a misunderstanding between husband and wife when they quarrel or something, so that they can understand each other a little. In addition, I agree with the statements of enthusiastic netizens.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you're sure you're going to grow up, then you just have to tell them that you're going to live the best life you think you can do, and you don't have to worry about me.

    If you're still a little sapling that needs to be cared for by your parents, then you tell them that you need your mom and dad to have a good life together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can only try to persuade them, or let them be separated for a while, so that your mother can go back to her parents' house for a few days to see how it goes.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My parents' situation is similar to this, except that they don't fight, it's just a cold war. Eventually, after the negotiation of our children, they divorced. In fact, if our parents are unhappy, we as children should not be selfish, let them separate.

    Better for everyone in the family, and you won't lose their love because of their divorce!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You just say you don't get along with them and leave, maybe they can calm down and think about it, they keep fighting and not leaving, maybe it's for your sake. You can choose to live with one of them, but you also have to recognize the identity of the other, which will always be your father or mother.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My mom and dad are too, they beat me a lot, my mom is so pitiful, my dad is as terrible as a ghost, and today they beat me again, and I cried to death, and I really hope they get a divorce, so that my mother won't be bitter, and I really hope that God can see our mother, who is suffering, and I really hope that I can suffer for my mother.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Talk to their mutual friends, see what they really think, and then persuade them at both ends, believing that they can change their minds.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then act as a mediator between the two, you are not a party, and many things should be analyzed rationally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Talk to them and talk to them about their opinions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let them talk about it, talk about all those contradictions, and solve them together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If divorce can make them happy, let it be fulfilled.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are barely together, you won't be happy, so let's persuade them to separate.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It can be said that you don't like them to fight, can they stop fighting for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can't get by, let them; Leave.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's just leaving, it's not interesting to be together without feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then you should talk to your parents!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's useless to be together without feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Parents quarrel and divorce first to distinguish whether the marital status of both parties is irreconcilable, if so, it is necessary to respect the parents' hospital; If it is not an irreconcilable conflict, the child can play a role in alleviating it.

    Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The marriage relationship is dissolved when the divorce registration is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your parents have no feelings now, don't like each other anymore, quarrel and divorce, you don't care, they want to divorce and let them go, because two people have no feelings together, and they hurt each other, so there is no need to persuade them to reconcile or something.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your mom and dad have a fight and divorce, then you serve as their bond of love. You need to keep them apart for a while and calm down. I calmly take out the reason for the quarrel and bounce it.

    Tell them that since you are so old, you know that marriage is not easy to come by, and you can do it and cherish it. Don't hurt others and yourself because of a little thing. Old companions, old companions, you will be each other's old companions in the future, supporting each other and tolerating each other.

    Only in this way can the marriage continue to operate.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your parents quarrel and divorce, as a child, you should persuade them well, you must know that the divorced family is broken, and you are the most hurt, so you must persuade your parents to calm down.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Mom's quarrel as a child should be persuaded, not let them quarrel, and whose fault it is, you have to point it out seriously, mother's fault, just say that mom is wrong, dad dad is wrong, just say dad is wrong, and then you have to stop them from getting divorced, you say I'm so old, I'm also your flesh and blood, you divorce at this time, it will have a great impact on me and my future, you can't delay and destroy the whole family because of your impulsiveness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello, if your mother is quarreling and is getting divorced, you as a child, you can let them not quarrel and let them sit down and talk about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's going to rain, and my mother is going to get married, or something you can't control. You can only persuade both sides and try to resolve the contradictions between them, but if you can't do it, you can only follow their wishes, for you they are inseparable from your parents.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you should calm their emotions, because sometimes divorce is just impulsive.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Quarrels and divorces are nothing new? Your dad and your mom quarrel and then get a divorce, you can separate the two of them first and let them calm down, after the cooling-off period, I think they should be able to recover as before, and when they quarrel, they get divorced, and they can't take it seriously.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think you should have a good talk with them. Let them all think about it for you. If they really love you, they will definitely consider your feelings. In other words, after the parents quarrel, they have a good discussion. It should be good if you build a bridge of communication again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Dad and Mom quarrel and divorce, what can you do? First of all, you have to judge whether they are a matter of principle or an ordinary small problem, if it is a matter of principle, you should think about your own way out, think about who to talk to, if it is an ordinary small problem, just match it and let them solve it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Let them solve their own affairs, and you can't manage them. If you love your parents very much, you can beg your parents not to divorce in the name of your children. But remember not to take sides when advising parents, otherwise it will exacerbate their conflict and be counterproductive.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, what should I do? If your parents quarrel and divorce, you have to persuade your parents well, tell them about it, let them check their own shortcomings, ease the atmosphere, let them all calm down and think about it, and they will understand that they will not make a divorce.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, you study hard as a child, keep your grades, and in the future, no matter who you live with, you will have to go to college.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you don't have to care about anything, let them quarrel on their own, you are your own, do your own thing, and then go out.

    Maybe they'll have good ones.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can act as a bridge between them, take the initiative to communicate with their father and mother, find out the reason for their quarrel, and then solve it, so that it is possible to resolve the conflict and become the original harmonious family.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Mom and Dad quarrel about divorce, and the first thing you should do is to stop them from divorcing. And to be a peacemaker in the middle, let them resolve the contradictions as soon as possible. Let you have a warm home.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hello landlord, I don't know how old you are now, if you are still under the age of 18, if your parents are really divorced, you can choose one party to continue to live, of course, now they are in the divorce because of participation, ask them to quarrel and then mediate and ask them to do a good chat (you can also find your family's authority to mediate together, not a matter of principle should be mutually understandable.)

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Let Mom and Dad separate for a while to calm down. , sometimes hot-headed in a quarrel will make irrational choices. You make peace from it, and turn the big things into small things and the small things. As for how to do it, it depends on how you find the solution point to cut into the matter.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You have to do a good job in this situation, you are a third party ready to do a good job here, you have a good relationship with your father, your mother and you, you can adjust them from this, see you as a bond, as long as you handle their relationship well, the divorce of your parents is inseparable.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You try to help persuade peace. Do your best to save their marriage and relationship, that's what you should be who you are. The duty of due diligence.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Parents quarrel and divorce, you should know what the reason is, you should tell them both that they should understand and tolerate each other. They are the ones who brought you into this world, and they should be responsible for you, you need to have a proper home, not want to be in a single-parent family.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Hello, you can first understand why you quarrel, if it is because of some small things then you can persuade them, but if you have been arguing for a long time, then there is no need to persuade, even if they you persuade them, they do not quarrel for you, but they are torture for them, so if it is really not good, you will consider who to talk to.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Mom and Dad always quarrel and say they want a divorce, and I think they are just angry and not true. You should persuade them to communicate more together, and I think they will understand you. It is also for you not to get divorced, nothing is as good as a sound home, and if you maintain your home well, you will be happy.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think that if Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you can not be influenced by them, let them go their own way, and don't not divorce because of you, after all, marital happiness belongs to the two of them.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, if you can't change the outcome of their divorce, then you don't have to stop it, you can consider inheriting property and choosing a guardian, in short, although it hurts feelings, but you also need to think about yourself.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You'd better talk to your parents alone to see what conflicts lead them to the point of divorce, feel that their marriage is still worth saving, you can reconcile it, if it's really incompatible, you just give up, I wish them well, you also have to live with peace of mind, don't let their things affect you, redouble your efforts, and make yourself better and better in the future.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    A family has an emotional crisis, facing a family to break up, but the most innocent is the child, the father always beats the mother This is also a kind of domestic violence So as a child, there is no way to only see the parents can not maintain the family can only divorce You are already old I want to explain to my parents Why don't you go with your father or otherwise this situation seems to be impossible You can also solve your parents' domestic violence through the law If your father can change it, you can also live it. You come forward to persuade them, don't make trouble anymore, think about the children, how can there be no obstacles. It's all right. Let's understand everything and good luck.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If dad often hits mom, you should understand the reason for this, and if it is dad's responsibility, you should talk to her about it for the sake of the child. For the sake of the family, so that the two of them should face life rationally, if you really want to break up, you should consider following yourself appropriately, to see what is beneficial to your life, growth and learning, but also to see who the court awards and custody with.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    What age is it, your father is still beating your mother, if you are an adult, you can communicate more with your father, let him treat this behavior, if you are still young and incapable, you can also persuade your father to say, don't be a mother anymore, your mother is very hard, if he always doesn't listen, your mother can't stand his beating and scolding, divorce is possible, you can persuade them to better not divorce, divorced children will not have a sense of security.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Domestic violence is the most cruel, your father often beats your mother, you have to call 110 to call the police, protect your mother, if their marriage has reached the point of no return, then only divorce to solve the problem, you better follow your mother, it is estimated that your father is a man who has no responsibility and no action.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Strive to be with my mother, my father is abusive, and I can't change the fact that I can't change it. If you continue to live with your father, your father who has a tendency to domestic violence will more or less affect his personality, and it will also have a bad impact on his future view of marriage and love.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If your father abused your mom and now your parents are facing divorce. In this case, you should correct your father's mistakes in time, let him know the harm of domestic violence to a woman, let him apologize and admit his mistakes in time, or your mother's forgiveness to protect your family from being broken.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Daddy, hit Mommy. What is the reason for watching? It was he who drank and got drunk.

    Or for other reasons. But for whatever reason, men are not allowed to throw their fists at women, and men's fists are for beating the world, and in this case you should fight for your mother and convince your father. If your father is adamant and still raises his hand to beat people, then he has to get a divorce, what should you do?

    Follow the Mother. Good life. And take care of your mother.

    It's your responsibility.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's not right for your dad to beat your mom, and your mom can't stand it. So if your parents divorce, you will live with your father at that time, you just need to study hard or work hard, and you can't take care of adult affairs. You just do your job and live well.

    Mom and Dad are not happy together, so they can only divorce!!

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